Aštra’el
Aštara, Blade of Aštoreth
I see you intentionally left out the part about winning the gold and dominating the competition, which obviously happens much more frequently.How many cis men have broken records in male sports? More than 1%?
If they can't set a record, then what's even the point of training and competing in the first place? Maybe we should create a separate male divison for all the male athletes who can't hack it in the top 5 of their chosen sport.
As far as records go. There are all-time records, there are seasonal and annual records, personal records, and others. There are those who lead their teammates to victory, and there are those who’ve proven to themselves as valuable assets beside them.
If I had identified as female in high school, I could have broken that school’s all-time female records for bench press, squat,100 meter dash, 200 meter dash, the 400 and maybe even the 800. This is the case for many of my male friends as well. Athletics was everything to us and we lived in the gym and on the field. Training combined with genetics meant that were it reversed, the same would not happen. Not a single girl from that school would have broken any of our records if she’d begun transitioning into a boy. It’s just reality.
I’ve worked out with and trained hard beside many female athletes over the years, then and now. I’ve encouraged and inspired many of them and they’ve done exactly the same for me, so don’t even try to bring up the narrative of “oh he doesn’t really care about women’s sports, he just looking for reason to be bigoted towards trans people”. I’ve heard that before but it has no basis in reality. I do care. I respect their achievements and I think it’s awesome when anyone pushes their body to the max and then some, and then goes out there and does something great with it.
This is the acknowledgement of biological differences between those born male and those born female, and what it means when creating divisions in sports between males and females.
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And then there is this -
If they can't set a record, then what's even the point of training and competing in the first place?
What an exciting question.
Is the answer not obvious? To become bigger, faster, stronger, and the best you can become. To transform your body into a powerful machine so that you are better prepared for whatever comes at you, and for whoever comes at you, and to see how far that machine can take you, and in some cases, your team.
Because it feels good. Because the desire to be better, stronger, faster etc and the journey in doing so is a hunger that never goes away, but it is an adventure, with victories, setbacks, and then more victories. And countless memories adding value to your life so that there is nothing to regret. No what if’s. No what could have beens. Only what happened and what is happening. What will happen. Purpose.
There is also the achievement of victory. The victories when you compete of course- but also, and for some more importantly- the victory at the end of the day. The smaller victories during the workout, each and every time you make progress, when you remember what you were and you realize what you’ve become, and what you are becoming.
The image in my avatar, the goddess I depicted as an angelic demon prepared for battle, is the embodiment of all of this.
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