There are always a heavy supply of threads on religious type forums regarding homosexuality especially when debating the fact that it is wrong or against wrong or whatever.
What I notice the most in these discussions and debates is when outspoken conservative christians come out with what they call the truth about homosexuality, they are quite hateful towards the sexuality. This could be understandable if it ended there but it doesnt. There seems to be this irrational fear or hate towards the person with the sexuality. Is this what it means to follow jesus?
In my opinon, if these people truly cared about us and saw us as equal human beings they would do the obligatory mention that it is a sin and we may burn or whatever but it would end there. They wouldnt then disown, humiliate, embarass, bash, harass etc said person.
I think it's basically a matter of turning focus away from themselves and things they fear about themselves -avoiding guilt or shame which they have been taught to feel.
I liken it to a drowning person whose fear causes them to panic and use those nearby as a means to stay afloat -even their rescuer -potentially causing them to drown.
I think it's the exact same basic fear.
Some guy may have seen a penis and liked it -came to hate that about himself -projected that onto gays... because it's much more pleasant to hate something external.
Or... if someone has never had any sort of homosexual thought or experience.... thinks themselves to be right/without flaw by comparing themselves to another they view as flawed, as a means of avoiding the flaws they know exist in themselves....
People do not like to honestly examine themselves for flaws or errors, but project those things onto others and cause them to do what they hate to do themselves.
In disowning, bashing, humiliating, etc... one is essentially saying another is flawed -and forcing them to see themselves as flawed -even if they are not.
It is not only done to homosexuals -it's pretty much universal.
If there is a point to be made about anything anyone sees as wrong, it should be made out of concern and with respect, if it is any of their business in the first place -and that really should be the end of it unless it directly affects them adversely.