Hey let's cancel those programs altogether so other nations can have superior combat technology and tactics. That way we won't be able to put up a fight and it will be cheaper in the long run. Our nation's defense is not the place to cut corners.
Then there's the conflict in your position. You've made it very clear that the government needs to live within its means; the largest area where the US government exceeds its needs is in defense and military spending. If you don't cut there, you've effectively tied your hands as far as actually balancing the budget goes.
Would you put off replacing a door that had been kicked in during a home invasion, further risking your family's safety, because you wanted to give the money to your unemployed neighbor instead?
If my neighbour needed to be carried to the hospital and we had no car or ambulance, I'd pop my door off its hinges myself to use it as a stretcher.
Hey, that reasoning is fine. Why don't we fix our economy now though and help Haiti later? They can wait until we can afford to give them a billion dollars instead of $100 Million the same way that others charities will have to wait for you to finish school so that you can donate more later instead of a little now.
Actually, that way you'd save even more money. This is a situation that will resolve itself, after all.
Refugees and injured people are expensive while they're alive - they need medical care, food, camps, infrastructure reconstruction, etc., etc. The dead are cheap: all you need is a minimum-wage gravedigger and a shovel. Waiting will be cost-effective.
And with your cutting-off-at-the-knees of any effort to get America's financial house in order with your adamant opposition to
any defense cuts, you probably won't even need the gravediggers: with that restriction, by the time you'd be inclined to help, even the dead will have turned to dust long before.
We spend so much because we are the best.
You spend so much on the military because the Cold War gave the Military Industrial Complex that Eisenhower warned everyone about five decades of time to become entrenched and gain a position of major influence with the decision-makers of your government.
You also spend so much because you've gotten involved in an unnecessary protracted war.
We also wind up fighting everyone else's battles. I don't necessarily agree with all that we do in that department, since nobody ever wants to pay back the debt they incur by asking for our help.
Exactly which of "everyone else's battles" do you think the US fought because that someone else asked for the US's help?