Now that all the fireworks have died down I just wanted to share an excerpt from a talk given by Abdu'l-Baha in 1912 during his 9 months in America. This was over 100 years ago and it highlights how far we have come and reminds us that many of us on this discussion are probably from countries where we take some of these principles for granted. However even in the West the experiences for many of us are that there is a long way to go. Viewing the generation of my parents I see many were deprived of opportunities of education, men too, and how it restricted their lives. In my professional life I have seen the consequences of a lack of parenting has had on many of my patients when working in both psychiatry and general practice. At the heart of this is the special relationship mothers have with their children and what happens when this attachment at an early age is adversely affected. I agree fathers are just as important but often in different ways. As has been rightly highlighted this is about 'all people' and not just men or women. Its about shifts in values and attitudes that make the world a better place for us all.
"The status of woman in former times was exceedingly deplorable, for it was the belief of the Orient that it was best for woman to be ignorant. It was considered preferable that she should not know reading or writing in order that she might not be informed of events in the world. Woman was considered to be created for rearing children and attending to the duties of the household. If she pursued educational courses, it was deemed contrary to chastity; hence women were made prisoners of the household. The houses did not even have windows opening upon the outside world. Bahá’u’lláh destroyed these ideas and proclaimed the equality of man and woman. He made woman respected by commanding that all women be educated, that there be no difference in the education of the two sexes and that man and woman share the same rights. In the estimation of God there is no distinction of sex. One whose thought is pure, whose education is superior, whose scientific attainments are greater, whose deeds of philanthropy excel, be that one man or woman, white or colored, is entitled to full rights and recognition; there is no differentiation whatsoever." Abdu'l-Baha