Here are some more technical, legal, theological or philosophical reasons to condemn the claim that God is evil.
1. It has been claimed God is evil. Then why are you or anyone alive to claim that. The few examples you have given that are ambiguous or just wrong to begin with must be balanced against the endless accounts of the unmerited favor God has shown a corrupt mankind. Every second we live is proof that God's love trumps his requirement of justice. He is a judge who continuously issues stays of execution. If he was evil and is capable of doing what he wishes why is it that does not kill us by the millions? Why are not all of us in some cosmic torture chamber somewhere? No hell is not an eternal torment. It is separation from God and eventually the same annihilation that will happen in your view anyway. Why is love, actual meaning, actual purpose, dignity, equality, and true morality etc....only rooted in the absolute with him? Without him you atheists have left us as only biological anomalies destined to be destroyed in a future heat death with no true value, sanctity, or purpose beyond what selfish preference and opinion can generate. If God's purpose is to be evil he is certainly doing a terrible job at it.
2. The versus concerning servants do not have the word slavery in them yet you use slavery when speaking about them constantly. It is not I who is in denial. In fact even in verses where slavery is used any honest, non biased, not pressupositionally derived research will note the vast difference in even OT slavery than slavery as we know it. Here is a very exhaustive look at slavery in Biblical terms.
http://christianthinktank.com/qnoslave.html
It could easily be shown that the practice lessened misery in general and was almost always voluntary.
3. God has two types of will revealed to us. His active will (what he desires) and his passive will (what he permits usually for our sake). Slavery even in the much more benevolent form is part of his passive will. Slavery and divorce were allowed because of our sin. Many fathers might know that to forcibly separate a daughter from the boy she thinks she loves many times makes the problem worse so instead rules to mitigate damage are instituted. This is very apparent in the Bible. The Bible's progressive revelation from genesis through revelation exhibits more and more benevolent practices instituted in the case of indentured servitude.
- The Bible acknowledged the slave's status as the property of the master (Ex. 21:21; Lev. 25:46).
- The Bible restricted the master's power over the slave. (Ex. 21:20)
- The slave was a member of the master's household (Lev. 22:11).
- The slave was required to rest on the Sabbath (Exodus 20:10; Deut. 5:14).
- The slave was required to participate in religious observances (Gen. 17:13; Exodus 12:44; Lev. 22:11).
- The Bible prohibited extradition of slaves and granted them asylum (Deut. 23:16-17).
- The servitude of a Hebrew debt-slave was limited to six years (Ex. 21:2; Deut. 15:12).
- When a slave was freed, he was to receive gifts that enabled him to survive economically (Deut. 15:14).
Why is slavery permitted in the Bible? | Christian Apologetics and Research Ministry
God's purpose was never to fix the misery our sin has created until the final judgement where divorce, slavery, and all sin will cease to exist. He cleaned up a practice we invented and we call him evil because it exists. He never looked down and said "hey why aren't you guys enslaving each other, get to it"
4. The member of a species that has enslaved his fellow man by the millions in the worst forms imaginable saying that God is evil because he found a practice in place and cleaned it up drastically is absurd.
5. David's son. If you wish to call God evil for killing David's son you MUST prove several things.
a. David's son did not go to heaven. If he did your argument is quite silly. I would take that deal every day of the week.
b. The act was beyond the sovereignty of a good God given that God's revelation and purpose is not to violate free will 99.9% of the time.
c. That God had an option that would have produced more good given less suffering that could have been performed within the context of his purpose.
d. That you understand the true nature of this "evil" act and that the rest of us are wrong about the billions of events we attribute to a good God.
e. You must show something impossible. Morality in the God hypothesis is simply a reflection of the nature of good. For him to be evil you must show that God's nature is not consistent with God's nature. Good luck
6. The people in the greatest position and with the greatest motivation to condemn God as evil in these circumstances did not do so. In fact they loved God and thought him just. Yet you thousands of years later think you know better than they themselves did.
1. David believed God's actions just and loved God all the same and God blessed him with another son and said David "was a man after his own heart".
2. Even slaves held by Christians did not blame God for their plight (unlike you are) but instead sought him as their way out and he delivered them mightily by the hands of other Christians and a Christian president who acted on their faith.
3. Your condemnation of God based on a few rich plantation owners who rightly or wrongly called themselves Christians and the ignoring of the hundreds of thousands of Christians who fought and died to free men they had never met requires a bias beyond anything I can even imagine.
If you wish to take your few dozen versus you do not understand and resist any light to threaten the contentions you value so much and dismiss the other 99% of acts attributed to God that speak of a love greater than anything a mere human has ever displayed, then I am probably not going to be able to help. It is truly a shame. In the philosophical response to "the problem of evil" there are given two components contained within it.
1. The philosophical problem of evil given a good God.
2. The emotional problem of evil given a good God.
1a. I have shown that the technical or philosophical reason to reject God because evil exists is invalid. It may be (and examples are countless and easy to find) that evil or suffering reminds a rebellious species it needs God. It may be that the exact amount of evil and suffering we have will produce the greatest numbers of free thinking people who recognize their need of God. It certainly has happened that way billions of times.
2a. The emotional problem has no answer. We are built to dislike what we dislike and nothing can change that except a proper understanding of why bad things happen. Just as many scientists have said that the cosmology that has recently been discovered is identical to what they would have guessed given the first five books in the Bible, the moral landscape (unfortunate as it is) is exactly what is to be expected and was predicted by the Bible thousands of years ago. I do not like it anymore than you do but have made peace with it. I give God thanks for every heart break and moment of suffering necessary to take the hardest most stubborn kid on Earth and wear the rebellion out of him. Like the apostles claimed, to suffer in his cause is gain.
For to me, to live is Christ, and to
die is gain. But if I live on in the flesh, this will mean fruit from my labor; yet what I shall choose I cannot tell. For I am hard pressed between the two, having a desire
to depart and be with Christ,
which is far better (Philippians 1:21-23 emp. added).
The righteous perishes, and no man takes it to heart; merciful men are taken away, while no one considers that the righteous
is taken away from evil.
He shall enter into peace; they shall rest in their beds, each one walking in his uprightness (57:1-2, emp. added).
http://www.apologeticspress.org/APContent.aspx?category=11&article=2202