If it is not normal because no normal cause can be identified then it is paranormal.
In addition to what I wrote in my previous post, I'd like to reiterate that the reason I post on RF about my experiences as a medium is to offer other people who don't have psychic abilities like mine a glimpse into what it's like to be a medium. As a paranormal investigator, I'd like to educate others about the paranormal in an effort to help dispel the negative stigma associated with believing in the paranormal. I don't post about my personal experiences to argue and debate with skeptics or try to persuade them to believe in the paranormal. In fact, I won't argue and debate with skeptics about my experiences or about anything else related to the paranormal. To be honest, it makes no difference to me whether skeptics believe me or not. As far as I'm concerned, they can make up their own minds whether to believe me or not. The fact is that their disbelief and skepticism don't alter the reality of my experiences.
It makes no difference to me whether or not they believe in the paranormal. I've spent the majority of my life hiding my psychic medium abilities from other people. My husband was the first person I ever told about my abilities, and I didn't tell him until we had been married for a few years. There was a chain of events that happened in our lives that led up to me finally telling him when I was in my early thirties. I was aware that what I shared with him went against what he was taught to believe as a Christian, but he accepted the fact that I was telling him the truth. He had been taught as a child not to believe in ghosts and other paranormal phenomena. Fortunately for me, and as a credit to his good character as a Christian, he didn't judge me and accuse me of being out of my mind. He has always been willing to believe me and be supportive. I'm pleased to say that my husband is no longer on the fence about whether to genuinely believe in the paranormal or not because he had his own personal encounter with spirits when he accompanied me on one of my investigations in early July 2021. He witnessed poltergeist activity with his own eyes, which neither he nor the other people present could debunk. He also witnessed the real-time photos captured by both my thermal imaging and structural light sensor cameras, which neither he nor the others were able to refute. He heard several EVPs (Electronic Voice Phenomenon) when I did burst EVP sessions with a spirit box while we were investigating the location.
Later, he had access to additional thermal images and digital photos of numerous spirits that other people who were investigating the area at the same time as us had taken. I encouraged my husband to be actively involved in my investigation this time, and he most certainly was. I was proud of how he set aside his religious skepticism to help me investigate the location. He also had a firsthand encounter with a full-body apparition who he thought was a living, breathing man like him. But as he and I later found out from a friend, the man he spoke to for several minutes and even shook hands with had been dead for several years. My friend took us to a local cemetery to show us the man's grave. My husband was in shock and remained silent for some time.
Needless to say, my husband is no longer religiously skeptical of the existence of earthbound spirits and has come to terms with the poltergeist activity that occurs in our home or at other locations where I happen to be present. Personally, I'm relieved that he genuinely believes in the paranormal now because I no longer have to conceal the unusual things that happen in our home. I tried to conceal the obvious poltergeist activity in our home for several years so it wouldn't scare him and our children. Of course, I was absolutely terrified, but I was even more afraid of him learning my secret, so I learned to live with it and deal with it on my own. It was a very lonely existence, to be honest, but I'm not alone anymore, and neither is my daughter, who is a psychic medium like me, nor my other children, who each have varying degrees of the four Clairs. The fact is, the paranormal is part of our lives, and we accept it.
