I'm sorry you had to go through that.It's weird because I stayed awake last night for a long time thinking about how cruel my exhusband used to be. He is single again and so am I but there is simply no way I could ever get beyond what he did to the kids and me. I especially remember my daughter when she was about 4 and how he made her climb under the crib and pull out the cat. I wouldn't do that even now! He beat her till she did it, and then took her to work with him the next day, weirdo.