I used to be a super moderator for a couple messge boards, and I donated my time, I surely didn't get paid.
As a staffer my job was to be fair, not be biased, and not go around badgering the members.
As for being banned, ugh no I have not been banned here prior... but I don't mind to get banned...
Who said I was lobbying? You assumed that. Just because I disagree with the lifestyle does not mean I'm out lobbying or something.
In the end it works both ways, don't force it on me, don't parade down the streets half naked and we're good.
And don't be angry when we deny you a wedding cake.