A lot of that is just over-the-top bravado and shock-and-awe.
But they do have a serious criticism at root. Would you find a reasoned, civilized discussion about the alleged short-comings of God to be disrespectful?
For example, I have recently posted here that I find the concept of original sin to be a rather unfair and irrational plan. I have various reasons for believing so. Such a plan, of course, reflects upon the planner. Do you consider that disrespectful?
It is a bit of a slog, I'll give you that. You got swamped.
I think the issue is that what you consider "distasteful remarks" is not really well defined. Is it simply calling God names? Or, as above, making arguments that criticize God? Is it saying that I personally find certain of your beliefs abhorrent? Is it me simply saying that I don't believe that God exists?
And one last point: I agree that we should be respectful of each other. And I agree that to some extent we shoud be respectful of each other's beliefs. But I do not believe that beliefs should be immune from criticism in the name of respect.
Yes I am working my way back to your post, and yes I am certainly willing to discuss your criticism respectfully as I have done or tried to do since coming to this forum,I have been interested in many threads asking genuine questions or using critical thinking, I am not at all offended, But many times when I go to respond, someone has used such disrespectful tactics and name calling, horrible remarks that just knock me down and I Cannot believe what I see is even really in someone's heart.I have seen really good threads being just overtaken by these awful remarks, I have no desire to respond and I know there are others like me that just won't speak out.I am a firm believer of the first amendment and certainly can't do anything other than ask you all to play nice, be fair and show some respect, even If you truly believe as You claim, for debate sakes use better words, show some humility to a possibility even that These God's do indeed exist. Isn't that fair? If you feel that the God depicted in my scripture seems to do evil, well as much as that pains me, I can certainly except you will have support for that and let's discuss it if you like? As for original sin being evil, I see your side I really do, I have been in this debate before and the atheists I was debating had this premise and was respectful, Thankyou for that. as far as hell goes, I get you on that too,I understand you have a problem with My God sending anyone to hell, OK we have discussed it many times over in this forum, rather respectfully in fact (MeMyself) I haven't found way to help you or him in this because I think you have to have a Fear and trust in God before you can come to an understanding, that fear and trust can only come from God himself, not me, not the many lovely Godly individuals who have tried their hardest to help you, sometimes we must accept some stumbling blocks must be taken down by God himself. You don't believe in him, so I must assume that you never tried to ask him yourself right?
About God letting children die, he must be evil to do so, OK we can discuss this if you like, This latest tragedy is on all our hearts and minds, it seems so cruel, so unjust, I understand you, but let me If I may say something to you atheists, who was at the memorial? Did you happen to see that the spirit of that service on live TV was Godly? Did you see even the president whom religion most of us question, even he gave homage to a sovereign God.Muslims came and gave a beautiful message, did you see any atheist stand up there and tell those mothers "hey sorry, your kids are gone, It is the end, they are not with God, there is no God, you will not see them again one day, they are worm food, sorry..".Well Why not? Because noone would believe you, All know there is a God and for whatever purpose he decided to take those babies, we find comfort in him even now. Those families find comfort in God, our nation our world still finds comfort in knowing God is in control even now...I Am sorry If this hurts you, I am sorry If you also have suffered tragedy and blamed God and feel let down by him, or because he does these things he could not possibly exist, I wish God would give us signs, I wish I could prove him to you, I can't apart from the only tools he gave us,I am sorry you cannot accept that for your own reasons.