As any human who has been alive and aware for any length of time knows, our hearts and desires don't very often deliver up what we want. We're taught from childhood that you can't always get what you want. Just not the way things work.It's really in our hearts, the desire for peace, and we should terminate all ongoing wars, today.
Politics and diplomacy are the instruments of settling international controversies - war is an outdated destructive solution, a vicious circle of hatred that will never end.
Tell me your stance. How can we avoid war?
Politics and diplomacy have their uses, but they don't work if one side or the other isn't playing. (Same with war, actually. If Ukraine had decided not to fight back, Russia would have won on day one and it would all be over, with Ukraine just another part of Putin's empire). Diplomacy has precisely zero chance if one side won't sit at the table, or won't bargain in good faith.
So what you have so far is nothing but wishful thinking.