Before my father passed away, he was given a diagnosis of terminal cancer. Still, the thoughts he expressed to us were of putting things in order and of his concern for the family he was leaving behind, not anything about God.
At his funeral (and to the consternation of the officiant who the funeral home brought in), there was no mention of God - my father had no use for God in life, so he had no use for God in death.
Hi 9-10ths
My father was an atheist and died of cancer too, on my hands. I was an atheist too, just following my father.
Two thoughts/questions, however, arose at that moment of my father passing away -- when a restless body in agony first gave way to a beatific smile on his face and then an inert body on my hand. No amount of glucose would make that body say "I" again. What was that which said "I" and which I considered to be my father? Where had that I gone? I surmised that the same "I" runs through my chidren and all. And now i consider the I as symptomatic of play of .......
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