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The last post is the WINNER!

JustGeorge

Imperfect
Staff member
Premium Member
I bet. What are you doing?

Hey, I emptied several boxes in the garage and that was a lot of work.
Sam wants to paint the entire room and ensemble a the boys' new loft bed.

Can he do it? Yeah, half ***ed and at the expense of everyone around him. I will never understand why he can't break tasks up into smaller chunks and do them over a longer period of time. He upsets himself, and everyone around him.
I read that as project runway
That's kind of the attitudes that are prevalent.

I still need to get my top hat, though. The men's clothing store moving out of the neighborhood really made that more difficult for me.
 
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Dan From Smithville

The Flying Elvises, Utah Chapter
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What about toe jam? It was popular as a song lyric, but doesn't seem popular otherwise.

Toe jam football.

And the unedited version for the fans.

 

Dan From Smithville

The Flying Elvises, Utah Chapter
Staff member
Premium Member
Sam wants to paint the entire room and ensemble a the boys' new loft bed.

Can he do it? Yeah, half ***ed and at the expense of everyone around him. I will never understand why he can't break tasks up into smaller chunks and do them over a longer period of time. He upsets himself, and everyone around him.

That's kind of the attitudes that are prevalent.

I still need to get my top hat, though. The men's clothing store moving out of the neighborhood really made that more difficult for me.
I used to be like that. If I was assembling a model car, airplane or the like, I would do it all in one go or it wouldn't get done at all. I've gotten better. Practicality was a driving force in changing my address of large jobs.

The other problem, and I've only recently come to understand the meaning of it, was if I couldn't do it perfectly, I would lose interest in trying. Again, I've gotten better. It has to do with understanding that I'm actually one of those people that I've always scoffed at. A perfectionist.
 

JustGeorge

Imperfect
Staff member
Premium Member
I used to be like that. If I was assembling a model car, airplane or the like, I would do it all in one go or it wouldn't get done at all. I've gotten better. Practicality was a driving force in changing my address of large jobs.

The other problem, and I've only recently come to understand the meaning of it, was if I couldn't do it perfectly, I would lose interest in trying. Again, I've gotten better. It has to do with understanding that I'm actually one of those people that I've always scoffed at. A perfectionist.
I think that's how he does it, too. He'll admit he's a perfectionist, though, and scoff at the rest of us because we're not.

I really wouldn't mind so much if it wasn't for all the negative comments towards everyone.
 

Dan From Smithville

The Flying Elvises, Utah Chapter
Staff member
Premium Member
I think that's how he does it, too. He'll admit he's a perfectionist, though, and scoff at the rest of us because we're not.

I really wouldn't mind so much if it wasn't for all the negative comments towards everyone.
I had a friend growing up that considered himself a perfectionist. I used to razz him about it. Told that perfectionism implies a perfect that can be known and attained, and we can't know it or attain it. And that visions of perfection vary with the person, place and time. They can't all be right.

Then a few years ago, I was reading, a then recent article on the subject and it described the characteristics of perfectionists and my eyes got big and my jaw dropped. It was describing many of my own traits. So took that seriously to see what I could do to address some of those traits and to take things more in stride.

I'm not openly negative to others, and in large part I'm not really concerned with what others do that doesn't effect me, but some perfectionists can be rather hostile in the manner.
 

JustGeorge

Imperfect
Staff member
Premium Member
I had a friend growing up that considered himself a perfectionist. I used to razz him about it. Told that perfectionism implies a perfect that can be known and attained, and we can't know it or attain it. And that visions of perfection vary with the person, place and time. They can't all be right.

Then a few years ago, I was reading, a then recent article on the subject and it described the characteristics of perfectionists and my eyes got big and my jaw dropped. It was describing many of my own traits. So took that seriously to see what I could do to address some of those traits and to take things more in stride.

I'm not openly negative to others, and in large part I'm not really concerned with what others do that doesn't effect me, but some perfectionists can be rather hostile in the manner.
I think you handled the discovery of this personality trait in a pretty awesome way. Way to go!
 

Dan From Smithville

The Flying Elvises, Utah Chapter
Staff member
Premium Member
I think you handled the discovery of this personality trait in a pretty awesome way. Way to go!
I am never sure about the ignore function, but recently I just decided to put two people on it. It was pretty clear no matter how hard I tried, they had no interest in learn anything. And I was beating a dead horse. Sooner or later, I was going to say something I shouldn't and came close more than once in my opinion. Nothing I did in that case was going to make things perfect. Or even sufficient.

But now it is. Out of sight, out of mind.
 

John53

I go leaps and bounds
Premium Member
I am never sure about the ignore function, but recently I just decided to put two people on it. It was pretty clear no matter how hard I tried, they had no interest in learn anything. And I was beating a dead horse. Sooner or later, I was going to say something I shouldn't and came close more than once in my opinion. Nothing I did in that case was going to make things perfect. Or even sufficient.

But now it is. Out of sight, out of mind.

Is there a prize if I can guess which two?
 
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