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Woman slams airline for calling her "Miss" instead of Doctor.

Epic Beard Man

Bearded Philosopher
It began with:

O’Dwyer was boarding a Qantas plane when a flight attendant reportedly looked at her boarding pass — which said “Dr. O’Dwyer” — and instead addressed her as “Miss O’Dwyer.”

“Do not look at my ticket, look at me, look back at my ticket, decide it’s a typo, and call me Miss O’Dwyer,” Dwyer shared on social media. “I did not spend 8 years at university to be called Miss.”


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Siobhan O’Dwyer clapped back at critics. (Photo: Twitter/DrSiobhanO’Dwyer)

O’Dwyer is a senior lecturer in Aging and Family Care at the University of Exeter in the United Kingdom with a PhD.

Her original tweet received more than 8,000 likes and sparked a conversation about casual sexism, with passionate opinions supporting the academic.

However, she has also received a barrage of hate mail from outraged members of the public. According to a recent post, she has asked Twitter to filter out threatening messages. “Sincere apologies if you’ve contacted me for a legitimate reason & not had a response,” she wrote on Thursday. “In an effort to filter out the vitriol, Twitter has inadvertently filtered out some of the kindness & genuine enquiries. Bear with.”

When asked about the specific incident, Qantas commented on their crew’s behavior in general. “We are extremely proud of our cabin crew who respectfully serve our customers day in and day out and play a vital safety role,” A Qantas spokesperson told Yahoo on Thursday. “Our crew treat all passengers with the utmost respect, regardless of age, gender, and occupation.”

Source:Woman slams airline for calling her 'Miss' instead of 'Doctor': 'This was not about my ego'

As someone who has accomplishments academically and have acronymns next to my name, I have to say this is the most ridiculous thing I've read and it kinda makes me wonder whether it is true of the stereotype of the British culture who pride themselves on being "proper and bourgeois English people." Being called "Miss" is not a sign of casual sexism, it is a sign of respect. My mother always taught me that you must treat the elderly and those that are older than you with respect because they are not your equal (by this she equated having living a longer life with wisdom). This is certainly about ego as there are many clinicians, physicians, as well as those that hold a doctorate are hung up on titles. Easy to hide behind sexism when you're called out on something so egotistical and trivial.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member

We had this case a few years back in Australia.
In Victoria there were there bowling categories
Women's bowls
Men's bowls
Mixed bowls.

Fair enough. But one young lass insisted she play in the men's bowls.
She was fighting "sexism"
And she won. She can play in all three categories.
She became a media star.
No mention of men playing in women's bowls. The issue came up nowhere.

One cannot help but feel there's this creeping madness in society.
 
Unless you are a medical doctor on duty, expecting that you be called doctor is an embarrassing display of conceit. Some people really need to get over themselves.

Also interesting that she magically knew it must have been a deliberate slight born out of sexism as if there were no other possible explanation and such a thing couldn't possibly ever happen to a male passenger.
 
Fair enough. But one young lass insisted she play in the men's bowls.
She was fighting "sexism"
And she won. She can play in all three categories.
She became a media star.
No mention of men playing in women's bowls. The issue came up nowhere.

Maybe Mike Tyson can make a comeback in the featherweight division as forcing him to box at heavyweight is just a form of weight-ist fat shaming :D
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
I can just picture the woman fuming and muttering over her corn flakes in the morning.....

"Call me Miss, I'm a doctor damm you"!!!
 

DanishCrow

Seeking Feeds
Wholly lot sexist manbabies in here.

Yeah, she's arrogant, but a man of the same disposition would have gotten a written apology and a couple FF miles from the airline by way of compensation.
 
Yeah, she's arrogant, but a man of the same disposition would have gotten a written apology and a couple FF miles from the airline by way of compensation.

For calling him Mr instead of Dr when boarding??

I assume you haven't had many problems with airlines in the past, they are usually total ****s :D
 

Kangaroo Feathers

Yea, it is written in the Book of Cyril...
I register as "baron" whenever I'm asked for my title. You'd be amazed how many people don't understand the proper forms of address and call me something inappropriate.
 

Stanyon

WWMRD?
If she is that upset maybe she might think about purchasing a Sharpie and some of those " hello, my name is" stickers to wear.
 

Epic Beard Man

Bearded Philosopher
Wholly lot sexist manbabies in here.

Yeah, she's arrogant, but a man of the same disposition would have gotten a written apology and a couple FF miles from the airline by way of compensation.

Oh the irony of calling others "manbabies" yet proclaimith thus as sexist! Oh sayesth doth what is in thine heart!

But seriously how do you know if the man would have gotten an apology? So now we are supposed to address people by their titles? Doctor of Philosophy is not her name, its her title and any self respecting person in academia knows that this is more ego than anything. This rule applies to both men and women in academia.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
Should stand as a warning to anyone, male or female, looking to have a relationship with her. Her ego ain't going to be pleasant company to be around.
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Hmmmm.....being addressed by one's degree, eh.
I'd call her "Doctor" if she calls me "Master".
 
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