Which question were you wanting answered? Maybe the question was missed/overlooked?
I don't mean to be a pain, and I hope it's okay to say this, but this back and forth, non-specific banter like this bugs me.
I haven't been here long, though. And if you two do this to each other, and it's just how you communicate, and I have no business sticking my nose into it... please feel free to let me know that I should just butt out. I won't be offended. It's all good.
I have a copy of the book "Reasoning from the Scriptures", actually. I have not studied it, really, but I have... skimmed? reviewed? perused it? It's a fascinating book, in my opinion. I find that it really does give the "answers"... straight forward, to the point responses to very specific questions and/or objections that people may have to discussions of faith... which could very easily be construed as "doing the thinking for a person." But, most books are that way, aren't they? To a degree anyway. They give the information that is believed to be true from the perspective of the person writing it. Some choose to believe it, some choose to condemn it, some choose to ignore it... More often than not, however, I find that people come to their conclusions based on their own study and what makes the most sense to them. So it's not that books think for people, it's that people find a faith that resonates with them and therefore they read/believe the books that speak to them from that perspective.
It is why we can't determine which church is right. We all find the *truth* that speaks to us, and we all see things differently, and we all come to different conclusions. I can't help but think that if there really is a God, and he created all this diversity, he must appreciate our differences more than we ever could, and the idea of their being *one true church* seems more and more absurd to me.