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Understanding the holy scriptures is impossible unless God gives you the interpretation

Elihoenai

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The difference between food and sex is that we need food to live but we do not need sex to live.
We only need sex if we are trying to have children, the purpose for which sex was created.

The sex instinct has been abused since most people use it for pleasure. They can pretend it is not for pleasure, that it is necessary in a loving relationship, but they are just fooling themselves. If they did not need it for pleasure then they could forego the orgasm.
Food is needed to live and Sex for the species to live on.

That's correct, Sex is for Procreation purposes only. Men/Women Abuse themselves and others because of Inherited Rebellion Against Elohim/God.

With Food you can Regulate with Fasting and Limiting what types of Food you eat. I Am Vegan. Do you Fast? Are you a Vegan or Vegetarian?






According to my religion, we are living at the spiritual low water mark in history.

"In response to another letter enquiring if there were any legitimate way in which a person could express the sex instinct if, for some reason, he were unable to marry or if outer circumstances such as economic factors were to cause him to delay marriage, the Guardian's secretary wrote on his behalf:

'Concerning your question whether there are any legitimate forms of expression of the sex instinct outside of marriage: According to the Bahá'í Teachings no sexual act can be considered lawful unless performed between lawfully married persons. Outside of marital life there can be no lawful or healthy use of the sex impulse.'

"In another letter on the Guardian's behalf, also to an individual believer, the secretary writes:

'Amongst the many other evils afflicting society in this spiritual low water mark in history is the question of immorality, and over-emphasis of sex...'

"This indicates how the whole matter of sex and the problems related to it have assumed far too great an importance in the thinking of present-day society.

Lights of Guidance (second part): A Bahá'í Reference File, pp. 364-365
Matthew 19:12

12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.



People have Rejected the Spiritual for the Flesh over thousands of years because Natural is what we are born with.

Also in the Lights of Guidance: "...The Bahá'ís do not believe in the suppression of the sex impulse but in its regulation and control.'..."

Christian Gnostics Destroy the Sexual Impulse. When you are Celibate and Intend to remain so the Sexual Impulse has no use.
 
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It Aint Necessarily So

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Those 10 Commandments haven't changed, nor are they hard to understand.
Maybe you can explain exactly what honoring one's parents entails? Obeying them? Glorifying with rituals or banquets or speeches to recognize or reward achievement. Just kidding. You'd be guessing like I would. One can choose either of those or something else if he likes, and that's my point. You say it isn't hard to understand the Ten Commandments, but that one is ambiguous, as is thou shalt not kill. Taken literally, that forbids hunting, cutting down trees, and picking vegetables.
the spiritual discernment will definitely arise even if it was not there at the beginning, so long as one sincerely seeks.
I translate that as, "As one continues training himself to think without skepticism, he will eventually no longer experience cognitive dissonance at the ambiguity and contradiction in scripture." The tip-off is the word sincerely. Sincerity here means abandoning critical thought. If one allows himself to continue judging scripture as an outsider would, he is not sincerely seeking by this way of thinking.
Shoghi Effendi determined that King James English was the best form to portray Persian and Arabic to English speakers.
That audience is pre-wired to respond to that kind of language as if it were of divine provenance. Just change verbs like give to giveth or givest, you to thou, and add a lot of flowery imagery and pomp: "O! Thou who givest the light of eternal wisdom art holy."
The natural man says, "you think too much. Life should be fun, so let us go chase some skirts and have a few beers. You can think all you want tomorrow."
That's a cartoonish depiction. I presume by natural man you mean somebody who hasn't conformed to religious rules about self-denial. This exchange took place here on RF yesterday, and I think it applies here as well:

He: "Hedonism destroys good character - no matter who you are."

Me: "I suspect that your definition of hedonism is the pursuit of happiness and satisfaction. Along with life and liberty, that's actually considered a worthy pursuit according to the Declaration of Independence, and I agree.

"I've been called a hedonist by many believers simply because I live outside of religion, which is often described as an immoral attempt to live a libertine life free from accountability and to rebelliously establish myself as a god. I leave that guilt trip to those willing to believe it. I'm anticipating a morning of leisure with my wife and dogs in our home followed by an afternoon of bridge at the bridge club and a nice dinner afterward with another couple followed by a return home to watch the sun go down on our terrace while watching the news, Jeopardy, Kimmel and Colbert's monologues, and then music videos over wine. I'm certain that you disapprove.

"Christianity is all about getting you to sacrifice your own pleasure for others. You're to raise a slew of children however impoverished that makes you and them, and to give to the church until it hurts. You're to forsake pleasure that costs money and to feel guilty about spending money on yourself. As I said, I leave that to people that will buy into that mindset."​
Sex is for Procreation purposes only.
Here's one of those irrational rules commanding self-denial and implying that sexual pleasure is immoral. Our bodies were obviously made to enjoy sex. It is a perversion of nature to attempt to suppress that.
Men/Women Abuse themselves and others because of Inherited Rebellion Against Elohim/God.
And another. It's such a dour perspective. How sad for those who have never lived free from those kinds of thoughts. What you call abuse and rebellion is whatever you religion commands that is ignored.
The Bible teaches SPIRITUAL TRUTHS.
Whenever I've encountered that claim in the past, I used to ask for examples of some of these spiritual truths, but all ever got was crickets, so these days, I don't ask. I tell. I simply state that you have no such spiritual truths to offer as evidence in support of your claim.

The term spiritual truth actually has no meaning. Truth is the quality that correct ideas possess, and ideas are know to be (or known not to be) correct empirically (science, the experience of daily life) or using pure reason (mathematics, syllogism, the laws of thought).

The authentic spiritual experience isn't a claim that can be true or not. It's a warm psychological experience of connection and belonging associated with awe, a sense of mystery, and a sense of gratitude. It isn't true or false. Analogous psychological experiences are the experience of beauty and of humor. Just as the spiritual experience tells us what we find transcendent, the others tell us what is beautiful and funny to us, two experiences that border on the spiritual experience. A beautiful sunset or a great belly laugh also recreate that sense of belonging and contentment.
Looking for scientific facts and/or literal history clearly shows that you have no idea what the Bible is about. An example: You wrote, 1) "Of course, the authors of the Pentateuch, believed them to be accurate history" and 2) "There is no reason I can come up with that the authors believed otherwise. The authors made no reference to 3) the writings being symbolic or anecdotal or subject to personal interpretation." So, your own words have proven my point! YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE BIBLE.
Actually, it's you who doesn't understand scripture. Of course those stories were told as literal accounts of natural history (creation myth) and human history (Garden story, flood story, Exodus, virgin birth and resurrection). Nobody knew and few if any claimed that the stories were wrong for centuries, and they were believed to have come from an honest, loving god.

Today, we know better, and this is why the believer is not the one to go to about what scripture means. One should trust his own judgment if he is an open-minded skeptic. The believer reads scripture with the assumption that it contains no mistakes and that the god depicted therein is perfectly good, then proceeds to generate any number of just-so corrections to try to make it seem so. The most glaring place to do that is with biblical natural and human history, and one begins by claiming that the Bible writers didn't mean what they wrote, that a day isn't a day, and that these stories were meant as allegory and contain deep hidden truths. No they weren't and no they don't
which other parts of God's written word do you believe are inaccurate?
I'd start with attributing any of it to a god.
Why do you think that the Bible is a historical and/or scientific textbook?
It isn't, but it tried to do that. It tried to tell man what happened in the past and how the world works. For example our world is flat, immovable, set on pillars and domed in which dome the stars are rotating around earth and through which dome the rain leaks
I don't care at all what you think of my "agenda".
You don't need to. I do. Your agenda, which I described, above is very relevant to me regarding understanding why you say the things you say about scripture and unbelievers. You're anxious to disqualify dissenting opinion, but can't. You can only say that you consider those opinions wrong, that those who hold them are unqualified to hold or express them, and that you don't care what others believe anyway.

I used to collect examples of the faithful trying to disqualify dissenting opinions. Here's the tail end of that list. These people weren't any more successful in stifling dissent than you have been:

[55] You are a heretic with little if any understanding of Scripture. If you did study the Bible it was in a Laurel and Hardy College in Tijuana

[56] Like I say there are no errors in the bible only skeptics that can't read and comprehend.

[57] You're a Biblical ignoramus.

[58] You need Jehovah’s approval to understand His word.

[59] Please don't say, 'how can I trust it? The Bible contradicts itself'. That will only be evidence to me that you don't understand what it's ancient writers meant, and don't want to.

[60] I guess the issue here is, one of us has studied the original languages of the Bible, and has a degree in biblical studies and religion.

[61] You need a spiritual susceptibility to recognize Him through His verses, if not, you're out of luck.

[62] You lack the basic knowledge needed for a debate

[63] If you do not believe in God, His things will be beyond your comprehension.

[64] Your interpretation is invalid, as your intention appears to be insincere.

[65]the typical oblivious understanding of an atheist, in their incessant attempt to try and undermine the wisdom of the Bible.

[66] Since you weren't raised religious, and seem not to have ever rec'd any real religious education, and you only had some fun trying on Christianity in the military. It's probaby good to accept your ignorance on these matters.
 

2ndpillar

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Maybe you can explain exactly what honoring one's parents entails? Obeying them? Glorifying with rituals or banquets or speeches to recognize or reward achievement. Just kidding. You'd be guessing like I would. One can choose either of those or something else if he likes, and that's my point. You say it isn't hard to understand the Ten Commandments, but that one is ambiguous, as is thou shalt not kill. Taken literally, that forbids hunting, cutting down trees, and picking vegetables.
The Hebrew wording of the 6th commandment is to not murder. On the other hand, as a Progressive humanist, you can apparently murder the unborn, and cut off body parts of the young. As for honoring one's parents, just dishonor them, and find out how soon you die before your time.
 

It Aint Necessarily So

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The Hebrew wording of the 6th commandment is to not murder. On the other hand, as a Progressive humanist, you can apparently murder the unborn, and cut off body parts of the young. As for honoring one's parents, just dishonor them, and find out how soon you die before your time.
Enlightening as always - an unsupported claim followed by circularity. If honoring is undefined, so is dishonoring.

The last Bible I looked at said to not kill. Murder is a different word with a different meaning. Murder is deliberate, illegal homicide. The law is a poor standard for deciding morality. I imagine the Holocaust violated no laws in Nazi Germany and thus wasn't murder. The point is that the text is ambiguous. One can claim that killing is forbidden or that it is only murder that is forbidden.

Likewise with the honoring thing. It means whatever one wants it to mean.
 

2ndpillar

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Enlightening as always - an unsupported claim followed by circularity. If honoring is undefined, so is dishonoring.

The last Bible I looked at said to not kill. Murder is a different word with a different meaning. Murder is deliberate, illegal homicide. The law is a poor standard for deciding morality. I imagine the Holocaust violated no laws in Nazi Germany and thus wasn't murder. The point is that the text is ambiguous. One can claim that killing is forbidden or that it is only murder that is forbidden.

Likewise with the honoring thing. It means whatever one wants it to mean.
Yeah, but there are consequences for not knowing the law. And there are consequences for breaking the law. They say ignorance of the law is not a defense. You can rationalize the killing of the unborn and maiming children, but you have a problem figuring out what honoring a person means. I don't know, it is probably better not to be you.
 

Trailblazer

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Food is needed to live and Sex for the species to live on.

That's correct, Sex is for Procreation purposes only. Men/Women Abuse themselves and others because of Inherited Rebellion Against Elohim/God.

With Food you can Regulate with Fasting and Limiting what types of Food you eat. I Am Vegan. Do you Fast? Are you a Vegan or Vegetarian?
No, I am not a vegan or a vegetarian but I would like to be.

People could regulate their sex instinct as well as their food intake, but to each his or her own. I am not one to judge anyone, that is God's job.
People are no more going to give up sex than they are going to stop eating because they do not see anything 'wrong' with sex and in fact society and the media has convinced them that they need sex. I used to think that way but. I gave it up willingly because I realized what it was doing to me. At one time in my life I was consumed with desire and I was oblivious what it was doing to me until I read the scriptures of my own religion, which are really no different from the Bible.

34.
O Dwellers of My Paradise!
With the hands of loving-kindness I have planted in the holy garden of paradise the young tree of your love and friendship, and have watered it with the goodly showers of My tender grace; now that the hour of its fruiting is come, strive that it may be protected, and be not consumed with the flame of desire and passion.
The Hidden Words of Baha'u'llah

The scriptures are clear on self-denial for love of God. I do not want to be in the prison of self. I was released from that prison over 20 years ago and I never want to go back.

Matthew 16:23-24 But he turned, and said unto Peter, Get thee behind me, Satan: thou art an offence unto me: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but those that be of men. Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.

40: O MY SERVANT! Free thyself from the fetters of this world, and loose thy soul from the prison of self. Seize thy chance, for it will come to thee no more. The Hidden Words of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 36

7.
O Son of Man!
If thou lovest Me, turn away from thyself; and if thou seekest My pleasure, regard not thine own; that thou mayest die in Me and I may eternally live in thee.

8.
O Son of Spirit!
There is no peace for thee save by renouncing thyself and turning unto Me; for it behooveth thee to glory in My name, not in thine own; to put thy trust in Me and not in thyself, since I desire to be loved alone and above all that is.

30.
O Bondslave of the World!
Many a dawn hath the breeze of My loving-kindness wafted over thee and found thee upon the bed of heedlessness fast asleep. Bewailing then thy plight it returned whence it came.

31.
O Son of Earth!
Wouldst thou have Me, seek none other than Me; and wouldst thou gaze upon My beauty, close thine eyes to the world and all that is therein; for My will and the will of another than Me, even as fire and water, cannot dwell together in one heart.

32.
O Befriended Stranger!
The candle of thine heart is lighted by the hand of My power, quench it not with the contrary winds of self and passion. The healer of all thine ills is remembrance of Me, forget it not. Make My love thy treasure and cherish it even as thy very sight and life.

The Hidden Words of Baha'u'llah
People have Rejected the Spiritual for the Flesh over thousands of years because Natural is what we are born with.
The reason is because sex feels good and people want to feel good more than they want to be close to God.
There will be no sex in heaven, then what are those people going to do for fun?
Also in the Lights of Guidance: "...The Bahá'ís do not believe in the suppression of the sex impulse but in its regulation and control.'..."
Regulation and control means that sex is only allowed withing marriage, under Baha'i Laws.
Christian Gnostics Destroy the Sexual Impulse. When you are Celibate and Intend to remain so the Sexual Impulse has no use.
The question remains: Is the desire still there? I have no sexual desire and haven't since I stopped having sex. I would not even be thinking about sex unless the topic came up on the forum.
 

It Aint Necessarily So

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Yeah, but there are consequences for not knowing the law.
This is deflection. It's irrelevant to the discussion, which was about ambiguity in the Ten Commandments.
you have a problem figuring out what honoring a person means.
No, you do. I've asked you what you think your Bible means with that word, and it's been all crickets, which was my point.
it is probably better not to be you.
Better for you, because you're ill equipped to live my life. I'm comfortable without religion. You depend on it for everything.

Atheism isn't for everybody. It's easier to believe in a god than not. Being an atheist means that there is no devil to blame, no expectation of reuniting with deceased loved ones, no personal protection from the cosmos, only one life to live, personal responsibility for one's choices, nobody watching over you or answering your prayers, marginalization in a theistic society, and no easy explanations for our existence.

To the theist I say, try standing up like the bipedal ape you were born to be, and look out into the universe, which may be almost empty, and which may contain no gods at all. And then face and accept the very real possibility that we may be all there is for light years, that you may be vulnerable and not watched over. Accept the likelihood of your own mortality and finitude, of consciousness ending with death, of maybe not seeing the departed again. Accept the reality of your likely insignificance everywhere but earth, and that you might be unloved except by those who know you - people, and maybe a few animals. Because as far as we know, that's how it is.

But that's likely out of reach for you now. Assuming that you're over forty, you've waited too long. It's no more possible for you to become like me than for me to become like you. It was very difficult for me to burrow out of religion, but I was still young and adaptable, and managed the transformation.

In that sense, it's like quitting cigarettes. The older you are when you try, the less likelihood of success. I've treated 60+-year olds coughing up blood that can't quit despite the motivation to maybe live or if not, to show some strength and conviction rather than suffer the embarrassment of smoking through their last days on earth while dying of a cigarette-induced disease. For you to try now would likely be in vain and would leave you directionless and disoriented even were you to succeed. I recommend against trying.

Also, that transition came at a time in my life when it would matter and could benefit my future. In that sense, experiencing humanism is like traveling. Do it while young and let it inform your worldview and your choices.

In my retirement, I'm surrounded by other retired expats who are just now beginning to see the world. Some are taking three major excursions a year, and about half are doing it alone. Lane just got back from New Zealand and has already been to Georgia (the country) this year. Mary Ann is in Argentina. Bill and Melanie just got back from Italy.

That might be entertaining assuming one is up for it, but the educational value is gone. It was that kind of traveling in my thirties through my fifties that culminated in our expatriation, a very good move. Our relatives that virtually never left home are still stuck in those lives, surrounded by contention, uncertainty, extreme weather, and outrageous prices while we live in an easily affordable paradise that they're afraid to even visit.
 

2ndpillar

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Atheism isn't for everybody. It's easier to believe in a god than not. Being an atheist means that there is no devil to blame, no expectation of reuniting with deceased loved ones, no personal protection from the cosmos, only one life to live, personal responsibility for one's choices, nobody watching over you or answering your prayers, marginalization in a theistic society, and no easy explanations for our existence.
The problem is that as a humanistic atheist, you are your own god. Good luck with that. You make and keep or not keep your own standards. Well, look what that has wrought in your Progressive cities. The best we can hope for is that the Progressives Atheist stay in their own cities and buy all the EVs on the market to prevent them from being scrapped. Hopefully, the conservatives will be voted in, and the elite college Progressive dance study (soft science) graduates can pay for their own college debt. The easy "explanation for our existence" is survival of the fittest, which apparently hasn't worked out that way.
 

Trailblazer

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Atheism isn't for everybody. It's easier to believe in a god than not.
Maybe it is easier to believe in God if that is all you do, believe, but it is not easier to believe and meet the requirements God has stipulated.
It is much easier to be an atheist and not have to worry about what God requires of you.

It might be easier to be a 'saved and forgiven' Christian who no longer lives under the law, a Christian who can continue to sin and be forgiven, but it is not easier to be a Baha'i and live under the law.

“The beginning of all things is the knowledge of God, and the end of all things is strict observance of whatsoever hath been sent down from the empyrean of the Divine Will that pervadeth all that is in the heavens and all that is on the earth.” Gleanings From the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 5
 

Ben Dhyan

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I translate that as, "As one continues training himself to think without skepticism, he will eventually no longer experience cognitive dissonance at the ambiguity and contradiction in scripture." The tip-off is the word sincerely. Sincerity here means abandoning critical thought. If one allows himself to continue judging scripture as an outsider would, he is not sincerely seeking by this way of thinking.
My dictionary provides this definition for "sincerity": The quality or state of being sincere; honesty of mind or intention; freedom from simulation, hypocrisy, disguise, or false pretense.
Now just look at your post, you are implying sincerity means insincerity as you define sincerity as abandoning critical thought and allowing and continuing the judging of scripture as an outsider. So in fact you are implying "as long as one seeks sincerely" as being not sincere?
 

jimb

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The sixth commandment clearly means: you shall not murder. It is absurd, if you read the Old Testament, to consider how many times the Hebrew people, under God's command, made war against their enemies. One of the best-known stories of the Old Testament is David, God's chosen, killing Goliath.

The commandment was intended for Jews not to wrathfully kill other Jews. Any other interpretation is wrong. Period.
 

It Aint Necessarily So

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The problem is that as a humanistic atheist, you are your own god.
Sort of. I don't need a god, just like I don't need a parent or a babysitter anymore. I've outgrown them all. As a free, autonomous citizen, I'm in charge of my life. I do in my life what clergy and scripture do in the lives of people who believe that they are submitting to a god.
Good luck with that.
Thanks, but I'm past the luck phase.
The best we can hope for is that the Progressives Atheist stay in their own cities and buy all the EVs on the market to prevent them from being scrapped. Hopefully, the conservatives will be voted in, and the elite college Progressive dance study (soft science) graduates can pay for their own college debt.
Not my concern. I don't live in America anymore.
My dictionary provides this definition for "sincerity": The quality or state of being sincere; honesty of mind or intention; freedom from simulation, hypocrisy, disguise, or false pretense. Now just look at your post, you are implying sincerity means insincerity as you define sincerity as abandoning critical thought and allowing and continuing the judging of scripture as an outsider. So in fact you are implying "as long as one seeks sincerely" as being not sincere?
What I was describing is how I understand the believer when he uses the word sincerely in the context of searching for a god. He wouldn't consider me sincerely seeking since I require sufficient evidence to justify belief before believing. He wants me to adopt a different standard for belief - the one he uses - because he understands that I'll never find a god empirically however sincere and thorough I am.
 

Trailblazer

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Thanks, but I'm past the luck phase.
I know, because you already got lucky. No, I don't mean that. I meant you have been lucky in life.
Not my concern. I don't live in America anymore.
See what I mean? Lucky you.
What I was describing is how I understand the believer when he uses the word sincerely in the context of searching for a god. He wouldn't consider me sincerely seeking since I require sufficient evidence to justify belief before believing. He wants me to adopt a different standard for belief - the one he uses - because he understands that I'll never find a god empirically however sincere and thorough I am.
Everyone has their own standards for belief and I don't want you to adopt my standard.
But you must understand that you will never find a god empirically no matter sincere and thorough you are.

No one has ever 'seen God' because that has never been permitted by God, since God wants us to live.

Exodus 33:20 But He said, “You cannot see My face; for no man shall see Me, and live.”

John 1:18 No one has seen God at any time. The only begotten Son, who is in the bosom of the Father, He has declared Him.
 

Ben Dhyan

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What I was describing is how I understand the believer when he uses the word sincerely in the context of searching for a god. He wouldn't consider me sincerely seeking since I require sufficient evidence to justify belief before believing. He wants me to adopt a different standard for belief - the one he uses - because he understands that I'll never find a god empirically however sincere and thorough I am.
Being an atheist, you would not know the progressive states of awareness that a religious devotee goes through on the path of Self realization. Fwiw, I have posted this before on another thread that on a scale of 1 to 10, belief stands at 1, and direct experience stands at 9.

As an atheist, you are not yet on the path, so from my point of view you are at level 0. And from another point of view, if and when you do begin, remember that the belief stage is a temporary state that one will naturally go beyond as spiritual experience is realized if one is sincere in their spiritual aspiration and practice..
 

Elihoenai

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Here's one of those irrational rules commanding self-denial and implying that sexual pleasure is immoral. Our bodies were obviously made to enjoy sex. It is a perversion of nature to attempt to suppress that.
I Am Christian Ascetic Monk living Totally Different life from the Non-Religious and Lukewarm practitioners of Religion. Really every person is practising either Left-Hand Path Religion or Right Hand Path Religion whether they realise this or not.








And another. It's such a dour perspective. How sad for those who have never lived free from those kinds of thoughts. What you call abuse and rebellion is whatever you religion commands that is ignored.
One man's Freedom is another man's Slavery. The Self-Abuse and Abuse of Others is only Recognised when you come out of the Abusive things you previously did to yourself and others. For example, when get yourself and others Hammered/Drunk every week you are Abusing yourself and others.
 

Elihoenai

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No, I am not a vegan or a vegetarian but I would like to be.

People could regulate their sex instinct as well as their food intake, but to each his or her own. I am not one to judge anyone, that is God's job.
People are no more going to give up sex than they are going to stop eating because they do not see anything 'wrong' with sex and in fact society and the media has convinced them that they need sex. I used to think that way but. I gave it up willingly because I realized what it was doing to me. At one time in my life I was consumed with desire and I was oblivious what it was doing to me until I read the scriptures of my own religion, which are really no different from the Bible.

34.
O Dwellers of My Paradise!
With the hands of loving-kindness I have planted in the holy garden of paradise the young tree of your love and friendship, and have watered it with the goodly showers of My tender grace; now that the hour of its fruiting is come, strive that it may be protected, and be not consumed with the flame of desire and passion.
The Hidden Words of Baha'u'llah

The scriptures are clear on self-denial for love of God. I do not want to be in the prison of self. I was released from that prison over 20 years ago and I never want to go back.

Matthew 16:23-24 But he turned, and said unto Peter, Get thee behind me, Satan: thou art an offence unto me: for thou savourest not the things that be of God, but those that be of men. Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me.

40: O MY SERVANT! Free thyself from the fetters of this world, and loose thy soul from the prison of self. Seize thy chance, for it will come to thee no more. The Hidden Words of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 36

7.
O Son of Man!
If thou lovest Me, turn away from thyself; and if thou seekest My pleasure, regard not thine own; that thou mayest die in Me and I may eternally live in thee.

8.
O Son of Spirit!
There is no peace for thee save by renouncing thyself and turning unto Me; for it behooveth thee to glory in My name, not in thine own; to put thy trust in Me and not in thyself, since I desire to be loved alone and above all that is.

30.
O Bondslave of the World!
Many a dawn hath the breeze of My loving-kindness wafted over thee and found thee upon the bed of heedlessness fast asleep. Bewailing then thy plight it returned whence it came.

31.
O Son of Earth!
Wouldst thou have Me, seek none other than Me; and wouldst thou gaze upon My beauty, close thine eyes to the world and all that is therein; for My will and the will of another than Me, even as fire and water, cannot dwell together in one heart.

32.
O Befriended Stranger!
The candle of thine heart is lighted by the hand of My power, quench it not with the contrary winds of self and passion. The healer of all thine ills is remembrance of Me, forget it not. Make My love thy treasure and cherish it even as thy very sight and life.

The Hidden Words of Baha'u'llah
No being able to give up Meat is evidence that you are walking in the Flesh. I assume that you taking Drugs and Drinking Alcohol also. When you Compensate for being Celibate with other Carnal Things it's not Real Celibacy.


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Regulation and control means that sex is only allowed withing marriage, under Baha'i Laws.
In Baha'i Law can you have Sex Without the Intention to Procreate in Marriage. When I say Sex is for Procreation purposes only, I mean that only in a Marriage between mature man and woman. Therefore, in a Marriage you Must have Sex only for Procreation purposes. I'm not involved in these Worldly Affairs Never been Married neither have any children. Are you married? Do you have Children?












The question remains: Is the desire still there? I have no sexual desire and haven't since I stopped having sex. I would not even be thinking about sex unless the topic came up on the forum.
I don't think you understand who you are talking to. I Am Ascetic Christian Monk that is Celibate, Free From Drugs, Free From Alcohol and Vegan. Ascetic Christian Monks cannot bear to have Sex no have any interest to do so.
 
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It Aint Necessarily So

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you have been lucky in life.
Yes, I have. I was born in good health in a good time and place to a good family and have thus far and have never seen poverty, mental illness, or war.
See what I mean? Lucky you.
Leaving America wasn't luck. It was planned for years. You're welcome to join us here in Mexico, or explore the world for something you prefer more. I've got a friend doing that now. I met him a few years back when he tried our part of Mexico. He's in Thailand now which he also loves, but told me recently that he expects to come back to Mexico eventually.
you must understand that you will never find a god empirically no matter sincere and thorough you are.
I expect that that is correct.
No one has ever 'seen God' because that has never been permitted by God, since God wants us to live.
As you know, I have a different hypothesis for why nobody has see a god.
Being an atheist, you would not know the progressive states of awareness that a religious devotee goes through on the path of Self realization.
I left religion because it was unsatisfying.
As an atheist, you are not yet on the path
I've found my way. I'm not looking for life advice.
the belief stage is a temporary state that one will naturally go beyond as spiritual experience is realized if one is sincere in their spiritual aspiration and practice..
No, we're all always in the belief state, the difference being that with empiricism, belief is justified (demonstrated correct) whereas with the religious it is always unjustified belief (faith).
Really every person is practising either Left-Hand Path Religion or Right Hand Path Religion whether they realise this or not.
That's incorrect. I have no religion. I leave that to you. My worldview is atheistic. My metaphysics is naturalism, my epistemology empiricism, and my moral values are utilitarian for structuring societies and Golden Rule for my daily life. There's no magical thinking or spirits involved, and no rituals or dogma.
One man's Freedom is another man's Slavery. The Self-Abuse and Abuse of Others is only Recognised when you come out of the Abusive things you previously did to yourself and others. For example, when get yourself and others Hammered/Drunk every week you are Abusing yourself and others.
You're another one that thinks that being an atheist means living a licentious, incontinent life. Once again, I'm not looking for life advice.

You've been fed lies and have believed them. I'm almost 70 years old. I found my way at about age 30-35, which was when I made the last major course correction in life prior to expatriation from America when I left Christianity and embraced humanism. If it hadn't been satisfying, I'd have kept on looking. If it weren't better than the religious life I left, I would have returned to religion.
No being able to give up Meat is evidence that you are walking in the Flesh. I assume that you taking Drugs and Drinking Alcohol also. When you Compensate for being Celibate with other Carnal Things it's not Real Celibacy.
Is this the path you recommend for me and others - thinking like this? There is nothing appealing about whatever path you call this. Here you are harshly and angrily judging a fellow theist because she eats meat. Why should she care about your judgment or your values?

I don't think she drinks alcohol, but there is no reason she shouldn't if she wanted to.

Go ahead and deprive yourself of that and many other pleasures in pursuit of heaven. You can deprive yourself of all happiness in the service of a god you imagine requires that of you. It doesn't matter to anybody but you.

I have lived life differently, tasting many of its pleasures. I have no regrets, but surely would have had I deprived myself of such things over irrational rules and eventually realized that before dying.

You probably have no regrets either, but your sacrifices are predicated on your beliefs in an afterlife and a particular god who you hope will reward you for walking away from so much. If that's wrong, then you've made a mistake, and there are many good reasons to believe that it is wrong.

I often ask zealous believers like you whether if they knew for a fact that their god didn't exist, would they consider the choice to live as they did a mistake or would they be glad for it even if those sacrifices were for nothing. They never answer. I would expect them all to say yes whatever their actual opinion was, but they prefer to act as if the question hadn't been asked.

It's my opinion that the more Abrahamic religion in one's life, the worse it is for everybody. If all one does is say that he believes in the god of Abraham but otherwise thinks and lives like an atheistic humanist, religion has not hurt him. But if he accepts its bigotries, its negativity about the world, its magical thinking, its war on pleasure, its war on autonomy, and its anti-intellectualism, then his life and the lives of his neighbors can be very adversely affected.
 

Trailblazer

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No being able to give up Meat is evidence that you are walking in the Flesh. I assume that you taking Drugs and Drinking Alcohol also. When you Compensate for being Celibate with other Carnal Things it's not Real Celibacy.
I believe vegetarian is preferable but I choose to eat meat for personal reasons. I do not believe that eating meat is carnal, not by any definition of the word.

CARNAL Definition & Meaning

adjective · pertaining to or characterized by the flesh or the body, its passions and appetites; sensual: carnal pleasures

CARNAL definition in American English
https://www.collinsdictionary.com/us/dictionary/english/carnal
(kɑrnəl ) adjective [usu ADJ n] Carnal feelings and desires are sexual and physical, without any spiritual element.

No, I do not take any drugs or drink any alcohol. I have no desire to and it is against the laws of my religion.

I am not compensating for being Celibate since I have no desire for sex. Compensation is when you desire something and you try to make up for it by substitution.

Vegetarianism is not self-denial, which is what Jesus called for. A vegetarian could be just as attached to food as a meat-eater.
In Baha'i Law can you have Sex Without the Intention to Procreate in Marriage. When I say Sex is for Procreation purposes only, I mean that only in a Marriage between mature man and woman. Therefore, in a Marriage you Must have Sex only for Procreation purposes.
Who says you Must? Did Jesus say you Must have Sex only for Procreation purposes?
Good luck with trying to enforce such a rule. The Baha'is get a lot of flak just for our law that allows sex only in a marriage between a man and a woman.
I'm not involved in these Worldly Affairs Never been Married neither have any children. Are you married? Do you have Children?
I was married for 37 years but we never had any children since we both came from dysfunctional families and we were not emotionally prepared to raise children. I was widowed in 2022.
I don't think you understand who you are talking to. I Am Ascetic Christian Monk that is Celibate, Free From Drugs, Free From Alcohol and Vegan. Ascetic Christian Monks cannot bear to have Sex no have any interest to do so.
I do understand your position but I don't think you understand who you are talking to. I did not have any sex for the last 22 years of my marriage because I had no interest in sex and no desire for sex, after I realized how it had come in between me and God. Now, if I want to remarry I cannot, because no men will date a woman who won't have sex. This is a very sad commentary on society when a woman cannot even date a man without expectations of sex. These men are not young men, they are in their late 60s and 70s.
 

Trailblazer

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As you know, I have a different hypothesis for why nobody has see a god.
What do you imagine God would be if God existed, a material being who can be seen with a telescope?
I left religion because it was unsatisfying.
If personal satisfaction was my reason for being a Baha'i I'd leave too.
I started attending the Baha'i Feasts again last July after a long hiatus. They are boring as heck, but I don't attend to be entertained.
 

Truthseeker

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I started attending the Baha'i Feasts again last July after a long hiatus. They are boring as heck, but I don't attend to be entertained.
I like the devotional part, but that is short. In the business portion that usually is short in my community, and I look forward to contributing to that more with treasurers' reports and receiving contributions at Feast. l like having a responsibility in the community where I can contribute. There is also the matter of long-delayed treasurer's audits which are kind of boring really but must be done. I hope Sara can be one of those helping out with that. She has experience from the past in helping with audits. I like working with Sara in endeavors.

As you know I don't like to have a long social part, and Sara and I are at odds on that. I like to leave before she does. Usually she accedes to my desire to leave earlier than she wants to, though I don't request it as soon as I can. I endure the social portion for a while before I express a desire to leave. The social portion is not as much of an ordeal as it used to be, since now I attend more to what people are saying rather than my mind drifting off elsewhere. I try to not let my attention deficit tendency to dominate.

Today Sara is off to the 12th day of Ridvan celebration, and I am staying at home. I don't like to going to a lot of Holy day occasions this time of year, with three Ridvan Holy days, the declaration of the Bab later this month, plus the Ascension of Baha'u'llah. Neither the declaration of the Bab or the Ascension of Baha'u'llah will have much socializing since since both will be at the prescribed times on Zoom of about 2 hours after sunset for the declaration of he Bab, and at 4:00 a.m. for the Ascension of Baha'u'llah. I am in charge of putting the Ascension of Baha'u'llah program together. There will be, of course, a minimum of people attending the latter Holy day observance. I like putting together the program regardless of the attendance. It is edifying for me. I already have what I regard as an outstanding video for that by Smith and Dragoman. It will be good to be playing that on the actual anniversary of His passing.
 
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