by the way is their an athiest bible?
How would we define one? There is a number of ways.
As Smoke pointed out, the Christian Bible is in fact a major resource in building Atheism. But if you mean some sort of "Holy Atheist Book" then generally no. Or you might instead understand that non-theist Holy Books such as the Buddhist Canon, Tao Te Ching or even the (mostly unwritten) Shinto traditions count. Then again there are the satyrical movements that are simply tired of proselytizing and built their own texts, which no one takes seriously.
It is difficult to understand Atheists if one thinks of them as consistently anti-theists. Many are instead tired or indifferent.
our discussions puts their brain to work, finding the answer that disproves, and if they cant, they may have to resort to ignorance or denial,
atheist give the topics another twist.
That probably happens once in a while, but quite frankly, it hardly ever needs to. You're seeing a simetry with theist apologetics that simply is not there.
I see it as learning what athiest have to believe in order to justify being an athiest,
Atheism does not need to be justified, you know. It often enough is not even recognized as such.
and it helps me help others, not fall in that thinking, and why they think that way.
Good luck. Why you think of "falling into" Atheist thinking as a problem, however, I don't know. I can only guess you don't understand Atheism very well, for it is not a problem to be solved, but rather a matter of intelectual and spiritual honesty that does not even hint at an underlying problem.
and to over and over satisfy their reasons for being an athiest can be addictive.
I guess it can. I may never find out, since I will probably die decades before the opportunity presents itself. Until them we will all be busy with helping some theists understand how poorly atheism fits their preconceptions.
When one says their point and you see that they are just looking for the right question to re but, it shows, when they didnt study it, it shows, one doesnt have to answer.
And it is in fact a very rare occurrence when coming from atheists, although there are those who refuse to admit it. Most atheists know
way[/] more about God, and specifically Christianity's claims about God, than they would ever care to know.
coming to this forum is fun for both, I have laughed a lot.
and yes you should pray for them and love your enemies
Enemies? Surely you don't think Theists and Atheists are enemies of each other, do you? That would me a very gross misunderstanding, with hardly any support in facts.