1robin said:
Giving data that proves a practice harmful has no need to provide an alternative to the act.
It most certainly does if you call the behavior harmful, or unhealthy. It would be unacceptable to criticize people who smoke cigarettes unless you provided them with better options. Among most experts, it has already been widely agreed upon that homosexuals generally experience greater elevated levels of stress than heterosexuals do, so you are merely stating the obvious. The main debates among experts are about what causes homosexuality, and what should be done about it.
There are not any doubts whatsoever that in some cases, it is more harmful to homosexuals to try reparative therapy, or abstinence, than to continue engaging in same-sex behavior. Even some supporters of reparative therapy have admitted that it generally works best for religiously motivated people, and that it often does not work well even for religiously motivated people.
Homosexuals develop homosexual sexual identities through no efforts of their own.
If you wish, I will be happy to discuss your misrepresentions about gays in the military, and same-sex marriage in two new threads that I could start. Over 30 countries allow openly gay people to join the military. There is no way that you can provide documented evidence that all of those countries would be better off if they did not have that policy. The "social cohesion" that you mentioned quite obviously varies in different countries. Many Western countries are much more liberal than the U.S. is, and in many of those countries, homosexuality is not a big deal.
Consider the following:
Study Finds Gays Do Not Undermine Israeli Military Performance | Palm Center
palmcenter.org said:
28 June 2000 SANTA BARBARA. A new 48-page study of gays and lesbians in the Israel Defense Forces (IDF) has found that after Israels 1993 decision to allow homosexuals to serve openly in its armed forces, military performance did not decline.
1robin said:
Experiments, I was in it for 9 years and during a war I know what happens and I know very well what field commanders think about it.......it is a social nightmare that undermines unit cohesion and confidence. I have seen the issue kill one person and injure several and effect morral drastically.
Do you really think that your own personal, anecdotal, undocumented evidence is superior to the extensive research that the military branches themselves have conducted? No newly proposed system ever promises not to have any problems. Rather, it is a process of considering the overall postive things to the overall negative things. The Chaiman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff has approved of the new policy since the start. At least one past Chairman also approves. The Commandant of the Marine Corps initially opposed the new policy, but changed his mind when he found out that it has worked pretty well. So you are presuming that you know more than the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, and the Commandant of the Marine Corps, and all of the people who provided them with data, even though they have studied far more research than you personally experienced. Many current servicemen have given exactly the opposite reports that you gave.
The new policy has only been in effect since 2011. You were probably in the military prior to that, so you cannot accurately judge current opinions in the military. Now that there is evidence that the policy has worked pretty well, some people who were iniitally opposed to it have changed their minds, including the Commandant of the Marine Corps.
It is important to note that when you were in the military, openly homosexual people were not allowed to join the military. Now that they are, there is bound to be more acceptance of the new policy. The approval of the President of the U.S. has great influence, and the majority of Americans favor the new policy.