I have a girlfriend.
Most of those books talk abuot the GENERAL differences. They will also stress the fact that many women may be """like men""" in some stuff and men """ like women"" in other stuff depending on the men and the women.
For example, women tend to like to talk more things out than men emotionaly, but with my girlfriend, I am the oen who needs to talk when somethings needs to be said, otherwise she tends to fake it´s okay.
She is also a lot more practical than me when men tend to bbe the more practical ones. I am the one who makes goofy jokes and act childish all the time so she smiles and laughs when she feels down
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She is very """girly""" int the fact that she loves to cook and sew, but that doesn´t mean cooking is ""for women"". A lot of women can´t heat water without doing something wrong while many men can be professional cheffs.
So I´ve read the books and have a girlfriend and I still would need you to point out to me ANY ATTRIBUTE that successfully answers my question.