That is not what I said. It does not mean that God does not love atheists just because God won't change His Method of communication to make them aware of His existence. Love is not about giving people what they want; it is about giving people what is best for them. Do you give your kids everything they want just to prove you love them?
No, it is not “real love” to do for others what they can do for themselves and what is
beneficial for them to do for themselves. Is it real love to keep your kids at home after they are grown up instead of allowing them to go out on their own, go to college, get married, get a job, and raise a family?
Your analogy falls flat on its face for more than one reason. First, you cannot compare
God to human and
human to human relationships because God is not a human; but even if you could, your analogy fails because most people are not handicapped. They have
a brain and free will and they can use it to search for evidence of God. Why would God expect them to believe in Him if He did not create them with that capacity? Read this carefully:
“Suffer not yourselves to be wrapt in the dense veils of your selfish desires, inasmuch as I have perfected in every one of you My creation, so that the excellence of My handiwork may be fully revealed unto men. It follows, therefore, that every man hath been, and will continue to be, able of himself to appreciate the Beauty of God, the Glorified. Had he not been endowed with such a capacity, how could he be called to account for his failure?” Gleanings From the Writings of Bahá’u’lláh, p. 143
I really do not know what you
expect God to do. I really do not know why you think you know that God is not doing anything. There are plenty of believers who would testify otherwise. Is their experience worth nothing?
You are free to
believe anything you want to about God and
say whatever you want to say about God. That is precisely what you have a brain and free will.
What has your life been like? Do you have children? Do you have a good job? I could never have children given what I have had to endure in my life. Do you know how much that hurts?
I won’t even tell you the HELL I have been through
all my life because you would say I was trying to get sympathy. And it ain’t over yet. But facts are facts and the
psychiatrists, psychologists, counselors and social workers can attest to them.... My life has been a holy living hell... What do you have to complain about? What did God do to you? If anyone should be complaining about God it should be me, and I did, believe me I did. For many, many years, I hated God for allowing me to suffer as I have.
Meanwhile, all the people I have been surrounded by daily for over 40 years of my career were happy and had no such problems as I have had. The management at the federal job I worked in back in the early 1980s tried to put me out on permanent disability because my depression was
that bad even with antidepressants,and they did not think I would ever be able to work. But I fought it tooth and nail and I got better, slowly but surely...
For over 15 years all I did was “recovery work.” I was a Baha’i during these years but I abandoned the Baha’i faith to do my recovery work. Clearly, I was not fit to be a Baha’i in that condition, even though none of it was
my fault. Both my parents and both by siblings also suffered from major depression and anxiety, it is hereditary. On top of that neither parent wanted any of us children. It was a setup for hell.
Do you know what? I was handicapped and so was my brother and sister, and that could well be the
reason why God guided all of us to the Baha’i Faith. So don’t tell me God does not love people and care about them. Have you ever cried out to God for help, or do you just expect Him to come running after you? I know former atheists who are now believers who have cried out and help came from God shortly thereafter. They got signs from God,
incontrovertible signs, and they never looked back.... Funny thing, the very first thing both of them did was come to a Baha’i forum and they also went to a Christian forum and studied the Bible.
I am not trying to change how you feel about God -- been there, done that. But I finally realized I was just shooting myself in the foot to hate God. I do not expect that to happen to you. I had to make a suicide attempt in June 2014 before I finally realized that there was nowhere left to turn but to God... It has been all uphill since then, with a few bumps in the road. Mind you, before that I had been going to counselors for many, many years but they did not help me at all. I have not been to a counselor since.