I've been exploring Islam as a potential spiritual path, but like the Bible, there are things within the religion that I will not accept. I don't believe that God for example (at least my idea of him/it) would dictate for men to have dominion over women, like is characterized in the Qur'an. Unlike Christianity, where I struggle to believe the Gospels which is vital to calling one's self a Christian, I don't have issues with the core message of Islam, but take issue with how women are viewed.
I will never believe that God is punishing women for what happened in Genesis and I don't believe that men should be striking women who "don't obey" as can be found in the Qur'an. It's not taken out of context, it states that as plain as day.
So, why can't we cherry pick what makes logical and spiritual sense? God gave us a brain to think for ourselves not to become drones obedient to verses that sound like they were designed by men. But sadly, there are verses such as male circumcision that I disagree with too. Why is there always abuse of some sort as part of the Abrahamic faiths?
There is so much beauty in Islam but I can't rationalize some of these verses.
What are your thoughts?
I think all religions are philosophies, rather than actual words of God. Since all religions are philosophies, and all philosophies work off earlier philosophies, they're are fallible and open to change and interpretations. To try and put things in perspective, the universe has trillions of stars, hundreds of billions of galaxies and God knows how many planets (pun intended). Can any book written 1400 years ago really capture such a power like an Abrahamic God has?
That's the problem with Islam, since it is supposed to be the literal word of God you cannot dissent or question. Any sort of dissent is seen as attacking God and a work of Shaytan. Like I said earlier, it stifles free thought.
As a spiritual theist, I do believe all religions try to capture the divine to some extent, even Islam. Heck there are some Azans and Nasheeds which even I find to be very beautiful. But to encapsulate God, when we don't even have a basic understanding of the universe or our minds is disingenuous at best and deceptive at worst. And Islam has a lot of flaws in it, and it has a lot of the 'scientific miracles' wrong. So it is not the literal word of God.
The Islam you would be following is a very liberal form of Islam which isn't what most Muslims follow. It would be to follow it as a philosophy and a spiritual path rather than the literal, absolute word of God.