Anna - you take too much literally. I gave you examples, you give me examples. We can keep going, but why? Am I going to change your mind, no. Are you mine, no.
1, God did give me my husband,He gave me my children, He gave me life - He knew me before I was anyone.
2, Killing a bunch of innocent babies - I don't understand why it is like that, but, I assume you are talking of when the Hebrews were in bondage to Pharaoh, well - the way I believe that it was better for them to go as babies, because they will forever reign in Heaven - than had they grown up to worship idols and perish. You see, children go to Heaven, no matter what - but it doesn't work like that for adults.
3, Being silent under the man - no, that's not what it means to me
4, Multiply sorrow....bring forth children - I love that. To me, out of our pain we get the greatest gift: children. What a gift, the way I see it, was given to Eve and us from that point on.
5, Husband shall rule over thee - if your husband is where he should be as the spiritual head of your house, there is nothing wrong with that. I do not live in bondage. I speak my mind, I make valuable decisions, I co-own our business, homes, cars. What it means to me is he is ultimately responsible to take care of me and my children and in that sense, he is the ruler of my house.
6, Corinthians and Ephesians were letters written to churches. They are meant to correct or approve of actions that were occurring there at that time. They are not meant for all.
7, Submit to your husbands - ok, as long as he is where he should be as the spiritual head of my house.
Now I have to say I will research more into the Timothy scriptures, other than that, there's nothing wrong with what I read as I interpret it.