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why can't we have a relationship with other men?

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
Can you present any research or statistics post 1979 to support your claim?

that one's from '97. Go ahead and spin it though. I'm sure these people are all lying through their teeth. right? I have no doubt you can pull up an alternative "study" which verifies that the averages are identical to heterosexuals
 

tumbleweed41

Resident Liberal Hippie
that one's from '97. Go ahead and spin it though. I'm sure these people are all lying through their teeth. right? I have no doubt you can pull up an alternative "study" which verifies that the averages are identical to heterosexuals
"That one"?

Can you provide a link or source?
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
"That one"?

Can you provide a link or source?

Check "Journal of Sex Research" if you're actually interested. I really don't see the point though. If you weren't born yesterday you know this stuff is out there. And I know "studies" exist which "prove" that homosexuals have the same amount of partners as anyone else as well as apologists who has already crafted "arguments" which attempt to discredit their opponent's research . Believe what you want to believe. One thing is certain though, one side is lying through their teeth. Of course, I think you could find pro gay sources which at least agreed that the average amount of partners for homosexuals is higher.
 
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tumbleweed41

Resident Liberal Hippie
Check "Journal of Sex Research" if you're actually interested. I really don't see the point though. Besides, you're just a layman anyways like me. If you weren't born yesterday you know this stuff is out there. And I know "studies" exist which "prove" that homosexuals have the same amount of partners as anyone else. Believe what you want to believe. One thing is certain though, one side is lying through their teeth. Of course, I think you could find pro gay sources which at least agreed that the average amount of partners for homosexuals is higher.
You claim to provide data from the research, and date it as 1997, but you don't have a link?

Is it perhaps because you have drawn as your source THIS "research" from CARM (Christian Apologetics and Research Ministries), which quote mines from THIS article written in 1997 in the Journal of Sex Research?
The 1997 article in JoSR actually says, “… men had either 1 (28.5%)or between 2-5 (44.9%) partners and (23.9%) had had between 5 and 10 partners ever."

I think we now know which side is "lying through their teeth".:yes:
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
It is from the study you cited.

Surely you have access to the complete study?:shrug:

That's about what I expected to hear. How about that link to Taylor Francis? Did you actually pay the money so that you could have access to the entire pdf or were you just throwing that link in for effect?
 
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tumbleweed41

Resident Liberal Hippie
That's about what I expected to here. How about that link to Taylor Francis? Did you actually pay the money so that you have access to the entire pdf or were you just throwing that link in for effect?
I think you just admitted to not having read the study.
 

Straw Dog

Well-Known Member
I don't mean like doing orgies and wicked stuff like that. But why can't we make love to people of our gender. I don't get it. I am attracted to men.

The reason that you can't is because popular culture is fixated on an idealist utopia that doesn't exist and will never exist. They want to deny same-sex attraction in a similar vein to how they deny anything that contradicts their established points of view. The vast majority of folks do not understand flexibility, much less adaptability, ergo the continuation of tribalism. How do you know if you're ahead of the curve or behind? Just ask yourself: Is there more than one proper way to live life?
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
I think you just admitted to not having read the study.


I'm a layman which I freely admit. Just as I know 98% of RF's membership are people with non-scientific backgrounds. I do go to Christian websites which compile "scientific" data not often seen on secular ones. The FRC is an example. I appreciate the fact that my sources post more than sentence fragments when citing data.
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
Dr. Tumbleweed: This is from a pro gay survey. Even the pro gay source has numbers far higher than what the original "apologist" who quoted that sentence fragment was trying to distort in an attempt to pass his argument off as scientific.



• [FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]A survey conducted by the homosexual magazine [/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]Genre [/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]found that 24 percent of the respondents said they had had more than 100 sexual partners in their lifetime. The magazine noted that several respondents suggested including a category of those who had more than 1,000 sexual partners.[/FONT]
[/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]"Sex Survey Results," [/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]Genre ([/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]October 1996), quoted in "Survey Finds 40 percent of Gay Men Have Had More Than 40 Sex Partners," [/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]Lambda Report[/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular], January 1998, 20.[/FONT][/FONT]

[FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]Getting It Straight[/FONT][/FONT]


cue the predictable cry of "but...but...but... you didn't read it in its original context."
 
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Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
Dr. Tumbleweed: This is from a pro gay study. Even the pro gay study has numbers far higher than what the original "apologist" who quoted that sentence fragment was trying to distort in an attempt to pass his argument off as scientific.



• [FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]A survey conducted by the homosexual magazine [/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]Genre [/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]found that 24 percent of the respondents said they had had more than 100 sexual partners in their lifetime. The magazine noted that several respondents suggested including a category of those who had more than 1,000 sexual partners.[/FONT]
[/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]"Sex Survey Results," [/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]Genre ([/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]October 1996), quoted in "Survey Finds 40 percent of Gay Men Have Had More Than 40 Sex Partners," [/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]Lambda Report[/FONT][/FONT][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular], January 1998, 20.[/FONT][/FONT]

[FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular][FONT=ACaslon Regular,ACaslon Regular]Getting It Straight[/FONT][/FONT]


cue the predictable cry of "but...but...but... you didn't read it in its original context."

Or, rather, the declaration that this likely has nothing to do with homosexuality itself, but rather homosexuals being pushed by homophobes to the underworld, where promiscuity is encouraged.

In addition, since less than 2% of the population is gay, and American culture is extremely sex-crazy, in addition to the recent acceptance of gay people among young people, that there would be a lot of uneducated homosexuals being promiscuous.

In other words, it's due to other factors than the one you're citing.
 

Ken Brown

Well-Known Member

Hi tumbleweed41, I had already went to those links and they provide nothing about what triggered the AIDS epidemic. Those links address the early, pre-outbreak existence of HIV BEFORE the AIDS epidemic, and they really leave much to speculation---the 1959 case-"The oldest known case of HIV-1 infection was reported to be that of a sailor from Manchester who died of an AIDS-like illness in 1959; however, the authenticity of this case has not been confirmed."

Please, give at least one link to a "peer reviewed study" which addresses the simultaneous outbreak of the AIDS epidemic in both the gay male population and the heterosexual African villager population? Surely, there has to be at least ONE peer reviewed study which addresses that important question. KB
 

Agnostic75

Well-Known Member
Peacemaker said:
Dr. Tumbleweed: This is from a pro gay study. Even the pro gay study has numbers far higher than what the original "apologist" who quoted that sentence fragment was trying to distort in an attempt to pass his argument off as scientific.

Regardless of what scientific research you use, at least some homosexuals are healthy and happy as judged by any commonly accepted definitions of good health. At least some homosexuals are monogamous, have good jobs, have good social skills, and live past 65 years of age.

Regardless of statistics, you do not have any viable alternatives for homosexuals that generally work well. Even many proponents of reparative therapy admit that it often fails, and that it usually works best for religiously motivated people. In addition, evidence shows that some homosexuals who have tried reparative therapy ended up worse off than they were before they tried reparative therapy. Abstinence from sex for life is an alternative, but it often produces greater physical and emotional stress than having sex.

It is true that generally, homosexuals have higher levels of various kinds of stress than heterosexuals do, but that does not automatically indicate that the best options for dealing with the stress are reparative therapy, and abstinence. Often, if not usually, the best ways to deal with elevated levels of stress in homosexuals are the same as for heterosexuals. For example, many homosexuals have overcome alcoholism by using the same methods of treatment that are used for heterosexuals. Thus, the best option for homosexuals who have elevated levels of stress is to get standard treatment for the particular kinds of stress, not try reparative therapy, and/or abstinence. If an alcoholic man walked into a doctor's office and asked the doctor for help with his alcoholism, it would be absurd for the doctor to start out by asking him if he was gay. If homosexuality generally caused alcoholism, the majority of homosexuals would be alcoholics, but they aren't.

It is inappropriate, and uncaring, for anyone to criticize anyone else unless they can offer them a better way.
 
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1robin

Christian/Baptist
Indeed, it is. Who said that "sexually" transmitted diseases aren't related to sexuality?
We are discussing what the practice of a certain brand of sexuality causes in the way of negative effects. You are trying very hard to deny them. I do not know how else to explain or characterize what you are saying.

What numbers are indicative that homosexuality is the controlling dynamic, and not promiscuity? Whether moral or immoral homosexuality increases suffering greatly.
That one is very easy. Because the fact is that homosexuality is the dynamic that causes the vast difference in the STI numbers. Of course if someone wants to obscure that fact because it is inconvenient the suggestion that ancillary or incidental causes are dominant is a way to confuse the issue. As I have stated in this context it is irrelevant.
Moon water is my girlfriend and also a member/moderator on these forums, and no, I'm not homosexual at all. I have no personal stake in this matter.
I am unfamiliar with her. No one obscures simple things as prolifically as you have without a reason. I apologize for the question, but what was the information for?

There's positive AND negative in every single act. Nothing is free from negative. Therefore, everything is wrong?
I do not think so, but there might be some technical truth to that statement, however I believe we are given common sense, the Bible, and a God given conscience to evaluate any conflicting data. Much of histories evils are specifically caused by the suppression of common sense and a moral conscience and then obscuring morality to the point that anything desired can be acted upon. Abortion as birth control is a perfect example.
I've been uncomfortable from the beginning.
I was mostly joking.
The sun's make cannot be compared to the existence of social stigmas, which only exist in the mind, and is likely a result of tribal instincts.
They are not perfect equals that is true. However both can and have been proven by statistics and by other means. In philosophy a virtually universal conclusion across cultural boundaries and time (even with exceptions) is given a strong chance of being fact (abstract or not).
I'm not saying there isn't one; just that it only exists in your subculture, but not in mine. Therefore, it's not something that can enter into the argument, because it's a subjective matter.
I do not agree but in the interest of time will comply.
After all, there used to be a social stigma against Christianity.
Now who is comparing un equal concepts. Anti-Christianity was never virtually universal, did not cross most cultural boundaries, nor time. Christianity was tolerated in most places and most times but there were extreme exceptions. I think we have left the subject far behind.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
This is extremely funny coming from a christian.
Does the word 'evangelization' ring any bells?
What? There is no such well recognized term these days known as militant theism. Atheists do not hold any religious faith that any evangelical wishes to talk them out of. It makes no sense that if I do not believe in aliens yet can't disprove them I should attempt to persuade others they do not exist. It does make sense that if I had been on an alien craft I would want to inform people of that. I do not believe unicorns exist. I do not write books on why "unicorns are not great". I do not make up stuff and put it in a "the unicorn delusion" book. I act as if unicorns do not exist and go on with my life. However none of this was what I was talking about. I was commenting on their methods and motivation. Many are not arguing competently and dispassionately about the existence of God. They hate the very idea and will do anything (true or not, moral or not) to drive out faith. Their motto should be God does not exist and they hate him. Militant atheism is a very well-known modern phenomenon.
 

Agnostic75

Well-Known Member
1robin said:
He did not say you could not do it. He said you should not do so. I can kill but I shouldn't. If you are saying you see nothing wrong with it. That it produces no negative effects then why does the blood bank ask you if you are a homosexual as one of their prohibitive requirements? Are you suggesting that your desire to do something makes that thing right? I do not understand the contention here.

My reply to that is my reply #394 to Peacemaker. In addition, it is quite obvious that the vast majority of homosexuals do not have HIV, or AIDS.

Since you oppose all homosexuality, even among monogomous homosexuals, your primary bias is religious, not scientific.
 
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1robin

Christian/Baptist
My reply to that is my reply #394 to Peacemaker. In addition, it is quite obvious that the vast majority of homosexuals do not have HIV, or AIDS.
Since you oppose all homosexuality, even among monogamous homosexuals, your primary bias is religious, not scientific.
My primary objection is religous and the truth of that is indicated by science. I have not really gotten into what I think about the issue morally too much. I have no need. I have absolutely no temptation in this area and am not required to judge anyone directly. The only judgment I have ever made in reality is to be against marriage for homosexuals and service in the military, because I believe it is a holy institution in the first case and no place to experiment in the other. Outside that their actions are between them and God. My point here has been that it's practice increases suffering greatly in general and there is no necessity for the practice. I have no idea what the argument that not all immoral actions have a direct repercussion proves?
 

Riverwolf

Amateur Rambler / Proud Ergi
Premium Member
We are discussing what the practice of a certain brand of sexuality causes in the way of negative effects. You are trying very hard to deny them. I do not know how else to explain or characterize what you are saying.

Actually, I'm barely trying at all. I'm debating rather lazily. Here I'm having a bit of difficulty, but only because I just woke up and am waiting for the caffeine to kick in.

I've said over and over again that promiscuity is dangerous. The only thing I'm denying is that homosexuality makes people inherently promiscuous, since that's a part of culture.

That one is very easy. Because the fact is that homosexuality is the dynamic that causes the vast difference in the STI numbers. Of course if someone wants to obscure that fact because it is inconvenient the suggestion that ancillary or incidental causes are dominant is a way to confuse the issue. As I have stated in this context it is irrelevant.
Things are rarely that simple.

Numbers are an indication of something, but correlation does not necessarily equal causation. Nobody's obscuring anything; I'm pointing out that there are other, more likely, explanations.

I am unfamiliar with her. No one obscures simple things as prolifically as you have without a reason. I apologize for the question, but what was the information for?
To point out what I believe all couples should do, and smart couples will do to avoid infection.

I do not think so, but there might be some technical truth to that statement, however I believe we are given common sense, the Bible, and a God given conscience to evaluate any conflicting data. Much of histories evils are specifically caused by the suppression of common sense and a moral conscience and then obscuring morality to the point that anything desired can be acted upon.
Well, I disagree with the Bible part (as you know), but I can point to the fact that Scandinavia is actually doing quite well for itself despite the fact that it's barely religious at all over there. I can point out the fact that pre-Christian Rome did very well for itself, despite the fact that its military and government was responsible for many evils. During the European Dark Ages, the Middle East was in the Islamic Golden Age.

The thing is, we don't need common sense, old books, or instincts. Enlightenment philosophers have determined that we actually only need intelligence, and that morality can be calculated. I took an entire ethics class on this. Surely, since you have degrees, you've taken such classes?

Abortion as birth control is a perfect example.
I'm not getting into that one, because abortion is actually a debate worth having, but not here. That one actually is hard.

They are not perfect equals that is true. However both can and have been proven by statistics and by other means. In philosophy a virtually universal conclusion across cultural boundaries and time (even with exceptions) is given a strong chance of being fact (abstract or not).
That's actually two logical fallacies in one, argument from tradition, and argument from numbers.

Just because something is tradition doesn't make it correct, and just because something is universally believed doesn't make it correct.
 
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Koldo

Outstanding Member
What? There is no such well recognized term these days known as militant theism.


What is the word used when a christian attempts to convert another person? :rolleyes:

Atheists do not hold any religious faith that any evangelical wishes to talk them out of. It makes no sense that if I do not believe in aliens yet can't disprove them I should attempt to persuade others they do not exist. It does make sense that if I had been on an alien craft I would want to inform people of that. I do not believe unicorns exist. I do not write books on why "unicorns are not great". I do not make up stuff and put it in a "the unicorn delusion" book. I act as if unicorns do not exist and go on with my life.

This is a false equivalence. What is the impact of belief in aliens ( and unicorns ) in our societies? On the other hand, what is the impact of belief in God in our societies?

However none of this was what I was talking about. I was commenting on their methods and motivation. Many are not arguing competently and dispassionately about the existence of God. They hate the very idea and will do anything (true or not, moral or not) to drive out faith. Their motto should be God does not exist and they hate him. Militant atheism is a very well-known modern phenomenon.

You ought to remember they are, first and foremost, human beings. And you are likely to see zealots on both sides.
 
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