Koldo
Outstanding Member
Of course. What's your point? Justifying a snarky comment? Or just assuring yourself that I'm not too big for my britches?
Just making sure one of your statements has been rendered useless.
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Of course. What's your point? Justifying a snarky comment? Or just assuring yourself that I'm not too big for my britches?
Beliefs aren't "imposed." No one can force belief. Beliefs can be offered, suggested, shared, used metaphorically, but not imposed.
It means that, many times when the religion isn't effective, it's due more to the practitioner or seeker not doing her or his due diligence, than it is to an inherent failure of the religion.
Your children didn't have much of a say in the matter, did they?
This is pretty similar to what is religious indoctrination. The remarkable difference is that in one case the adult is teaching the child how to interact on society within the rules and customs it has learned, while in the other case it goes much beyond that.
I'd like to elaborate my position a little more here, because it appears as though many don't understand where I'm coming from.
I have no problem with Catholicism, Protestantism, Orthodoxy, Shamanism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Humanism, Paganism -- or any other "ism," provided that the system doesn't become self-serving to the point that the myths and metaphors it teaches become fact, in and of themselves. There are many different paths to the Divine, just as there are many faces to the Divine, and just as there are billions of unique individuals who seek the Divine.
So is forcing them to work in your profession. Don't blame me for your bad analogies.
Are my kids so unusual? They questioned everything I ever said to them from the time they were little. My son, at age 4, announced to me that there is no Santa Claus, no Easter Bunny, etc. I could never get my kids to believe anything.
First, you imply here that you do have a problem with any of those isms when they're accepted as facts. That would mean we agree concerning most Christian child-raising in this country.
Second, this view of yours would seem to support the idea of letting kids figure out their own path. If there are so many different options, why force them into just one of them, making it harder for them to then explore others when they have the opportunity? I know I've asked this before, but I still haven't gotten a real answer to it.
Not exactly the same. When I taught my children how to be polite (one example), I expected them to conform and even insisted on it, when I taught them to not hit each other or there would be consequences (such as time out), I'd insist they not hit each other, and more. When it came to teaching them faith, I didn't do the same thing, I definitely did not insist they needed to follow my faith and I told them that it was their own decision to make. I'd say that's a huge difference.
It hasn't been rendered useless at all, since the statement was one of well-known fact. The fact that my own perspective is limited has no bearing on the truth of the statement. So... I have to wonder: Whose statement has been rendered useless.Just making sure one of your statements has been rendered useless.
It hasn't been rendered useless at all, since the statement was one of well-known fact. The fact that my own perspective is limited has no bearing on the truth of the statement. So... I have to wonder: Whose statement has been rendered useless.
It's not unusual for kids to question. It's also not unusual for kids to not believe in Santa Claus, etc. But it's unusual for kids brought up as Christian to stop believing in Christianity, or at least parts of it. That's why there's historically been such a small number of non-Christians in this country.
As soon as the child becomes self-differentiated, beliefs may naturally fall by the wayside. Imprinting them "forever" is really difficult.Whether or not you think they can be forced, they can most certainly be imposed. Imposing a belief just means forcing it on them. It doesn't necessarily mean they then accept it. But considering the position a parent is in, imposing the belief on the child generally leads to the child accepting it.
No, a realization that religion is relationship, not objective knowledge. If it doesn't "work," it's a product of the relationship -- both parties culpable -- not simply a matter of a faulty body of knowledge. The failure may be as simple as the relationship not being a good fit.Ah, a sort of all-encompassing excuse for religion not working.
I'm not convinced about the quantifier "most." You'll have to provide statistics.That would mean we agree concerning most Christian child-raising in this country.
When they're old enough to do so. The statement said nothing about that, though. The statement was with regard to the validity of one of many valid paths.Second, this view of yours would seem to support the idea of letting kids figure out their own path.
Who's forcing? I don't know of many parents who actually force their children into belief, for one, as I said earlier, it's not really even possible to force someone else to believe. Teaching children faith is not the same as forcing them to believe in it. Why would learning one faith that the parents follow stop them for exploring other faiths?
I just can't agree with that. I've known a whole lot of people whose parents followed a faith and taught it to their children and the children either became a different faith or they were agnostic (I've met very, very few atheists). This includes my own mother, who was raised as a Catholic yet became an atheist at age 12. It includes my stepfather, who was raised as a Zen Buddhist and does not follow Zen Buddhism at all. It also includes many of my friends including but not limited to a young lady who was raised as a Christian yet became a Pagan and a young man who was raised as a Catholic who was an agnostic. There are so many others.
Parents who teach their religion to their children are forcing it on them. As I pointed out, it is possible to force someone to believe. Learning the parents' religion would stop them from exploring others because they've already been taught that theirs is the true one. Even if they question that at some point, it's hard to break free of that view, once it's been drilled into you.
That...Could you elaborate?
...refers not to any particular person's perspective, but a perspective regardless of any particular person.generalizations from limited perspectives are put forward as "the whole truth"
As soon as the child becomes self-differentiated, beliefs may naturally fall by the wayside. Imprinting them "forever" is really difficult.
No, a realization that religion is relationship, not objective knowledge. If it doesn't "work," it's a product of the relationship -- both parties culpable -- not simply a matter of a faulty body of knowledge. The failure may be as simple as the relationship not being a good fit.
I'm not convinced about the quantifier "most." You'll have to provide statistics.
When they're old enough to do so. The statement said nothing about that, though. The statement was with regard to the validity of one of many valid paths.