EtuMalku
Abn Iblis ابن إبليس
I agree with your thoughts, but I also believe that the everyday Believer in any of these three Abrahamic faiths are part of a bigger corrupt institution, of which they are kept as pawns in a game of Religious dominance. So, yeah Joe Average is commited to his faith and religion, but his religion (as the institution not the Belief system) is corrupt and manipulative. We've see it many times throughout history.
And yet simultaneously teaches religious tolerance.
Here's where I'll always defend Islam: it's goal is to reach Allah; whether or not others do is between them and Allah. From my understanding, the violent parts of the Qur'an are not meant to be eternal, but specific to the time when they were revealed.
If Islam's goal was to "rid the world of infidels," then every single Muslim would be trying to convert people, and those who didn't listen would be killed. The fact that, from my observations, it's actually a minority who actually do this, I can reasonably conclude that the goal you've provided for Islam is incorrect.