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Would anyone care to prove that 'love' exists?

Wombat

Active Member
Catching up.
If you act with love then you must have some attachment...(idealistic attachment for your fellow man).

If you are attached to either them out of compassion (attachment to those that are suffering, humans will instinctively assist each other if they can) or something/someone else that you wish to please (proxy attachment)

No love is attachment...it is a human emotion...nothing more.

By this line of reasoning (and I'm not arguing against it) all human activity, thought and emotion could be attributed to "attachment"....could it not? :)yes::no:?)

Whatever we do we do through attachment to the desire to do it...whatever we think, feel, believe we do through attachment to those thoughts, feelings, beliefs...whatever change we make to behaviour or belief stems from attachment to the desire for change.

While this (attachment theory?) may very well be true....I'm not sure how revealing or usefull it is.

ie "love is attachment...it is a human emotion...nothing more" may well be true at one level....while- Love is attachment to the principle of preparedness to do for others regardless or in spite of prevailing emotion...may also be true and reflect 'something more' about love than just emotion.
 

Willamena

Just me
Premium Member
I bought it for my adolescent daughter Sophie...she didn't (enjoy it)...found the idea of anonymous letters in the letter box “creepy”, found the philosophical approach to the God question “puerile” and “adolescent”.

Can’t win em all ;-)
At a guess, she possibly didn't enjoy it because it's not for adolescents.
 

Magic Man

Reaper of Conversation
Again. That's not what I said. Your either having trouble reading "complicated" and "confusing sentences"...or obfuscating with misrepresentation. I said- "No we cannot prove that "people have the feelings"....that is not to deny that people have feelings...it just points out that we (and sometimes they) do not know what feeling they are having, can be faking a feeling and that they/we "cannot prove that "people have >the< feelings" that they claim.

Yeah, and that's just silly. The point is we have feelings. We can see that objectively. We determine which feelings we and others are feeling based on how it makes us or them act. So, yes, we can prove that people have the feelings.

I never said anything about the stimulus needing to be a particular person

Neither did I. I gave an example.

Maybe >that's< 'love'.............maybe love is something else...like a non emotionaly motivated or dependent- "Preparedness to do for others".
Like 'God'...there is no hard/fast definition and no way to >proove< the propisition
A statement of commonly held faith/belief in love that is no different to-
" You don't even need brain scans/proof to see that God exist".

OK, your ideas are way too irrational to make sense of. Love is what we define it as. All love is is a word we came up with to describe something we already know exists. If you want to call it something else, be my guest, but the thing we use the term for still exists.

Some things seem so obvious to some people that no proof is expected or required.
Some things (love, God, what's funny) cannot be proven.....doesn't mean they don't exist.

Love can be proven. This is the part you're intentionally missing. Love is proven because it's a word we use to describe certain actions and feelings. We know it exists because we came up with it to describe something we know exists. It's like having a table in front of you and coming up with the word "table", and then asking "How do you know a table exists?". Well, because it's right there in front of us, and we use the term table because we can see the table existing.

[/quote]Love is >not< just defined as an emotion or feeling[/quote]

Great, but who cares? Stop equivocating. Stick to one word. You want to see someone prove love exists. For that, we use the definition of a feeling or emotion. If you want to talk about other definitions of the word, then we can do that, but it's a separate discussion.

That's right...we see a "display"...We know that some "displays" are acting/pretending and some "displays" are snake oil deception and some "displays" are drug/mental illness induced and some "displays" are genuine...we know these "displays" >exist< but we have no way of >prooving< which is which!
We make our calculation and bet on the "display" based on experience, probability, faith, hope......but not certainty and certainly not >proof<.

We know love exists. It's possible in some cases people misunderstand their feelings, and it's possible that in some cases we don't know whether they're feeling love as they claim. However, that doesn't negate the fact that we know love exists. All it does is explain that we don't necessarily know whether someone is having that feeling/emotion.

>Likewise<....Some people find the world to be such a "display" of the 'love' of God they bet/believe God exists....but no one has >proof< of love or God.

Nope, we have proof of love, just not God. And I understand that some people find the world to be a display of the love of God, and therefore believe God exists, but that's not based on anything rational.

:yes: "describing reactions we have" to the "display"...reading the "display",
interpreting the “display”, applying logic and common sense and probability to the “display”....but not having any proof that the “display” can be sourced to love or God.

Please try to at least read what I say. There is no entity "love" to attribute things to. We're not saying there is some kind of force called love. We're saying the display is love. This is something I've explained more than once, and you're choosing to not understand it and continue on with your nonsense.

Generally psychopaths/sociopaths don't deny that people have the experiences they attribute to love, just that there is no love to attribute them to.;)

Cool, if you don't want to call those things love, then don't. You can call a table a heater, if you want, but the table still exists. Whatever the feeling is still exists whether you call it love or lust or whatever else.

In the same way, I know that people experience God because I can see them experiencing Him/Her and His/Her "display" in the universe.

No, all you know is that people are having a feeling. Assuming that feeling is caused by some god has no basis in reason. This makes it crystal clear. In both cases, you know the person is having a feeling. In one the feeling is what we're talking about (love). In the other, that feeling is being attributed to something else. We know the feelings are there, which proves love, but we don't know the outside being is there causing the feeling in the case of God.
 

OneThatGotAway

Servant of Yahweh God Almighty
Perhaps beginning with a definition that is historically consistent, acceptable to all and followed by empirical data that proves ‘love’ exists?
;)
(Please....No ‘experiential’ or ‘faith’ statements...just the scientific >facts<)
(PS...Brain Scans showing people 'experiencing love'?....they have those for 'experiencing God' too ;-)

Our eyes are great scientific tools for observation of love exhibited from the heart.
 

Primordial Annihilator

Well-Known Member
ie "love is attachment...it is a human emotion...nothing more" may well be true at one level....while- Love is attachment to the principle of preparedness to do for others regardless or in spite of prevailing emotion...may also be true and reflect 'something more' about love than just emotion.

That is attachment to an ideal...nothing more ;)
 

AntEmpire

Active Member
I wouldn't. I know love exists, if it were somehow found to be a hoax a myth, nothing more than chemical reacts... it would be the same to be as long as i stay willfully ignorant that it was/is a lie, because i love love, or my concept of love, or whatever love is.



Search youtube for Filmography 2010, was gonna embed it but im too much of a nub apparently
 

Wombat

Active Member
I wouldn't. I know love exists, if it were somehow found to be a hoax a myth, nothing more than chemical reacts... it would be the same to be as long as i stay willfully ignorant that it was/is a lie, because i love love, or my concept of love, or whatever love is.

GOOD FOR YOU!:clap

Have you ever seen/read A Streetcar Named Desire?
There is a scene in which young Brando confronts his sister in law with the fact that her pretence of being a Southern Belle is all fantasy...For a moment she breaks Belle role and concedes- "Yes, it's all a fantasy........but my fantasy is preferable to your reality"...then snaps back into Belle role and is untouchable therein.

"... i stay willfully ignorant that it was/is a lie, because i love love, or my concept of love, or whatever love is"........wonderfull................thank you.


And also for Filmography 2010...lots of fun...reminded me of how many flicks I have missed this year...thanks again.

Small token of appreciation,( perhaps the boys are lying-seeking fame, fortune, girls/groopies......... who cares.....It Must Be Love :D)
[youtube]puYt7B-tKQ8[/youtube]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puYt7B-tKQ8
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IAMDONE

Member
Love is a feeling.
You cannot prove a feeling.
Unless maybe your mind possessed someone elses body and felt that feeling.
 
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