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Why does my God allow children to die? Is he evil?

psychoslice

Veteran Member
Your so called God does seem evil because he is your God, you have taken all that you believe about him on board, and because of that you have to take him on board, let this evil God go, just get him out of your life, and start to live your life, not his !!.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
Darnit.. I suppose I can no longer believe you ran off, never to return, because I so eloquently bested you in our discussions. :thud:
I am afraid not. My employment depends on the imperfection of science, and unfortunately science is been proving disappointingly inexact lately. It is taking every hour I have to make things designed to do X, actually do X. When they get 90's technology wrong (even in defense systems that lives depend) so often, on what basis are we to believe they know what occurred a billion years ago?
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
The question is then "when does God create the soul". Is it during the process of the sperm and egg hooking up? Or is it before? Either way, the bible is not clear about that...but one thing that is clear is that God is in control of it all.
This indeed is the question as I have previously and so often pointed out. Neither Christians nor any other group can answer this question. Our group (Christians) err on the side of life and do not (officially) approve taking the life, others defend their right to err on the side of death and assume the role of the God they deny for the life of another. They demand rights for their own body (that do not exist unless God does) in order to deny them to the body of what they destroy. Then have the nerve to suggest our group is wrong and that we follow evil practices. There is something desperately flawed with the thinking there.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
Your so called God does seem evil because he is your God, you have taken all that you believe about him on board, and because of that you have to take him on board, let this evil God go, just get him out of your life, and start to live your life, not his !!.
My God is truth. I will not let truth, nor him, go. That practice is how we got in this mess. He created the life you suggest I deprive him of. Might as well ask the pot to deny the potter. Your suggestion is a selfish and destructive request doomed to end in destruction, and produce misery and ignorance until that point.
 

Ingledsva

HEATHEN ALASKAN
Hey wait, what about twins? Did the soul enter into the embryo before it broke off into two separate individuals? They might have split souls also.


Actually identical twins are interesting when debating souls, (If one is a believer) - and abortion.


One would assume each twin would have a separate soul -


However - we know that the cells divide later producing two from one.


So no souls at conception.


That would have to mean souls given later, - and that is what the Hebrew believed, - that the fetus received a soul at birth. Into a finished vessel.



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Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Hey wait, what about twins? Did the soul enter into the embryo before it broke off into two separate individuals? They might have split souls also.

I think a fetus becomes ensouled when the brain is developed enough to have at least rudimentary consciousness. That's what makes sense to me, anyway.
 

Maldini

Active Member
If God allows kids to die, he is evil.

But some say he takes them to heaven, then the funny paradox is that wouldn't be fair to kids who don't die, because they will have it at best the same as the kids who died.

I mean you don't die as a kid, they you have to go through life and then there's a chance you'll end up in hell, while if you had died when you were a kid you would directly end up in heaven!

I mean even the bad guys, they were innocent when they were kids , and if they were lucky, they'd be killed!

Just one of many things that make a God theory like the ones religions offer a ridiculous thing.
 

viole

Ontological Naturalist
Premium Member
A newborn baby/free will? Gimme a break.

Well, if He sends them to Heaven because they would have been saved if they grew up (a possibility enunciated by you), I would not know how else to call it: a preemption from exercising their free will.

Thinking about it. If He already knows how they would exercise their free will (being omniscient) then, by symmetry, He should sent to Hell the ones who wouldn't be saved if they grew up.

She can have the same confidence that David had when the Lord took his son away from him in the David/Bathsheba account.

Cool. Then only future Christians/Saved are aborted or die of cancer or whatever other calamity.

Makes sense :). I think you should seriously consider my symmetric scenario in order to avoid further absurdities.

They are in good hands (God's hand's). Stop worrying about children that inherit the kingdom of God and worry about your own eternal destination.

Please note that I read reminders of my post-mortem doom as a sign that I am winning a debate.

It is equivalent to remind me that I will not receive any presents from Santa next Christmas, and I should worry about it.

I know we all are guilty of assuming sometimes, but this one takes the cake.

I am just making your assumption (that all died children would be saved anyway if they grew old) more explicit. The absurdity just follows logically.

Or do you think that there is at least on child who died and wouldn't have become a Christian if she managed to get old enough?

If you do, then we would be on square one, I am afraid.

Apparently, Jesus knows...Matthew 18:1-5

1At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who, then, is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?”

2He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. 3And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.


4Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 5And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.

Well, yeah, I agree with jesus. You must have the mind of a little child in order to be ok with Him. I am not sure how that helps you.

He is basically telling you to stop thinking too much about it with a mature mind, for obvious reasons.

Wow. That is one. Here is another...Matthew 19:13-15


13Then people brought little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked them.

14Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” 15When he had placed his hands on them, he went on from there.

So you can come up with any kind of scenario you want...as I said, children are safe.

I never doubted that. That is why they have an edge, if they die soon enough. No time to sin, become Muslim or atheist, Buddhist, whatever. A free and risk free ticked to an eternity of bliss. Good for them.

Incidentally, Jesus is supposed to be the only human to have lived a sinless life. Did aborted embryos commit sins? Or are they sinless as well?

At the end of the day the motto "you should accept Jesus as your savior and Lord in order to earn the Kingdom" has a lot of exceptions, don't you think so?

Ciao

- viole
 
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viole

Ontological Naturalist
Premium Member
If God allows kids to die, he is evil.

But some say he takes them to heaven, then the funny paradox is that wouldn't be fair to kids who don't die, because they will have it at best the same as the kids who died.

I mean you don't die as a kid, they you have to go through life and then there's a chance you'll end up in hell, while if you had died when you were a kid you would directly end up in heaven!

I mean even the bad guys, they were innocent when they were kids , and if they were lucky, they'd be killed!

Just one of many things that make a God theory like the ones religions offer a ridiculous thing.

Precisely.

Ciao

- viole
 

Nakosis

Non-Binary Physicalist
Premium Member
I am afraid not. My employment depends on the imperfection of science, and unfortunately science is been proving disappointingly inexact lately. It is taking every hour I have to make things designed to do X, actually do X. When they get 90's technology wrong (even in defense systems that lives depend) so often, on what basis are we to believe they know what occurred a billion years ago?

My employment depends on the imperfection of others. Plenty to keep me busy.
 

Call_of_the_Wild

Well-Known Member
Well, if He sends them to Heaven because they would have been saved if they grew up (a possibility enunciated by you), I would not know how else to call it: a preemption from exercising their free will.

Well, if we assume that God has a morally sufficient reason for everything that he does, and his taking the life of a young child is within his morally sufficient reason, then the young child has fulfilled the purpose that God wanted him too.

I mean, suppose God used me to bring 2 people from this message board to him...and once that has happened, God calls me home...now if that is the case, who am I to argue with God?

Or better yet, I look at it like this...think about any particular deadly disease, like pancreatic cancer. I think to myself..what if I got diagnosed with PC? I would be terrified!!! But, suppose God revealed to me through divine revelation that he caused me to get pancreatic cancer because it is through this disease that two people will come to him, and they will only come to him if I die of this disease....

I can't speak for anyone else, but to me that would make my ailment all worth the while. The things that we go through now, every event that happens...the question of "why" may not be revealed until years down the line...or better yet..imagine a mother that lost her child for whatever reason...the mother dies, and if she is a believer, God will reveal to her why she lost her child, and not only that, she will be reunited with her child and their tenure together in paradise will exceed any tenure they had together on earth.

Thinking about it. If He already knows how they would exercise their free will (being omniscient) then, by symmetry, He should sent to Hell the ones who wouldn't be saved if they grew up.

What if every single child that dies before the age of accountability would have became a believer?

Cool. Then only future Christians/Saved are aborted or die of cancer or whatever other calamity.

Makes sense :). I think you should seriously consider my symmetric scenario in order to avoid further absurdities.

There is no absurdity in postulating that since God is omnipotent, he can orchestrate a world at which every scenario ultimately happens for the greater good even if finite beings, in our limited understanding, don't have the slightest clue as to how this can be possible.

Please note that I read reminders of my post-mortem doom as a sign that I am winning a debate.

I am just saying; According to the bible, children are saved. Point blank, period. You are asking why and how regarding them, when you need to be worried about your own eternal destination, since theirs is already in the bag.

I am just making your assumption (that all died children would be saved anyway if they grew old) more explicit. The absurdity just follows logically.

Or do you think that there is at least on child who died and wouldn't have become a Christian if she managed to get old enough?

I am just saying that is one way to look at it. Another way to look at it is, as I said before, children that aren't yet capable of distinguishing good acts from bad acts should not receive the same fate as those that CAN.

Well, yeah, I agree with jesus. You must have the mind of a little child in order to be ok with Him. I am not sure how that helps you.

Well if the objective is to have the mind of a little child, then obviously the child is in good standings with Jesus so therefore why are we having this discussion?

I never doubted that. That is why they have an edge, if they die soon enough. No time to sin, become Muslim or atheist, Buddhist, whatever. A free and risk free ticked to an eternity of bliss. Good for them.

God has a reason for everything he allows to happen. If a child dies, then there is a reason why God allowed it to happen. Now yeah, you can look at it as a "free pass" if you like, but if God knows that I will be part of his kingdom if I died as an adult, then it really doesn't matter whether he called me "home" as a child, or as an adult, now would it?

Incidentally, Jesus is supposed to be the only human to have lived a sinless life. Did aborted embryos commit sins? Or are they sinless as well?

You can't be held accountable if you don't know right from wrong, viole.

At the end of the day the motto "you should accept Jesus as your savior and Lord in order to earn the Kingdom" has a lot of exceptions, don't you think so?

The motto is "Jesus died on the cross for our sins, and by accepting him as Lord and Savior you inherit the kingdom of God. Children/aborted babies have yet to sin, but they are still covered by the grace of God.
 
This was brought out many times by Atheists and agnostics, I would like to discuss it with you in a rational and respectful manner. My disclaimer is I am a true 5 point Calvinist and If that is offensive to you,You are free to close the thread now. If I may suggest , we leave out all slander against My God in the process of this discussion, slander being pre-defined as name calling as If he were real and present.Questioning scriptures depiction of God however you interpret is allowed. Example: Is God evil? Fair enough?

Here is my premise,
this is my belief based upon my scriptures.
God not only allows children to die, He has pre-ordained them to die. Hard for us to fathom, granted, but True nevertheless in Scripture. If we say he did not cause it and only allowed it to happen then God would be reacting to free will of man to accomplish their own destruction, thus putting too much power in men and essentially tying God's hands. God ordained for this latest tragedy for his own purposes, we cannot know them, we are not our creator, so The bible tells us we must accept that their is a divine plan and God is in control completely.

So you have asked, where is the comfort in that? Why do religious peoples comfort families of these tragedies with this premise of a God in control? Well let me ask you Atheists would you attempt to comfort these mothers with your precept that there is no God? No heaven and no hell? That their children are reduced to dust as they came? That the man who murdered them who took his life is also Dust and there is no justice for them either? Both parties cease to exist, one guilty, one innocent, both have the same fate in the end.

Or could it be more comforting that a God in control is with their babies now, that they know no suffering,feel no pain have no more tears and the man that took their life will be punished by a Just and perfect God. Where is the evil in my premise and the lack of evil in yours? I find evil in evildoing going unpunished.I find evil in a life given for no purpose but to die and cease to exist.
What say you?

Something I've always been curious about. Why do Christians who survive a bad storm or tornado thank god for sparing them? What about the ones who don't survive.......are they not worthy of his saving grace.

And.......why did he put a tornado on them to begin with?

When an athlete scores and immediately prays or a boxer signs himself....what makes them believe god will help them in a sports event while nearly a billion humans in the world are starving or suffering from mal nutrition. An estimated 12,000 children starve to death in this world each day.

When is god(and the ultra wealthy churches) going to take some blame instead of just the credit?
 

viole

Ontological Naturalist
Premium Member
Well, if we assume that God has a morally sufficient reason for everything that he does, and his taking the life of a young child is within his morally sufficient reason, then the young child has fulfilled the purpose that God wanted him too.

Ergo, evil does not exist. Suppose that two criminals killed a child.

Who decided that that child's life needed to be taken?


I mean, suppose God used me to bring 2 people from this message board to him...and once that has happened, God calls me home...now if that is the case, who am I to argue with God?

Or better yet, I look at it like this...think about any particular deadly disease, like pancreatic cancer. I think to myself..what if I got diagnosed with PC? I would be terrified!!! But, suppose God revealed to me through divine revelation that he caused me to get pancreatic cancer because it is through this disease that two people will come to him, and they will only come to him if I die of this disease....

I think you are pretty safe. i cannot imagine you will convince a lot of people to worship a God that can give you pancreatic cancer for winning a couple of souls.

At least, the conquered souls will think twice before trying to win souls as well. You never know.

What if every single child that dies before the age of accountability would have became a believer?

That would make God number one exterminator of future Christians.

I doubt He would take any vote from the conservative right, lol.

Ciao

- viole
 
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SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
Well, if we assume that God has a morally sufficient reason for everything that he does, and his taking the life of a young child is within his morally sufficient reason, then the young child has fulfilled the purpose that God wanted him too.

I mean, suppose God used me to bring 2 people from this message board to him...and once that has happened, God calls me home...now if that is the case, who am I to argue with God?

Or better yet, I look at it like this...think about any particular deadly disease, like pancreatic cancer. I think to myself..what if I got diagnosed with PC? I would be terrified!!! But, suppose God revealed to me through divine revelation that he caused me to get pancreatic cancer because it is through this disease that two people will come to him, and they will only come to him if I die of this disease....

I can't speak for anyone else, but to me that would make my ailment all worth the while. The things that we go through now, every event that happens...the question of "why" may not be revealed until years down the line...or better yet..imagine a mother that lost her child for whatever reason...the mother dies, and if she is a believer, God will reveal to her why she lost her child, and not only that, she will be reunited with her child and their tenure together in paradise will exceed any tenure they had together on earth.



What if every single child that dies before the age of accountability would have became a believer?



There is no absurdity in postulating that since God is omnipotent, he can orchestrate a world at which every scenario ultimately happens for the greater good even if finite beings, in our limited understanding, don't have the slightest clue as to how this can be possible.



I am just saying; According to the bible, children are saved. Point blank, period. You are asking why and how regarding them, when you need to be worried about your own eternal destination, since theirs is already in the bag.



I am just saying that is one way to look at it. Another way to look at it is, as I said before, children that aren't yet capable of distinguishing good acts from bad acts should not receive the same fate as those that CAN.



Well if the objective is to have the mind of a little child, then obviously the child is in good standings with Jesus so therefore why are we having this discussion?



God has a reason for everything he allows to happen. If a child dies, then there is a reason why God allowed it to happen. Now yeah, you can look at it as a "free pass" if you like, but if God knows that I will be part of his kingdom if I died as an adult, then it really doesn't matter whether he called me "home" as a child, or as an adult, now would it?



You can't be held accountable if you don't know right from wrong, viole.



The motto is "Jesus died on the cross for our sins, and by accepting him as Lord and Savior you inherit the kingdom of God. Children/aborted babies have yet to sin, but they are still covered by the grace of God.

Unless it's Adam and Eve and they're dooming all mankind for several millennium. Then it's okay.
 
Unless it's Adam and Eve and they're dooming all mankind for several millennium. Then it's okay.

So you actually believe that two naked teen agers, a snake and an apple determined the future of mankind. I'm a Jack and the Beanstalk man myself. I've always admired the ogre and his golden harp.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
So you actually believe that two naked teen agers, a snake and an apple determined the future of mankind. I'm a Jack and the Beanstalk man myself. I've always admired the ogre and his golden harp.

I believe Santa Claus and his elves created the universe. It was Rudolph who betrayed mankind. ;)
The ogre might have been there too.
 
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adi2d

Active Member
If the vast majority of souls in heaven have never lived and never sinned why keep this world going? God could fill heaven and stop all this suffering. I have tried before to get one of the true believers to explain this but it seems they find it easier to just cite a couple verses or "God works in mysterious ways".

If the souls can get an eternity of joy why does anyone need to suffer 100 years or so on earth?

Honest question. Can I get an honest answer?
 
I believe Shrek and the donkey will save us. Yeah, yeah, I'm a believer.

If they would just say something that simple I might say "Go For It!"

It's the total description of the lord appearing in the east with a blast from god's trumpet, floating on a bank of clouds and that the dead will rise first then all the good guys(white hats) will float up on gossamer wings and join him to fly off and live behind pearly gates in an exclusive community to live in bliss forever. Then they have the arrogant gall to declare that all who don't believe their tale will burn in the eternal fires of hell screaming and grinding their teeth in misery for eternity. Brother....that takes a set of brass cojones.
 
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