My dad wants me to do things with his family today. If anything, I wouldn't mind tormenting his nephew that he got a business degree, the ultimate degree for unfulfilled dreams and ambitions that are passed out like candy on Halloween. He gets to sit in a building all day managing a Rent-A-Center. I'm actually making a positive difference in people's lives. And I didn't flunk German like he did, despite his trying to pretend he's smarter than what he actually is. (I'm finding out I never really got over my dad walking out when he did and I have no emotional attachments to him and don't even want him around when I'm needing support or comfort).
I think I might have to clearly verbally state "I don't consider your family my family" to straighten things out that I don't really like my dad's family, they've never been a part of my life, and no one really showed any interest in my until it was discovered I'm really smart and doing very well in school and it was realized that eventually I would have the potential to take care of my dad's free loading sisters and brothers like he does. Except I'm not going to do that. There are starving and abused critters who need my help, and wolves who need me to adopt them.