I don't call Brazil a democratic country, mainly because I don't think we Brazilians have much in the way of a working knowledge of democracy. We like the idea in the abstract, but find it far too demanding and too idealistic to be actually supported in practice.Go on.
I think that is fairly typical. People everywhere want and pursue a certain modicum of freedom, safety and cooperation. That does not make them democracies even if they are succesfull.
Democracy is a major, permanent political challenge. It pretty much has to be. And it is about as secular a mindset as they come.