Lying is about intentionally conveying false information, right? So if you're not doing that, then it's not lying.
So I was painting the toilets at SV with a community member, and an elderly Swami comes in, and shortly afterwards another of the swamis, who asks how we're getting on. We say 'Yeah, it's fine, but Swami Satya's getting in the way!' and he laughs and says 'You're making a nuisance of yourself swami?'
Swami Satya wasn't getting in the way. Everybody in the room knew that he wasn't getting in the way. The use of this sarcasm did not convey the false information that he was getting in the way. So I don't see how it is a lie.
I loved playing dumb at school. One kid, family from Lebanon, seemed to beg for it. He'd have snow peas or carrots for lunch, and I'd ask with a straight face, 'What kind of strange vegetable are you eating today, _________? Did you get it from an import store?'
Then he'd go on and on trying to explain to me how it was a common Canadian vegetable, but I'd say I'd lived in Canada all my life, and never seen it. It was fun for the watchers. Eventually he'd catch on.
Yes, Kirran I understand. But people who have never seen sarcasm or gentle teasing don't easily get it. A bit like idioms to any ESL person.
The monks I know have awesome senses of humour too. When Boss mentioned to a senior swami that the grass must grow fast in Hawaii, he said dryly, 'Yes we just cut this yesterday'. (It was like 3 feet tall, and overgrown.