Thank you for sharing this. I will accept that your view that we "fall asleep" is a common one taught in many mainstream Christian churches. How do you interpret what Christ said about the thief entering paradise with him? I believe that Christians go directly to Heaven after they die.....but if they do in fact, have to "go to sleep in the grave until the resurrection", then that is fine with me. In regards to what Jesus said to Nicodemus: I believe he was talking about the past....yes, it was true "no-one had ascended to Heaven" yet because Jesus had not yet died and risen.
I'm fine with you having your view....but.....I'll leave you with this: If Christ has removed our sin, and enabled us to now enter Heaven without guilt....and without the possibility that our sin would contaminate Heaven, then why would he not want to share Heaven with us after we die? Why would he let us wait....when we could enter Heaven and be with him straight after we die?
It matters not what we think about it.What matters is what Jesus says in the holy scriptures,according to God's will.Many have their own interpretations and understandings, but there is only one truth.
Genesis 40:8 "We both had dreams," they answered, "but there is no one to interpret them." Then Joseph said to them, "
Do not interpretations belong to God? Tell me your dreams."
This is what God commands and explains to us through His word.It is very clear that no one has ever ascended to heaven but Jesus Christ.This is what God's word says.
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Fall asleep" is not taught by "mainstream Christian churches." It was taught by Jesus Christ and his disciples in the 1st century.
1 Thessalonians 4:14 For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have
fallen asleep in him.
This is very clear from the beginning.Here we have the disciples of Jesus Christ speaking about this very matter.They all understand that death is temporary for them in this world, where they are alien residents.They know that death is likened to sleep for they will be awakened in the future.
As for your question about the thief next to Jesus that was promised he would be in paradise.This is very easy.Jesus and that thief did not go to heaven together.Jesus did not yet ascend to heaven until after 40 days after his resurrection.Here Jesus speaks to Mary Magdalene and explains it to her.
John 20:17 Jesus said, "Do not hold on to me, for
I have not yet ascended to the Father. Go instead to my brothers and tell them, 'I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.'"
So, we already know Jesus had not yet ascended to heaven.He did not go to heaven, drop of the thief, and come back to earth.
Another thing to take into consideration is that the thief was not born again as required.He was not water baptized nor was he begotten by God's holy spirit.Only those who fit into this group of followers are to be taken to heaven.Just like those who were all present during the Pentecost of 33 C.E.
Jesus explains this
John 3:3 Jesus replied, "Very truly I tell you,
no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again."
It gets deeper, but these scriptures are sufficient.