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I feel if women are trying to attack a male, a man has every right to defend himself against male or female.
They should make it so a woman can't hit a man and a man can't hit a woman... Or something some people somehow don't think it will bring peace, nobody should hit anyone.
Wow, what a tragedy. I am so sorry about your friend. I hope that woman goes to jail for murder.
When ANYONE resorts to physical violence, I say meet them on the playground with equal force. Everyone has the right to protect themselves.
Then the next morning, file for divorce and get the hell away from that person. There is absolutely no room for physical violence in any relationship.
I agree with the concept but goes against our nature. Competition and conflict are as much a part of us as the need to eat and sleep. Remove them and you remove a part of our humanity. It's like Captain Kirk said, "I need my anger".
I think self-defense at least by legal standards is meant to protect oneself from bodily harm, but should we encourage men to use self-defense only against other men or would we define this on a general basis?
The woman was obviously not trying to kill your friend
Wow, that's an awful story. I'm truly sorry for your loss. It seems like everyone agrees self defense is always acceptable and transcends gender (as Levite put it).
It seems law enforcement is biased toward women because most domestic violence is perpetrated by men. Which is tragic in cases where men feel helpless to defend themselves out of fear of legal repercussions.
What a terrible story. Of course I think it would have been OK for your friend to defend himself. As an MMA fighter he probably would have been able to defend himself in a way that wouldn't have caused permanent injury to anyone. My brother got the tar kicked out of him by a woman in a bar once and he is a kung fu instructor who smashes bricks with his bare hand. He just refused to hit her back while she was hitting him repeatedly in the face with her shoe. I was thinking "why not at least BLOCK or something". OTOH, I suppose a person who can smash bricks with their bare hand can also fracture arm bones with his bare hand.
As a woman, of course I think it's OK to hit a woman who is assaulting me, and I have done so. I think it's fine for men to do the same, but men with their greater natural strength may need to be more mindful of ensuring the measure of defense is proportionate to the threat, and it may be preferable to depend on restraint (grappling and locks) rather than blows.
I'm not sexist. If the situation required it, I'd whack a woman in the face just as soon as I would a man. I told an abusive woman this once and she quickly left me alone. I've had way too many women in my life try to ruin my life and health to give two hoots about that type of chivalry. I'm a passive fellow who just wants to enjoy life. If you're going to intrude on my life like that, I'm going to hurt you.
If you give someone an inch, they probably will take a mile.