I was wondering why you didn't respond to my response though. I spent an entire morning writing it, along with the conclusion.
Here is the conclusion:
Connection:
Long before Tom is born...
The father had the desire for a huge united family.
God created both heaven and earth with the intention of having a universal family - in heaven and on earth. (Psalm 115:16)
One of God's sons in heaven became rebellious, and was later joined by others. The first human pair on earth also took a rebellious course, bringing suffering and death to all mankind. (1 John 3:8; Jude 6; Romans 5:12)
That's a lot of rebellious children, so of course things as not going as the father desired, but he hasn't given up on his present or future children. He is positive - 1000% sure he will have that united family.
God's purpose temporarily interupted, he promised a savior that would accomplish his purpose for a universal family. (Genesis 3:15; Galatians 3:16; Ephesians 1:9, 10)
God first chose the Nation of Israel as his named people, through his promise to Abraham - a man of faith.
It was his means of blessing all mankind, through the Messiah - which was the promised (savior} seed of Abraham. (Genesis 22:18)
Unfortunately, the Nation failed to live up to their side of the promise to remain faithful to God. The priests became corrupt and oppressed and misguided the people. (Jeremiah 23)
More wayward children. Some of the siblings are obviously annoyed at their behavior.
God did not cast them off, until the seed - the Messiah did arrive. (Matthew 10:5, 6; Matthew 23:37-39)
Now that the Messiah has arrived God uses that one as a means of bringing pople to righteousness.
A child that truly listens to his father and obeys, is a blessing, not only to the father, but other family members.
When Jesus Christ came to earth, there were corrupt Jewish religious leaders who failed to teach the people the sacred laws of God. (Matthew 23)
The Messiah gathers people, and teaches them to carry out that ministry - bringing people to righteousness.
Yes many more children are listening and being obedient. They could see the conflict going on, and at times they have to defend their dad, and the truth about what their father said, but they must, because some of their sibling are rebellious, and good-for-nothing, and having a negative impact on some of the others.
The True Christian congregation formed by the apostles of Christ, and grew in the midst of these corrupt Jewish leaders. (Acts 2; Acts 11:26)
A period of time came when some among those who came in, became good-for-nothing, and started distorting the teachings given by the Messiah. (Acts 20:29, 30)
Throughout this dark period, many searched in vain for truth. Bits and pieces of it remained but it was distorted by those who taught falsehood.
At that time Tom is grown, and searching for answers, but the situation with the family's disunited had come a far way.
Some people never gave up in their search though, and bits and pieces kept being found and joining together.
Some of Tom's siblings still try to get close to their father.
God used those who were willing to keep searching, and applying truth, and spreading it to others.
In time he gathered them as one, and chose them as his named people - to bring people to righteousness. (Luke 10:1; Matthew 24:14)
Some of those siblings are greatly valued by the father because of their love for him, and their willingness to obey. So he fully trusts them to convey his words to all the other siblings. He still listens and speaks to them, but he instructs them as to which of the siblings they should listen to. (Matthew 17:5; 2 Corinthians 5:20; Matthew 28:19, 20)
Many of the other siblings listen to, and follow these instructions, and benefit greatly from having a closer relationship with their father, and other brothers and sisters, (Psalms 133:1; Acts 2:42-47) despite the fact that many of the others are disunited, wayward, disobedient, and contentious. (Matthew 7:13-23).
Some allow the negative they see around them to stumble them - like Tom.
Well he has a choice.
He can either try, and keep trying to draw close to his father (James 4:8), or he can draw away (Hebrews 3:12).
The father loves him, but he's not going to force him.
If Tom responds favorably he will benefit from a united family that are in a close relationship with their father, and look forward to the time when their father's desire will be a reality - one universal family in love.
The End
Comments...
This is what I call wisdom.
God makes life both in heaven and earth, and give them free will /choice. They could choose to obey him, or otherwise.
Some in heaven choose to disobey. The ones on earth, choose to disobey, incited by one from heaven.
God allows the situation to run its course, while putting hs own measures in place.
A savior would come and open the way to salvation for all who choose to take it, and in the end he will remove all who choose otherwise.
What wisdom.
There is really no loss here God in his wisdom really allowed all intelligent being to either choose life or death.
In other words, to choose whether they wanted to live under his authority - which means abiding by his standards of what is right and just - or not. If you want to live by his standards, fine - life. If not - your choice - death.
It's the same as, if someone is dwelling under your roof, and you have some rules.
You know how it goes with some people, "Man, I couldn't care less about your rules."
So you make it clear, "You want to stay. Fine. Abide by the rules. You don't want to abide by the rules. Your choice. Leave."
We face that same situation today.