Sabour
Well-Known Member
Maybe as you go through life, you'll have the opportunity to meet some gays. I hope so. Walk a mile in their shoes. Walk a mile in everyone's shoes, every chance you get.
When I walk a mile in there shoes I see them wishing they were not that way.
Believe me, I do that a lot, the walking in every ones shoes. And when I do that, I make sure I adapt their way of thinking and not mine. Cz otherwise I won't be in their shoes. I will be still in mine.
I've seen young boys who seemed so effeminate to me that I assumed they would grow up to be gay. My main experience with young gays was in college, when I was around a lot of them and able to observe a bit. I've read many stories of young boys whose parents knew they were gay before the child hit puberty.
And I know some people who look gay on the first sight because of the way they approach and react to things. But they are not.
I don't think that tells much.
Really, you don't know what you are talking about. May I suggest that you reserve your certainty about things until you've had a bit more experience with those things? You say lots of stuff here in your messages which is simply untrue.
Don't let your Quranic/Muslim Truth overwhelm the truth which you can observe out in the world. That will lead to terrible confusion. As with evolution, for example. If you believe that evolution is untrue -- because you think that's what your Perfect Book says -- then you will be unable to process information which comes directly to your eyes and ears as you go about life.
Same with gays. Observe them. Then try to understand how your observations fit with Quranic verses.
I didn't completely rule out the possibility. I am aware that many scientists say that one may be born this way. But I also saw many scientists saying no it is the actions and the way they were raised.
So I think there is a matter of belief in the subject because you can't clearly study it and adapt an opinion.
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