Did you raise your kids Christian?
Have you actually told them they can leave your religion and you'll still love them?
Even though this goes against Jesus when he pronounced that loving your family more than him was a sin worthy of hell?
God isn't commanding that we neglect our families. He is just saying that God is to be first in our lives over everything else. in a Parable,, a great feast was being held,,and the king sent his servant to invite people to this great feast.,, Those who were invited,, made excuses,, one said: i just bought some land and I need to go see it. another said, I just bought some oxen,, and I want to see if they will work right. Another said that, he just got married and he had to tend to his wife.
None of those people put God first,,, and the great feast that they were invited to,, is God's Kingdom,, and they all refused,, because they had "better" things to do.
So,, God teaches us to place Him first. "The Angel of the Lord encampeth around those that love Him and He will deliver them."