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why can't we have a relationship with other men?

crazedrat

Member
Seems like the findings of people who had a motive. As average Joe, I can only recall one of the many gay/lesbian people I've known with a traumatic past more severe than most. My sample might not be as large as whoever it is that came up with this stuff, but I have the feeling of disingenuous results/propaganda here.

No, what I said is true... Hell, it's common sense even. Is it so hard to fathom that a sex deprived animal will resort to other means of gratification? Animal behavior is probably the most culturally unbiased way we have of understanding human behavior. Is it so hard to acknowledge that sexually abused children have higher rates of sexual paraphilias? If you're going to mindlessly dismiss evidence contrary to your preconceived notions why do you pretend to have a rational opinion at all?
Your response is nothing but an emotional preference.
I have zero respect for anyone who spreads lies due to their own personal agenda / emotional issues.
Ultimately biased lies are only acknowledged by others who already share the same biases... in reality they sway no one, and achieve nothing.
 
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Uberpod

Active Member
No, what I said is true... Hell, it's common sense even. Is it so hard to fathom that a sex deprived animal will resort to other means of gratification?
What do these animals then do if introduced to a population of males and females of their species? I would wager the majority just resume usual heterosexual relations. If we deprive humans of food and then offer them only anchovies and they eat them in mass quantities despite never liking it before, can we conclude that those who order this topping on pizza were once deprived or abused?




Animal behavior is probably the most culturally unbiased way we have of understanding human behavior.
Except that they are not equivalent in cognitive capacities. Conclusions from such comparisons must be qualified.

Is it so hard to acknowledge that sexually abused children have higher rates of sexual paraphilias?
Not at all, that's actually true.


If you're going to mindlessly dismiss evidence contrary to your preconceived notions why do you pretend to have a rational opinion at all?
The same could be asked of you.

Your response is nothing but an emotional preference.
I have zero respect for anyone who spreads lies due to their own personal agenda / emotional issues.
Is the drag queen calling his high heels fem?

I have never been sexually abused and have never been in prison or on an all male ship for a long period (yet :drool:), and am gay as all get-out.

Sexual abuse causes sexual confusion of various sorts. The fact is most people who are sexually abused are unequivocally straight. They may have intimicy issues, date older people, exhibit promiscuity or frigidity, or sell themselves nightly. You can in no way conclude that such histories cause sexual orientation differences. The picture there is far too complex.
 
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Sees

Dragonslayer
No, what I said is true... Hell, it's common sense even. Is it so hard to fathom that a sex deprived animal will resort to other means of gratification? Animal behavior is probably the most culturally unbiased way we have of understanding human behavior. Is it so hard to acknowledge that sexually abused children have higher rates of sexual paraphilias? If you're going to mindlessly dismiss evidence contrary to your preconceived notions why do you pretend to have a rational opinion at all?
Your response is nothing but an emotional preference.
I have zero respect for anyone who spreads lies due to their own personal agenda / emotional issues.
Ultimately biased lies are only acknowledged by others who already share the same biases... in reality they sway no one, and achieve nothing.

I see emotion in your post here, where is there any in mine? You didn't present any evidence but made mention of findings by anonymous people. Is it wrong for me to say that in my experience this doesn't seem to be the case and there seems to be a motive in so and so's findings?

Of the people I know who were sexually abused only one is gay or lesbian and the roughly dozen or so others straight.

There is just too much anti agenda to take this stuff in easily without lots of verified peer-reviwed research to approach.
 

averageJOE

zombie
Among many contributing factors, homosexuality is a known result of sexual deprivation / neglect / physical abuse / sexual abuse. For example... there have been studies where scientists have locked animals in isolation for extended periods, depriving them of sex, then introduced same sex animals into the environment. Homosexuality amongst animals occurs at a highly increased rates under these conditions.

Same for the other forms of abuse... sexual abuse especially can induce homosexuality in people.

Since homosexuality is a result of different kinds of deprivation it is understandable why a person might have these illicit sexual urges; and yet I don't consider it an acceptable compromise to embrace ones depravity, declare it as a perfectly healthy and sound thing, and give up trying to overcome it. I view this as a form of complacency with those repressive environmental factors which originally cause the condition. Rather people must continuously struggle to overcome their pain, eventually being reborn from within.

I can say this with confidence having experienced all this and more.

That is how I see it... That probably isn't how most of you see it. It appears many of you have all kinds of contrary neurotic rationalizations on the subject. So, very well... remain as you are.
Could you please provide us with evidence of this scientific research? Many here would like to see it.
 

crazedrat

Member
What do these animals then do if introduced to a population of males and females of their species? I would wager the majority just resume usual heterosexual relations. If we deprive humans of food and then offer them only anchovies and they eat them in mass quantities despite never liking it before, can we conclude that those who order this topping on pizza were once deprived or abused?
Actually, specific food cravings are triggered by your bodies nutritional imbalances... Have you ever been around a pregnant woman?
There can be psychological barriers which cause a person to feel deprived or isolated even within a full room of other people. How you choose to interpret evidence is based on your own intuition. There isn't enough evidence in the world to convince you of this debate either way. It's all your personal decision what you wish to believe in. I know what I believe... As I've shown you there is evidence to suggest either side of the argument.

It is possible that both sides have legitimacy... that in some cases a person is just born gay, in others it's a result of environmental influences.

Going any further in this argument will only exhaust me and I will convince you of nothing.

Have a nice day.
 
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Monk Of Reason

༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ
I am pretty sure these researches are insincere to both ways: some is funded by people against LGBT agenda, some research is funded by their opponents.
When I read stuff "abomination" or "perfectly normal", alarm bells sing already.
Two polarisations, neither of which represents truth satisfactorily.

There are as many sexual truths as there are people. Thats a lot. Each of us is a bit different, it may be subtle difference or grand one. Not just two alternatives.

Actually there is a lot of research stating that homosexuality doesn't exist or that bisexuality doesn't exist ect but they all hold about as much water as Intelligent Design in the scientific world. Its unanimous within the legitimate science research that homosexuality and bisexuality are naturally occurring phenomenon that has been recorded in over 100 species.

The only sexuality that has yet to have full documented proof is asexuality.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
Among many contributing factors, homosexuality is a known result of sexual deprivation / neglect / physical abuse / sexual abuse. For example... there have been studies where scientists have locked animals in isolation for extended periods, depriving them of sex, then introduced same sex animals into the environment. Homosexuality amongst animals occurs at a highly increased rates under these conditions.

Same for the other forms of abuse... sexual abuse especially can induce homosexuality in people.

Since homosexuality is a result of different kinds of deprivation it is understandable why a person might have these illicit sexual urges; and yet I don't consider it an acceptable compromise to embrace ones depravity, declare it as a perfectly healthy and sound thing, and give up trying to overcome it. I view this as a form of complacency with those repressive environmental factors which originally cause the condition. Rather people must continuously struggle to overcome their pain, eventually being reborn from within.

I can say this with confidence having experienced all this and more.

That is how I see it... That probably isn't how most of you see it. It appears many of you have all kinds of contrary neurotic rationalizations on the subject. So, very well... remain as you are.
Most of us probably don’t see it this way because it’s scientifically inaccurate. And that’s a nice way of putting it.
 

AmbiguousGuy

Well-Known Member
Most of us probably don’t see it this way because it’s scientifically inaccurate. And that’s a nice way of putting it.

Scientifically inaccurate?

Whew! Thank goodness. I worried that my rejection of that nonsense was because I'm afflicted by contrary neurotic rationalizations!
 

Agnostic75

Well-Known Member
The following is from another thread. 1robin does not mind if I cut and paste what he says between various threads, and forums, and I will notify him about this post, which quotes what he said recently at another forum.

1robin said:
.......demand society tolerate a sexual practice of 4% of us that causes 60% of the AIDS cases and costs billions without any justification.

You refused to reply to many of my arguments when you got into trouble. You retreated to saying that no one had adequately refuted your main points, but you did not adequately refute my main points, and you claimed victory over points that I never contested in the first place, such as your CDC statistics, which I never disputed. Homosexuality is an important problem, but what should be done about it? One very comical issue was that I asked you what your recommended solutions were for homosexuality. You said that you have no responsibility to provide any solutions, but yet you tried to provide solutions on many occasions, such as your absurd claim that all homosexuals should practice abstinence, including lesbians, who actually have less risks than heterosexual men and women do, and homosexuals who have been monogamous for at least ten years.

From a secular moral perspective, no practice is morally wrong if there are not any viable alternatives. I showed you research that shows that having sex has proven health benefits, and that that long term abstinence has proven risks. That obviously makes long term abstinence an even more ludicrous, and preposterous recommendation for lesbians, and for homosexuals who have been monogamous for at least ten years.

Why didn't you recommend abstinence for heterosexual black Americans (who have very high risks), black Africans (who have the highest risks in the world), people who live in poverty, and women over 45 years of age? I asked you about those groups of people, and you said that you do not recommend that any of them practice abstinence. Your moral values are suspect, at least regarding the spread of HIV/AIDS.

Surely women over 45 do not need to have sex in order to maintain adequately populations in most countries, and your argument is especially suspect regarding women over 45 having sex in overpopulated countries. In addition, it is often risky for women over 45 to have children.

How big a threat are homosexuals to heterosexuals? Not nearly as big a threat as heterosexuals are to themselves, since heart disease alone kills about 40 times more, or about 4,000% more people a year in the U.S. than AIDS does. Heart disease is often preventable.

In another thread, you said that there are successful reparative therapy clinics all over the world. That is definitely false, especially since the Christian founder of the recently disbanded reparative clinic Exodus International, which was the largest organization of its kind in the world by far, admitted that he lied about becoming a heterosexual, and said that over 99% of homosexuals who came to his clinic failed to change their sexual orientation.

I think that it was this thread where you claimed that sexual identity is a choice, and refused to provide any scientific evidence to support your claim. Do you claim that sexual identity is a choice? If it is a choice, it is quite odd that the majority of time, children who are raised by homosexuals choose to become heterosexuals. Some homosexuals have said that if sexual identity was a choice, they would have chosen to become heterosexuals in order to escape bigotry against them, but were not able to change their sexual identity. In another thread, you said that there are examples of where homosexuals have changed their sexual identity, but I have studied the scientific literature extensively, and have made a number of posts about it in various threads, and the evidence shows that such changes are very rare. In addition, as I wrote about sex expert Dr. Throckmorton in another thread, he said that on many occasions, so-called "converted" homosexuals were not converted at all, and were defining "change" merely as a reduction in same-sex attraction, not actual conversions to heterosexuality.

But by all means, please do continue to argue against homosexuality since that helps to cause more dissension, and disorganization among Republicans. The majority of Republicans now support same-sex marriage. The more that religious conservatives make an issue out of homosexuality instead of sticking to far more important issues such as the economy, obamacare, and immigration, the more it angers Republicans who support same-sex marriage, and the more dissension it causes in the Republican party.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
Actually there is a lot of research stating that homosexuality doesn't exist or that bisexuality doesn't exist ect but they all hold about as much water as Intelligent Design in the scientific world. Its unanimous within the legitimate science research that homosexuality and bisexuality are naturally occurring phenomenon that has been recorded in over 100 species.

The only sexuality that has yet to have full documented proof is asexuality.
In what way is what occurs within 1/1000th of animal types justification for assuming human homosexuality is valid. Most species live underwater is that evidence we should? BTW none of them are purely homosexual. To be fair I would not waste time responding to me because I have exhausted every facet of the homosexual debate I can take in a thread on it, but this one claim always struck me as so unjustifiable. I will not re-open Pandora's box but could not resist this single comment. I actually just realized that I am back in that thread. The nightmare has begun. I am bugging out of here.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
The following is from another thread. 1robin does not mind if I cut and paste what he says between various threads, and forums, and I will notify him about this post, which quotes what he said recently at another forum.



You refused to reply to many of my arguments when you got into trouble. You retreated to saying that no one had adequately refuted your main points, but you did not adequately refute my main points, and you claimed victory over points that I never contested in the first place, such as your CDC statistics, which I never disputed. Homosexuality is an important problem, but what should be done about it? One very comical issue was that I asked you what your recommended solutions were for homosexuality. You said that you have no responsibility to provide any solutions, but yet you tried to provide solutions on many occasions, such as your absurd claim that all homosexuals should practice abstinence, including lesbians, who actually have less risks than heterosexual men and women do, and homosexuals who have been monogamous for at least ten years.

From a secular moral perspective, no practice is morally wrong if there are not any viable alternatives. I showed you research that shows that having sex has proven health benefits, and that that long term abstinence has proven risks. That obviously makes long term abstinence an even more ludicrous, and preposterous recommendation for lesbians, and for homosexuals who have been monogamous for at least ten years.

Why didn't you recommend abstinence for heterosexual black Americans (who have very high risks), black Africans (who have the highest risks in the world), people who live in poverty, and women over 45 years of age? I asked you about those groups of people, and you said that you do not recommend that any of them practice abstinence. Your moral values are suspect, at least regarding the spread of HIV/AIDS.

Surely women over 45 do not need to have sex in order to maintain adequately populations in most countries, and your argument is especially suspect regarding women over 45 having sex in overpopulated countries. In addition, it is often risky for women over 45 to have children.

How big a threat are homosexuals to heterosexuals? Not nearly as big a threat as heterosexuals are to themselves, since heart disease alone kills about 40 times more, or about 4,000% more people a year in the U.S. than AIDS does. Heart disease is often preventable.

In another thread, you said that there are successful reparative therapy clinics all over the world. That is definitely false, especially since the Christian founder of the recently disbanded reparative clinic Exodus International, which was the largest organization of its kind in the world by far, admitted that he lied about becoming a heterosexual, and said that over 99% of homosexuals who came to his clinic failed to change their sexual orientation.

I think that it was this thread where you claimed that sexual identity is a choice, and refused to provide any scientific evidence to support your claim. Do you claim that sexual identity is a choice? If it is a choice, it is quite odd that the majority of time, children who are raised by homosexuals choose to become heterosexuals. Some homosexuals have said that if sexual identity was a choice, they would have chosen to become heterosexuals in order to escape bigotry against them, but were not able to change their sexual identity. In another thread, you said that there are examples of where homosexuals have changed their sexual identity, but I have studied the scientific literature extensively, and have made a number of posts about it in various threads, and the evidence shows that such changes are very rare. In addition, as I wrote about sex expert Dr. Throckmorton in another thread, he said that on many occasions, so-called "converted" homosexuals were not converted at all, and were defining "change" merely as a reduction in same-sex attraction, not actual conversions to heterosexuality.

But by all means, please do continue to argue against homosexuality since that helps to cause more dissension, and disorganization among Republicans. The majority of Republicans now support same-sex marriage. The more that religious conservatives make an issue out of homosexuality instead of sticking to far more important issues such as the economy, obamacare, and immigration, the more it angers Republicans who support same-sex marriage, and the more dissension it causes in the Republican party.

I almost did not see which thread this was and re-engaged on this subject. I do not care if you quote me as long as you represent what I said accurate in response. I am getting out of here before I get stuck again. This was too close.
 
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