The invitation is always there, whether you hear it from people or not. Maybe you should reassess what you think the 'party' is.
OK. It's probably my own fault for believing that metaphor would suffiice.
I said:
How many invitations does it take before it's realised someone has no intrest in joining the party?
The meaning is:
I've explained it countless times so stop trying to save my soul ,trying to mold the laws of this country which is not a christian nation to fit in with your religious ideology and knocking on my front door early on weekends month after month because I'm not going to adopt your mode of belief.
I said:
One can only decline politely so many times.
The Meaning is:
It's getting old. I am a nice person ,really, but I'm on the verge of not being so nice.
I need to reassess what I think the party is?
I'm a 46 year old father with one kid in high school and the other ready for middle school, my wife and I are barely swinging the mortgage and we're in debt up to our arm pits. The party has been over for quite a while.
Hollow promises of the salvation of my eternal soul do not intrest me in the least.