I can't remember a time when I ever felt alienated from Jesus either, but for different reasons.So are you saying that before a person has acknowledged Jesus Christ as his Savior, he is alienated from Him? Then, at some point, he changes his mind and decides he no longer wants to be alienated? Do you see this changing of one's mind as also involving a changing of one's actions? Suppose a person has never felt alienated from Jesus? I'm thinking of my own relationship with Him. I was taught that He loves me from the time I was old enough to understand the concept. I can't remember a time when I ever felt alienated from Him.
I'd think that to feel alienated from Jesus, a person would first have to accept that Jesus is capable of feeling alienated... i.e. that he's alive, aware, and watching over humanity or something. In my experience, very few non-Christians feel that.