If a god doesn't actually do anything, and is indistinguishable from fake gods, then it is worthless. It has nothing to do with "personal problems", but is rather an honest assessment. I mean just a gnome that dolls out postmortem spankings and cookies? Really?
I guess I just have a different view point is all. I don't see him as indistinguishable at all, but if that is your view point, then I could understand your question. Trust me, I have asked the same questions that you did.
I am sure you remember the tsunami that shocked the world. THAT hurt!! There are personal stories that came out of that and the feelings I felt will last my life time, more than I can express to you. There were many hard decisions made by parents that I hope to never be faced with in my lifetime. But why would I blame G.d for that? I don't know what caused that tsunami and I will admit to having my suspicions elsewhere.
What were you expecting? His hand to reach down? Where would it be reaching from? I have no real comprehension of G.d. I can say from my own personal searching that I have found Him, but what good does that do for you and what good will it do for me to blame Him for His creation? It is like blaming Him for death, no? What would happen if there was no death? I would think the consequences for such would be much more inconceivable if everyone who ever lived on this earth to still be living.
Then let's dispose of doctors, firefighters, law enforcement and courts.
I know I will not find favor for saying this, but I do want to be honest. I am not in total disagreement with the above. Just my opinion. Obviously most don't agree with me and look at where it has taken us? You will never be happy if you keep thinking this way, right?