Well, they meshed into my normal life just fine when I was living in a place where they were abundant and pretty much legal: Saturday afternoons out picking, Saturday evening decorating the apartment, putting a playlist together, putting out toys and replacing all the light bulbs with colored ones, Saturday nights staying in, tripping. Sunday morning, no hangover, fatigue or mental fugginess and a profound feeling of general well-being that lasted until the next expedition.
I can certainly relate to this. I was a total "setting freak" and micromanaged each aspect of my experience. I set aside food, took batteries out of clocks, arrange furniture, had a defined playlist, stacked and ready to go. Last. but not least was my every present clipboard with lots of paper and a couple of good pens and pencils. The reason for this was that about half way through my odyssey I was struck by the quality of the material I was uncovering that screamed to be written down.
This went as far defining a three day experience.
- The lead up day was always very low key and as stress free as possible.
- The day of the event
- The day of followup and reflection. (I would spend several hours going over my notes while everything was still fresh.)
One of my favorite songs to play at the very end of the third day, before bed was "Good Night" by the Beatles. For me, at least, the key was compiling my notes the next day. Normally I would have between 6-25 pages of material from the day of the event. (I still have them in 3-1/2 decade old three-ring binders.)
Unlike alcohol, psychedelics are not addictive.
While technically true, it should be noted that one can get somewhat addicted to the experience itself which generates a desire for more... and more... and more...
The good side is that eventually it all gets pretty boring.
So there is no risk of people feeling like they need to load up before going to work or to meet the girlfriend's family for the first time. Once you've tried them you get a good sense of what would definitely not be fun on mushrooms (like work), so you just don't plan to do those things while you're tripping.
I actually got quite picky about who I would allow to be with me. In those days, I didn't like the "bad vibes" I got from some people. Oddly enough, before long, I usually found out why I had reservations. At the time, I was still too young to understand that I was just a very shrewd judge of people. I just went with my feelings.
One closing thought and a very good reason to NOT use these external agents is that they are simply NOT for everyone. In some ways, they are only for the most well adjusted people, who are totally comfortable with themselves and don't take themselves too terribly seriously. It might sound silly, but if you do not have a fairly generous sense of humor about yourself, you may find yourself in some uncomfortable situations.