I am not speaking of you or the likes of you.You don't know that. I'm a voluntary celibate who leans heavily towards the asexual end of the spectrum. I don't expect everyone to be like me, either. Not everyone is interested in sex.
I am speaking of those who pretend to be chaste and virgins, because in America that's synonymous with decency and respectability ....
whereas in the privacy of their own bedroom they do the kinkiest things, like engaging in wild kama sutra or something.
I think that psychologically those who have something to hide are those who feel guilty of something.