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Women: What happens in the voting booth, stays in the voting booth

F1fan

Veteran Member
Trump voters are calling Harris a "ditz" and saying women are bimbos and too emotional. Meanwhile, they are voting for...Trump.
No doubt there will be a few upset MAGAs at your post here. But I have invited them to make a case for why the criminal candidate is the superior option for America and the world, and they can't do it. They tend to default into false criticism of Harris.
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
I wasn't saying that the bible promoted slavery. It doesn't say "Get yourself a slave because it is OK", what it says is "Certain forms of slavery are OK". You can easily find references to this in both Leviticus 25:44 and Numbers 31 (where God specifically told Moses to treat virgin women, in a certain event, as spoil of war).

But more importantly, you will not find any verses commanding the masters to release their slaves from there on.
I might disagree with you on this a bit. I like to sometimes compare slavery to prostitution. Most of us would hate to be either.

If I was in a position of authority where I could set the laws and tell a person where they could hire a prostitute. Whose services you could buy and whose you could not. What you would expect to pay for those services. How long those services would last. How you could treat the prostitute (and not very nicely if we go by what the Bible says about slaves), it would be pretty difficult for me to then claim "But I am not for prostitution". The Bible, at least the Old Testament, is very pro-slavery. And the New Testament is not much better.
 

F1fan

Veteran Member
I wasn't saying that the bible promoted slavery. It doesn't say "Get yourself a slave because it is OK", what it says is "Certain forms of slavery are OK". You can easily find references to this in both Leviticus 25:44 and Numbers 31 (where God specifically told Moses to treat virgin women, in a certain event, as spoil of war).

But more importantly, you will not find any verses commanding the masters to release their slaves from there on.
This is how the good, decent Baptists of the Confederation of States justified owning humans for forced labor. The liberalism of governing that came out of the Enlightenment saw that Western nations slowly outlawed slavery. the USA, a highly Christian nation, was slower at adopting this attitude. It lead to a civil war to settle the social and political conflict.

But Christians still didn't learn about human rights. The Catholics and Lutherans of Nazi Germany had no problem arresting Jews, confining them is inhumane conditions, and then executing them to resolve their existence being a "problem". I wonder how they interpreted the Bible that allowed them to justify such actions. No doubt a similar flexibility in interpretation allows them to limit rights to women, and justify voting for a criminal guilty of sexual assault. The post by @wellwisher illustrates the corruption of Christian extremism on American society.
 

Koldo

Outstanding Member
I might disagree with you on this a bit. I like to sometimes compare slavery to prostitution. Most of us would hate to be either.

If I was in a position of authority where I could set the laws and tell a person where they could hire a prostitute. Whose services you could buy and whose you could not. What you would expect to pay for those services. How long those services would last. How you could treat the prostitute (and not very nicely if we go by what the Bible says about slaves), it would be pretty difficult for me to then claim "But I am not for prostitution". The Bible, at least the Old Testament, is very pro-slavery. And the New Testament is not much better.

I definitely see where you are coming from.
When I said the bible doesn't promote slavery I said it as in the bible doesn't outright tell people to turn others into slaves (or at least it doesn't instruct the average Joe into doing so). But I can see why providing a legal framework where slavery is an acceptable practice can also be considered as promoting slavery.
 

Subduction Zone

Veteran Member
I definitely see where you are coming from.
When I said the bible doesn't promote slavery I said it as in the bible doesn't outright tell people to turn others into slaves (or at least it doesn't instruct the average Joe into doing so). But I can see why providing a legal framework where slavery is an acceptable practice can also be considered as promoting slavery.
It is a rather useful way of arguing the point. You could ask a Christian if that is promoting prostitution. In the past the feds have closed websites that only did part of that due to their claims that they were promoting prostitution by allowing women to advertise their services on them. Of course it did not help one businesses defense that sometimes the "women" that were advertised there were said to be not of age. That was the big no no that caused the feds to step in.

My housemate's son was having drug problems back when Backpage was a website for such services. His girlfriend use to "escort" for him When mama could not keep track of him looking for his girlfriend allowed us to know if they were okay or not. And yes, they were found guilty of promoting prostitution:

 

Alien826

No religious beliefs
Definitely giving you the benefit of the doubt because you seem to really think things through, looking for the truth. So I'd like to share with you that the minute a man tells me how much I should smile, or how happy I should appear, I'm already gonna have my defenses up.
I hope you understood that my comments were directed to whoever put the ad together, not any woman in particular. The ad had a purpose, which was to persuade a certain demographic of women to vote for Harris. How well it did that was my only concern.

Incidentally, I understand your reaction, I just had two women, one of whom had no direct connection to the matter, give me what amounted to a direct order as to how I should do something (doesn't matter what). I reacted similarly to that.
I'd be interested to know how the commercial came into being, how much input they had from women.
Yes, it would be sensible to include women in the process. My understanding is that advertisers spend a lot of time designing their ads, with one objective in mind. Will the ad persuade the target demographic to buy the product? If including women in the process furthers that end then that's what they should do. Did you watch the show "Mad Men"? I stopped watching because of how the women were treated. Yes, "it's just a show" but it annoyed me. The show was set in the 1960's and hopefully things have changed.
Edit: I've found some info to start:

Vote Common Good aims to provide an “exit ramp” for Evangelical and Catholic voters who “have been taught that to be faithful, they must vote for Republican candidates regardless of the candidate’s character or policy positions,” the organization explains on its website.



But I haven't found anything on how the ad came together.

You probably won't. I don't think they (advertisers in general) are too forthcoming on that, for various reasons. Vote Common Good seems to have produced the ads, they say "our ad".

Incidentally, my interest in advertising goes back to a book The Hidden Persuaders (1957 by Vance Packard. I read it when it came out or soon after and was shocked to learn how much the ad industry manipulated us through subconscious triggers. I imagine they have become much better at it since then. :(
 

Brickjectivity

Veteran Member
Staff member
Premium Member
No doubt, the men who don't/can't have intelligent conversations with their wives and who wrap themselves in the Christian ideology that "men are superior" are disgusting and weak.
The verses cherry picked by some people in this thread (people who really lack expertise in quoting scripture) are not intended to put men forward as superior. They are about religious marriage and are spoken to a particular group in response to a letter we do not possess. The letters we have do not explain explicitly why men are in charge, but they do not belittle women either; and we can interpolate why the men are in charge and that it has nothing to do with any superiority. The Jewish law does make a distinction with varying distinct values for people of differing ages and sexes, but this is ignored in Christianity. In Christianity the previous difference is specifically set aside as not Christian with Paul stating there is neither male nor female in Christ. It is not Paul who starts this, however, but Jesus who talks directly with women and his teacher John the Baptist who (I think) baptizes them. Notice Jesus has female disciples? That should not be the case if he considers males to be superior. Also we know why the 12 apostles are males, and its because they are emissaries to the twelve Jewish tribes. After them come female apostles such as Junias.
 

Koldo

Outstanding Member
The verses cherry picked by some people in this thread (people who really lack expertise in quoting scripture) are not intended to put men forward as superior. They are about religious marriage and are spoken to a particular group in response to a letter we do not possess. The letters we have do not explain explicitly why men are in charge, but they do not belittle women either; and we can interpolate why the men are in charge and that it has nothing to do with any superiority. The Jewish law does make a distinction with varying distinct values for people of differing ages and sexes, but this is ignored in Christianity. In Christianity the previous difference is specifically set aside as not Christian with Paul stating there is neither male nor female in Christ.

I find it funny that you accuse others of cherry picking when you do it yourself. There are multiple references to different guidelines being provided to women and men through the New Testament. But you ignore that to pick the one case that could be possibly interpreted as there being no difference between women and men.

It is not Paul who starts this, however, but Jesus who talks directly with women and his teacher John the Baptist who (I think) baptizes them. Notice Jesus has female disciples? That should not be the case if he considers males to be superior. Also we know why the 12 apostles are males, and its because they are emissaries to the twelve Jewish tribes. After them come female apostles such as Junias.

Once again cherry picking. Junias is only referred once in the entire bible and it is unclear whether she is an apostle at all. There is also no reference to any other female apostle.
 
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Watchmen

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
The verses cherry picked by some people in this thread (people who really lack expertise in quoting scripture) are not intended to put men forward as superior. They are about religious marriage and are spoken to a particular group in response to a letter we do not possess. The letters we have do not explain explicitly why men are in charge, but they do not belittle women either; and we can interpolate why the men are in charge and that it has nothing to do with any superiority. The Jewish law does make a distinction with varying distinct values for people of differing ages and sexes, but this is ignored in Christianity. In Christianity the previous difference is specifically set aside as not Christian with Paul stating there is neither male nor female in Christ. It is not Paul who starts this, however, but Jesus who talks directly with women and his teacher John the Baptist who (I think) baptizes them. Notice Jesus has female disciples? That should not be the case if he considers males to be superior. Also we know why the 12 apostles are males, and its because they are emissaries to the twelve Jewish tribes. After them come female apostles such as Junias.
Yep. Big eyeroll from me.
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
I wasn't saying that the bible promoted slavery. It doesn't say "Get yourself a slave because it is OK", what it says is "Certain forms of slavery are OK". You can easily find references to this in both Leviticus 25:44 and Numbers 31 (where God specifically told Moses to treat virgin women, in a certain event, as spoil of war).

I think if you dug a little deeper and looked into the Jewish understanding, you would come to a different perspective on Leviticus and Numbers. If you studied the why’s to the different applications of what you call “spoils”, you would also have a different perspective.

Then you also have to deal with two testaments since the new removes the old.


But more importantly, you will not find any verses commanding the masters to release their slaves from there on.

The Exodus

Abolitionists did get their positions from the Bible.
What constitutes cherry picking is being selective on regards to what is included. It is impossible to cherry pick what is not included. You are ignoring the fact that husbands and wives are given different instructions on Ephesians 5, and that verse 21 must be interpreted taking into consideration what is said in the verses that follow it.
And the verses before it.
What wrong conclusion?
That wives have to vote how their husband tell them, for one.
Neither blind obedience nor loving agreement. The wife is supposed to remain loyal to God, rather than blindingly obeying her husband. The husband must love his wife, so obviously his orders must reflect this love. Tell me where in the bible you see any reference to a loving agreement when it comes down to decisions within a marriage.

Romans 12:10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;

Philippians 2:3 Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.

Ephesians 5:21 submitting to one another in the fear of God.

Is there a reason why in a marriage we should not come into a loving agreement?



I literally gave you an example that didn't include eating. It is about disputable matters of faith where one person truly believes they must do something to fulfill God's will. Unless your wife feels that way towards voting in a candidate, this is definitely not applicable.
You didn’t debunk my position with any credible logic.
You are the one calling it dictatorship.

It is what “seems” to be what you are suggesting?
 

Koldo

Outstanding Member
I think if you dug a little deeper and looked into the Jewish understanding, you would come to a different perspective on Leviticus and Numbers. If you studied the why’s to the different applications of what you call “spoils”, you would also have a different perspective.

Then you also have to deal with two testaments since the new removes the old.

I find it curious that you refer to the existence of a given jewish understanding (which you don't even specify) and at the next sentence you refer to the New Testament removing the Old which is obviously not a jewish perspective.

The Exodus

Abolitionists did get their positions from the Bible.

Like Exodus 21 where some of the rules for slavery are specified therefore allowing slavery under those conditions?

And the verses before it.

None of which support your position.

That wives have to vote how their husband tell them, for one.

The fact that you dislike the conclusion doesn't mean it is not accurate.

Romans 12:10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another;

Philippians 2:3 Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.

Ephesians 5:21 submitting to one another in the fear of God.

Is there a reason why in a marriage we should not come into a loving agreement?

Absolutely none of that entails that a loving agreement is necessary when making decisions in the context of a marriage. Obviously I don't mean that such an agreement is undesirable either.

You didn’t debunk my position with any credible logic.

I did. I have already explained what Romans 14 is about. It is about disputable matters of faith as clearly stated in the very first verse. One group thought they had to do eat a certain way, else they would be eating unclean food and acting contrary to God's will. The other group felt differently towards food. The solution provided in Romans 14 is to let people act in accordance to what they believe to be in accordance to God's will. This has absolutely nothing to do with disputable matters of politics.

It is what “seems” to be what you are suggesting?

If you dislike what God commands and wanna call it a dictatorship, feel free to take it up to him.
 

anna.

colors your eyes with what's not there
Yes, it would be sensible to include women in the process. My understanding is that advertisers spend a lot of time designing their ads, with one objective in mind. Will the ad persuade the target demographic to buy the product? If including women in the process furthers that end then that's what they should do. Did you watch the show "Mad Men"? I stopped watching because of how the women were treated. Yes, "it's just a show" but it annoyed me. The show was set in the 1960's and hopefully things have changed.

No, I never saw Mad Men, but I've heard that aspect of it. If I ever did watch it, I would want to see if the show was presenting sexism as something to be skewered, and if so if they did it well. Otherwise, I wouldn't watch for the same reason you stopped.


You probably won't. I don't think they (advertisers in general) are too forthcoming on that, for various reasons. Vote Common Good seems to have produced the ads, they say "our ad".

Yes, they did produce it, and they formed their organization specifically to create off-ramps for evangelicals. I know that much, but it would be interesting to read sometime what the backstory was on how they created the ad.

Incidentally, my interest in advertising goes back to a book The Hidden Persuaders (1957 by Vance Packard. I read it when it came out or soon after and was shocked to learn how much the ad industry manipulated us through subconscious triggers. I imagine they have become much better at it since then. :(

I haven't read that, but I have read Amusing Ourselves to Death by Neil Postman, which covered ad industry manipulation. If you're aware you're the target, you can resist better, you have to know why the sugar cereals are shelved in the grocery story at the eye level of kids, and why you have to go to the back of the store to get the dairy essentials you came for. Of course they want you to walk past everything else first. And that's partly why (there are multiple reasons) I'm not on social media. I can't forget "if something is free, you’re the product."
 

Kathryn

It was on fire when I laid down on it.
I could be wrong but I am pretty sure that the New Testament doesn't condone or dis condone slavery. I believe it's just simply stating that whatever state you find yourself in, to be content in that state.
 

It Aint Necessarily So

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Why is it OK if woman lobby and nag their mate, and if that does not work they lie and sneak behind his back?
It's OK because she's an autonomous individual and is free to vote for whomever she wants with or without her husband's approval. If she chooses to exercise her freedom and right, she can do it one of two ways - quietly or confrontationally. By your reckoning, if she wants to vote for Harris, she is obligated to incur his wrath.

But then you're an unrepentant sexist who sees women as inferiors who need to submit to their husbands as the following quote confirms:
men tried to empathized and have spoiled the women into thinking they are more than they are; equals or more.
Your neanderthal ways are for the past. Many have evolved beyond that:

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The reality is that one should take the Bible as a whole to bring full context ant not simply read into a statement and bring one’s own conclusion without precedent.
I see you're still trying to whitewash the moral defects in your scriptures. How's that working out? Have you convinced anybody that you're correct?
I love irony. And given your comments you wouldn't pee on yourself if you were on fire given you do what you claim to despise in others. The inner conflict must be constant.
He was offended that I would find a MAGA to show poor judgment and that I wouldn't trust his judgment as an employee or house/dog sitter.

Recap:

Me: If you vote for Trump, I can't respect you, man or woman, and I am sure that there are many who agree. I also wouldn't trust your judgment in other areas, thus I wouldn't hire you as an employee or to house and dog sit for me, because you either don't know right from wrong or don't care.​
He: You just proved my point with your personal attacks. For what its worth, I wouldn't pee on you if you were on fire.​
He supports the candidate that wants Liz Cheney and now reporters shot. Of course's he's unwelcome in my home, workplace, and life.

Moreover, he thinks I made his case and, with his response, I think he made mine. I didn't feel the need to say so upon reading his words, but now that you've called him out on it - and thanks for that - I thought I'd add that opinion now.
 
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9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
I could be wrong but I am pretty sure that the New Testament doesn't condone or dis condone slavery. I believe it's just simply stating that whatever state you find yourself in, to be content in that state.

In Ephesians, the author gives advice to slaveowners. That advice includes a recommendation not to threaten your slaves, but it doesn't include a recommendation to free them.

I'd say that this is a tacit endorsement.
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
I see you're still trying to whitewash the moral defects in your scriptures. How's that working out? Have you convinced anybody that you're correct?

i’ve lost count. First with my immediate family, then extended family and from there probably over 1,000 at our church over the last 30 years and more in Venezuela, Ecuador, Honduras and Peru.

No defects. The defect is in understanding the love of God who loved the world so much that He gave His only begotten son that whosever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life because He didn’t come to condemn the world but to save the world.

Obviously within the context of my signature.
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
I find it curious that you refer to the existence of a given jewish understanding (which you don't even specify) and at the next sentence you refer to the New Testament removing the Old which is obviously not a jewish perspective.

I’m sorry… did I not say “2” issues?

Are you saying you don’t know the Jewish perspective? If you really are interested, have your thought of opening a post asking our Jewish friends on RF for the Jewish perspective? You probably would accept it better from their understanding than mine.

If you don’t like the two Testaments, why do you quote both? If you do accept both, then I stand by my statement.

Like Exodus 21 where some of the rules for slavery are specified therefore allowing slavery under those conditions?
You asked for one scripture… did you not like it? You know, “Let my people go?"

None of which support your position.
Only in the recesses of your imagination?
The fact that you dislike the conclusion doesn't mean it is not accurate.
But my conclusions are right. ;)
Absolutely none of that entails that a loving agreement is necessary when making decisions in the context of a marriage. Obviously I don't mean that such an agreement is undesirable either.
It sounds like you haven’t had a loving relationship.
I did. I have already explained what Romans 14 is about. It is about disputable matters of faith as clearly stated in the very first verse. One group thought they had to do eat a certain way, else they would be eating unclean food and acting contrary to God's will. The other group felt differently towards food. The solution provided in Romans 14 is to let people act in accordance to what they believe to be in accordance to God's will. This has absolutely nothing to do with disputable matters of politics.
I already explained Romans 14. I understand you want to bring a very narrow understanding because the actual application of the last few words doesn’t support your position “ for whatever is not from faith is sin.”. Since it encompasses more that just eating and resting, because "without faith it is impossible to please God” you have to truncate it as you did with Ephesians 5:21 and Genesis 1-3 and the end iin Revelation.




If you dislike what God commands and wanna call it a dictatorship, feel free to take it up to him.

Again… it sounds like you don’t understand a loving relationship. I do support your right to hold onto your viewpoints.
 
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Koldo

Outstanding Member
I’m sorry… did I not say “2” issues?
Are you saying you don’t know the Jewish perspective?
If you don’t like the two Testaments, why do you quote both?

You missed the point.
Either the jewish perspective is authoritative or it is not.
If you were to ask a jew their perspective on the New Testament, they would say it is not actual holy scritpture. Is the jewish perspective authoritative then? If it is not, why do you care about the jewish perspective on Leviticus and Numbers?

You asked for one scripture… did you not like it? You know, “Let my people go?"

Another example of cherry picking. That was an one time event leading to the hebrews getting out of Egypt. As you are well aware, Leviticus and Numbers come after Exodus, and in both of them you will see slavery being allowed. Slavery was not in itself the issue in Exodus, but rather what people were enslaved and under what conditions.


Only in the recesses of your imagination?

But it is ;)

It sounds like you haven’t had a loving relationship.

No arguments to address on any of this.

I already explained Romans 14. I understand you want to bring a very narrow understanding because the actual application of the last few words doesn’t support your position “ for whatever is not from faith is sin.”. Since it encompasses more that just eating and resting, because "without faith it is impossible to please God” you have to truncate it as you did with Ephesians 5:21 and Genesis 1-3 and the end iin Revelation.

I have already said the underlying rationale is not applicable merely to dietary matters. It is applicable to disputable matters of faith as clearly said in the text, but not to disputable matters of politics.
 
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