That doesn't make sense in light of the fact that A. You were doing something illegal that you could be caught doing and B. You were caught doing it! The only surefire way of not being caught doing something illegal/taboo/harmful is to not do any of it in the first place. This of course means you have to follow the rules and the paradox spirals out of control.
You could get caught doing anything, including stealing the cookie from the cookie jar, but that doesn't stop you if you're confident you're safe from getting caught.
I didn't get caught in the way it mattered to me, I would only just avoid going to jail.
Sure a person can get caught with this moral code, but it must be when they weren't aware they would get caught. Sometimes people break their moral code on accident, in fact it's not uncommon.
Now I'll admit "try not to get caught" is rule one if you're looking to do something naughty
however as a rule to live by it just doesn't work. You have to go a little further with your "ultimately it's all meaningless" line of thought.
Why so?
Yes ultimately the world's most sadistic killers will be dust along with selfless philanthropists, but that's a while off yet. You have to consider the here and now. What do you value? What are your goals? How will you go about achieving them? It doesn't really matter if you don't care how other people feel, they're still going to be a part of your everyday life and you need to figure out a way of handling them... preferably in a manner that won't bring a whole load of faeces down on your own head.
Eh... that's not the ONLY reason why we're meaningless, we're meaningless even if we lasted forever.
What X values doesn't matter to Y, because he values a different thing.
What I think you're not understanding is sure I live with people every day, but people aren't the only thing in the universe, they're close enough to be considered nothing in it.
If I can rape someone and get away with it, is it still wrong?
Only to some people. Objectively, no. What some people's opinions are don't matter, if your morality is the only one that you follow.