Sorry, perhaps I did not state that clearly. The point is, you don’t gain strength from an experience by laying down and letting it overpower you. You gain strength by standing up and fighting against it, overcoming it. The pain itself does not strengthen you, it is overcoming the pain that strengthens you. The more you overcome, the stronger you become… Do you agree?
That's right up there with that which does not kill me makes me stronger? An obvious half lie.
Yes harrowing experiences of suffering and torture can make you stronger but how and why?
Take a person who has never suffered and never endured pain or torture. Take another PoW who has overcome his past. Is the latter happier, stronger and more enriched then the former?
Maybe. Thats it. It is possible - Just as is the case with everyone else.
There are those that postulate having suffered through the experiences of poverty and growing up with a single mom etc etc only has lead to a strength of character and a more enriching life and experience there of. Which is in comparison to what? To if they had grown up without pain and suffering? Then there is Ann Coulter who said if you have ever been a victim of a crime thank a single mom.
Do you not think its possible that one who has never suffered can be stronger, happier and have a life more enriching then one who has suffered?
The bible says in revelations that death, pain and suffering will be no more. If such a prophecy were visited upon current humans would they all end up less enriched and never as strong as those humans that overcame great difficulties in their lives?
So when you ask if I agree... No... the more you overcome does not neccesarilly lead to becoming stronger. It could. However its not required.