Yerda
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We're all unimportant to most people. Our importance to the people around us tends to grow with our love for them.But why are some people unimportant ?
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We're all unimportant to most people. Our importance to the people around us tends to grow with our love for them.But why are some people unimportant ?
What if everyone was important to most people ?We're all unimportant to most people. Our importance to the people around us tends to grow with our love for them.
We would be living in a better world.What if everyone was important to most people ?
So you think that they do talk like this in real life ?I think public education is letting a lot of people down. I'm not surprised, however, that a web site designed to let people vent and call themselves 'Incel' has a lot of negative conversation. Most likely its not how they always talk.
Your observation is right on the money sadly millennials and my generation z are becoming through no controllable fault of our own dehumanized by 21st century Electronic technology.What gets me a bit(and I might be wrong), is that it seems to be upset not over not being able to attract women... but anger over not attracting a certain type of woman.
I wonder, if some of the movement is a response to how communications have changed. It seems more and more common that people don't date from a pool of people they know, and friends of friends, but rather through online dating services. While I've seen successful matches from this(have a few family members who this worked for), it removes some of the humanity from these experiences and makes it more like 'product'. Being as the incel movement seems most prevalent in younger men, I wonder if this push of 'attraction' being more like marketing than relationship makes it hard to relate to women as... well, human.
Just pondering...
You are wrong meeting people can happen anywhere and at any moment outside it's not only relegated to a church or a bar.I believe we enjoy hearing other's complaints, so long as they are entertaining enough. Its similar to the reasons why people listen to rumors. After hearing only one side we nevertheless feel informed, unless we are anxious or have experience. Some people who tend more towards anxiety will be more likely to see problems with the one side, but most people will feel fine. Anxiety is such a curse when hearing one side only.
I think incels are the result of the anxiety surrounding marriage. Most incels are probably older, but there are plenty of young ones. I think a good place to look for causes is Japan where young people are opting out of marriage. People have seen how unhappy married life can get, however without marriage or civil unions relationships get a lot harder to establish.
Also nobody is taught to dance, and families put a lot of religious strictures on their kids. Its like pressure to be something you are not confluxed with pressure to be honest. Families have this crazy belief that they can genuinely make their children believers, and there is a lot of emphasis on acting like a believer. Go into almost any church. You must act as if you are the biggest believer on the planet, or you are a space alien in there. And nobody dances. I mean the alternative is a dive bar. That's it. You meet people at church or in a bar. Those are your choices.
Rejection hurts for me personally no matter what group or person is rejecting me.@Massimo2002 so let me see if I'm understanding you: You're upset because you've been rejected by a bunch of losers?
Sometimes rejection is the nicest thing someone can do for you.Rejection hurts for me personally no matter what group or person is rejecting me.
That's kinda what I thought...
I admit what I know about the movement could fit on the head of a pin, but what I've run across seems to suggest its made up of men who are angry because supermodels(well, high maintenance women) aren't interested in becoming intimate with them. Because of that, they end up hating women in general(and men who have an easier time with them).
Yes, uniting in anything over anger and hate will only bring forth angry and hateful people...
No I do not. Most likely not.So you think that they do talk like this in real life ?
Ah, I see. Thanks for further clarifying.That's not it. Supermodels have always been out of most male's reach. What bothers incels in general is that they perceive themselves as having a much harder time, than their parents had, to date women that would have been within their league if they were living decades ago.
Since online dating became a thing, it became much easier for women in general to get male attention from people outside their social circles, thus allowing them to have a wider number of alternatives. And since female hypergamy never ceased to be a trend (if anything it is even more of a thing nowadays), this made dating life significantly harder for young males.
All people are ultimately unimportant.But why are some people unimportant ?
That's not it. Supermodels have always been out of most male's reach. What bothers incels in general is that they perceive themselves as having a much harder time, than their parents had, to date women that would have been within their league if they were living decades ago.
Since online dating became a thing, it became much easier for women in general to get male attention from people outside their social circles, thus allowing them to have a wider number of alternatives. And since female hypergamy never ceased to be a trend (if anything it is even more of a thing nowadays), this made dating life significantly harder for young males.
Are you a nihilist ?All people are ultimately unimportant.
But why are most people useless according to you ?Basic all people are unimportant. Just one person of 8 billion + people.
Some people get themselves noted for something or other, fame for 15 minutes until the press find something else to sell their news
But why are most people useless according to you ?
That doesn't sound like a good thing because unimportant to me sounds like being useless and every human should want to make some sort of higher impact upon this world or on other humans or both.Unimportant is not useless.
Why are they unimportant? They don't do anything to get them noticed on the world stage. Trust me on this, it's more often than not a good thing.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.That doesn't sound like a good thing because unimportant to me sounds like being useless and every human should want to make some sort of higher impact upon this world or on other humans or both.
That doesn't sound like a good thing because unimportant to me sounds like being useless and every human should want to make some sort of higher impact upon this world or on other humans or both.
Are you a nihilist ?