The original topic can be addressed by science, instead of opinion and philosophy. This is based on how male and female brains are wired differently. Men are visual animals, while women are more verbal; on the average. This is because men's brains are wired more front to back; eyes, while the women's brains are wired more side to side; ears. Women attract men with visual illusions; hair, makeup, eyes, body language, clothes, etc. to pander to their natural brain wiring; eyes. While men need charm, sense of human and a good line of bull to pander to the female wiring; ears. This is due to this natural brain wiring. It is common to all cultures.
This difference has a connection to the subjective and universal languages. There are 7000 human spoken languages on earth, meaning that the sounds of words are subjective. Any sound can means anything you want; slang. Each of the 7000 languages may have a different word for the thing, in English, we call human. While each work, can have more than one meaning. This divergence occurs between the sounds of human words are not based on natural sounds. Has anyone heard a cat make the sound "cat". That sound was arbitrary and once agreed upon, sort of has a cause and effect connection, but it is built on subjectivity and an unnatural foundation; manmade. The word Fascist appears to be mean the opposite for each political party; subjective.
Vision is actually a form of natural language, in that the human eyes are designed to allow all humans to see the same thing. Photons from the environment, are like the letters, words and sentences that reflect objects and actions. These natural photons impinge on the eyes, and then send signals to the brain for interpretation. For the most part, all humans will see the same things, independent of their human language. We can tell 7000 people, in each of the 7000 languages, to point to the cat, from a lineup of 1000 objects. Their unique spoken subjective language sound, will trigger the image of a cat in their imagination, and they can all agree to point to the cat. Men tend to have more access to that universal language of sight due to the wiring.
Universal language is not easy to do this with human language, unless you force everyone use only one of the 7000 languages. Males, by being more visual, have more universal common sense, beyond spoken language. Females can do all the same things, but will do visual much better, if it is in print to help them visualize. Education benefits women more than men. Men are innovative due to not always needing words to see the unspoken visual. Entrepreneurs, like Elon Musk, quit college to follow his unique visions. The front to back wiring of men conect the visual cortex; sight, to the imagination; self learning. It can skip the ears and the subjectivity.
If we get back to females, and their side-to side wiring, females have more balance between the left and right hemisphere; emotion; spatial, and thought; linear and rational, based on language. This is naturally designed for dealing with children. Women can read the emotions of their children; right brain and interpret that with their left brain; words. For example, babies have a number of cries; hunger, tired, frustrated, needs changing, manipulation, etc. The female can differentiate these, by how each cry makes her feel, and from that, take the right action or inaction. A male may just see and hear a child crying. Or her child may do something wrong, but the mother can sense his deeper needs by his voice. The father may just see the infraction. Unconditional love of the mother is often the feeling below the words and visual actions.
Although this side-to side wiring is useful and designed for mothers and her children, it can be manipulated by adults. Without the visual wiring, first line of differentiation, .like the men, women may not see how they are being tricked. If they sense a good feeling or empathy, of fear, and they see it in writing and conversation, they may go along with the subjectivity; charismatic leader.
Men tend to see first; universal language of physical reality, and are not as dependent on the words of others; fake news or an over the top Trump speech. Like with Trump and Harris, all the visual metrics of a good economy could be seen under Trump, and the reverse was seen under Biden and Harris. But if you depend upon the subjectivity of language and emotions, you can depart reality and ignore the eyes. This is why the country is more divided, eyes to ears.
The old tradition of the husband leading the wife is about seeing coming before hearing, since it is more natural, universal, and harder to manipulate than spoken language. A magic trick can manipulate, what you think you see. But that is elaborate or close range; card trick. If the goal is to manipulated a wide range of eyes, it gets too complicated. But gossip; words, with one sentence that anyone can create, can manipulate the same number of women, like a virus. The male offers a natural visual way to stay real. They cannot get them all.
What ha happened to culture; changing of roles; male and female is now female-male amalgam, is based on words; laws, books and TV talk shows. The magic trick to help fool the eyes is based on PC, DEI, and affirmative action. Half the people are put into holes, so they fall and appear the same height as the shorter ones. If the audience plays along; or is forced to, it can fool the bigger audience; new equal norm.
I believe it is time for the eyes of men to lead, and the ears of women to listen and help each other, by optimize the next generation of eyes and ears; pioneers and settlers. MAGA is a visual image, which why it appeals to men; compare your check book, then and now. The emotional turmoil was caused by the Swamp on the offense; Russian Collusion scam to law fare scams; watch the history.