PearlSeeker
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Oh, I didn't know that being distracted is a crime.
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Why do attractive women exist ?
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Oh, I didn't know that being distracted is a crime.
Distracted is fine, but getting more physical requires consent.
Audie
Veteran Member
Where does physical start?
Somewhere before verbal assault.
Which does after all have very physical
effects on a woman.
anotherneil
Well-Known Member
I wish I found ugly women attractive, but alas - we don't have free will.
PearlSeeker
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But you did.
PearlSeeker
Well-Known Member
We look and function differently.
You can go to a FKK camp. No focus on clothing there.
PearlSeeker
Well-Known Member
Agree. I don't have much control over getting distracted/attracted (due to hormone levels) but I can control verbal and physical contact.
Much of its cultural and expectations.
Many places in the world women walk topless, and no one flinches. Because its culturally normal.
I actually love clothing.
I just tire of other people's expectations towards other people's clothing. Everyone oughta keep their eyes on their own paper.
If they can't, they oughta work on that.
PearlSeeker
Well-Known Member
Yes, it varies culturally but there is also a biological factor...
I agree with free expression and variety but there are some places and occasions where minimum distraction is required - church, school, office... I think there it's better to respect the dress code.
To an extent. I see people use the biological factor as a license at times, though.
If one isn't following the dress code(I'm talking a literal dress code as given by that establishment, not the aforementioned internet list of rules), that's between them and the authorities running such.
Alien826
No religious beliefs
Sometimes I kinda wanna wear one of those, when I don't feel like putting into effort into getting ready to go.
People view others based on what they have learned, feel and by choice based on those learnings and feelings. Bad learning can lead to bad feelings and bad choices. Unfortunately, we sometimes have to make a few of those in order to learn not to.
An attractive woman is a person and what is on the outside may not reflect what is on the inside. Or it might. Try talking to them like people to find out. Some of the ones that didn't look so good to you at first glance, might turn out to be far more beautiful than you realized.
I hypothesize that males that see females based solely on their external appearance can twist themselves into emotional knots if their personal internal and external appearance doesn't provide them with trivial success they feel is their due.
Maybe this is too preachy. It is just some thoughts I have.
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Isn't that putting the burden of a man's issue on women to resolve?It depends but there are some rules. For example:
1. When you are wearing a shirt or a blouse, you can unbutton no more than 2 buttons.
2. Opt for either a miniskirt or cleavage. Both at once look too vulgar.
3. Your office shirt cleavage should not be deeper than 4″ from your collarbone.
etc.
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I know I'm not, but I couldn't let that stop me. Be sort of lonely otherwise.
What is undistructed?
I don't know what that means.
Twilight Hue
Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
I see. A typo. Undistructed should be undistracted.
Being distracted is still the issue for the distracted as far as I know. Many things distract me. Most of them aren't even women or human or living. I always thought the issue is mine to maintain focus.
I like to go shooting at a range. I'm surrounded by people, their voices and lots and lots and lots of exploding shots. If I didn't teach myself to focus and while still being aware of my surroundings, it would be rather unpleasant and chaotic experience for me.