If I took a different view, Id understand that. Scripture does say you only need faith to believe and to carry your cross, evangalive, and continue to follow in communion,the requirement of Christ and example of the apostles. Its hard not to say baptism important because I see the inner need that people want to act in their vow to follow Christ. Its more than symbolism because in their heart they signify not visualise the water and Gods blessings cleaning them free of sin.
Its one thing to say, I dont feel my following Christ and growth through him but ceremony (preference). Its a totally different thing to say it is wrong because of that preference. I mean many religions incorporate cultural practices in their faith. They develop over time and help deepen a persons faith in who they worship. Christianity, is no different. Communion was a neccessity in following Christ as He says where there is more than one person He is there. He always hung around His diciples and His diciples spread His Word in communion and traditons of their culture.
I, no offense, find protestants (minus methodist, lutheran, JW, episco, and like denomini) are pulling so far away from the cultural ties to Jesus teaching and communion with like believers (avoiding church) that it becomes new age. It reminds me of some pagan faiths that are in part origianlly were polytheistic faiths. They were cultural faiths with a set tradition. Not non denomiational pagan, like eclecticism. Not neopagan, like using intent for spells. In Christianity, I see a mirroring pattern.
Its one thing not to follow Christ through teachings such as specific forms of communion. Jesus can be recieved in heart only but more benefitial through His body. However, to look down on ceremonial ways to help people begin their journey in Christ! I find that so appaling. I honestly dont know why some religions fall away from cultural practices. I find that common in the states.
Also, I think it could be a continuation of being a protest-tant of British rule. I think Britian was a Catholic influenced country so coming to America, people divorced themselves from not only british rule but to not associate themselves with religious influence (which was pretty bad then)