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A Candid Discussion on Homosexuality

pearl

Well-Known Member
In discussing whether homosexuality is right or wrong, much of the logic that homosexuality should be justified and accepted is based on the argument that it is natural.


I think these are separate issues. Right or wrong implies a moral judgment apart from what is 'natural'. Whether a homosexual act
is 'natural' must be confined to 'true' homosexuality. True homosexuality is defined by one's sexual orientation, as is heterosexuality. The desire for intimate, sexual relations with a loved one is as natural for a homosexual as a heterosexual. Is the homosexual act itself anatomically natural, no.


Let's have a dialogue.


A dialogue, as opposed to debate, begins with what is shared in common, not what separates them. Both homosexuals and
heterosexuals have the same dreams of a fulfilling life both physically and spiritually and sharing the dream with one's life partner.
Our sexuality is who we are, how we perceive and relate to the world.
 

SkepticThinker

Veteran Member
That does appear to be what he is saying. In fact, he said as much to me. He claimed homosexuals were a different species. Thus...not human.

Then again, according to his line of reasoning, left-handed people, green eyed people, red haired people, people with any variance from what may be considered "the norm" are not human either. Are you in some way different from the majority? Have a genetic difference? Is your sexuality or gender identity different? Do you perhaps have a mental disorder or a physical disorder? guess what...you're not human! :rolleyes:
Well, that's basically everybody. :eek:
 

Rick O'Shez

Irishman bouncing off walls
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ChristineES

Tiggerism
Premium Member
I've always believed that if something is not hurting someone else then we should not judge it. I condemn no one. I am undecided, as I've always have been, whether it is a sin or not (I've said this very thing on the RF before, the first time when I first joined). I don't put any thought into one way or another because of the fact it has nothing to do with me.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
Where on earth did you pull that bizarre comparison from? Are you really that desperate to avoid the point?
It was the end of a weekend that I had worked and I am so sick of this subject anyway. It is not that bad anyway. You seem to think you can counter my argument that homosexuality has no gain that makes up for it's cost by suggesting that homosexuality gets any credits that heterosexuality which is just annoying. I can get two adults or actually two life forms and assign a child to them and call that a family and insist all family units are equal and that whatever goes for one must go for the other which is juts plain wrong. Homosexual sex is not the same as heterosexual sex, not the same as heterosexual relationships, not the same as heterosexual family units, not the same as heterosexual marriage. I am trying to show the absurdity of claiming it is by showing that the same reasoning would also validate things no one is trying to defend.



You’re going to have to explain why two parents and a child DOESN’T constitute a “legitimate” family unit. If it’s just my sister and me left, and I want to call the two of us a legitimate family unit who are you to say we are not? What makes it “legitimate” or not??
Ok but first explain how two psychopaths and a child is not a family. If your going to equate two inequalities then you must adopt all inequalities. IOW if your going to falsely claim a duck and an flamingo are the same then you must grant an flamingo and a elephant are the same. Lets say the standard is heterosexual family units then homosexuality may have a difference factor of 3 but if your going to claim the differences don't matter then at least be consistent and say no differences matter and suggest two trees and a child are the same as heterosexual family units. There is no possible to say two parents who can mate is wrong. What your trying to do is glam on to that legitimacy by setting something different is also ok by the virtue of some similarities by that is arbitrary and contrived but if your going to do it anyway then why stop there? Why are horses and humans not family units, or get out of the confines of organics and state two rocks and a pebble are a family unit. You have no justification for accepting some deviance and excluding all deviance.



I don’t recall referring to nature to describe what a family unit is or is not.
I can't recall what every person who buys into a deviance has used to defend it. The tiny handful of species that show homosexual tendencies (but no strict homosexual examples) are constantly used for justification. Homosexual threads are chocked with a lot of prolific posts so everything gets intertwined. Are you saying that nature is not a justification for the behavior then?

Human beings are not strictly homosexual, nor or other species in the animal kingdom. So what? What’s the point in repeating that?
Yes they are and in fact your side constantly claims homosexuality is not a choice and they live their entire lives strictly homosexual.

Homosexuality was a contributing factor in the downfall of the Roman and Greek empires? How so?
So that part about it being a issue so complex that it is not practical as a primary topic much less as one of many sidebars just didn't find purchase did it? It was not even my primary point in the sidebar. I said immorality destroys empires and homosexuality is among them.

So what? The entire history of human kind is bathed in strife and bloodshed. These are not new things, which is what you seem to be suggesting.
The 20th century had more bloodshed than the other 19 combined. That is not run of the mill. Abortion for the first time in history is on an industrial scale. We have invented the means to wipe out every life form known and the moral insanity to have almost done so at least twice. I am certain that you do not know that the only reason me and you are alive to discuss how horrific the 20th has been is because some technician asked by Gorbechev whether the early launch warning was a launch or a solar event and the technician having more guts than many took his life in his hands and said solar event despite his not knowing for sure. We were minutes from Armageddon, exactly how many times prior to the 20th century did that occur. Now since you want to win a word fight instead of learn from history in all probability you can come back with technology causing this but even if I grant that that is at least a partial cause then that would have made doing it even that much more immoral yet we did it anyway. We can kill more people and we do so in spite of that. Even Caser and Alexander balked at times at the death tolls.

Well then I really have to wonder what you know about human history.
Well then (then as in what?). I am the only one giving historical facts.

Every nation that used to practice slavery which later ended the practice of slavery is responsible for “self condemning slavery.”
Nope, it has been ended by the invading nation and it has become unsustainable, it became impossible, etc....... I have read there are no other nations that did this but I can think of another possible one. I think Babylon voluntarily let at least it's Hebrew slaves free but no parallel to what we did exists. We not only did it but shed a river of blood to suppress those that refused. We then went on to end in in nation after nation around the world.

Um, the US didn’t fight World War II single-handedly. Sorry. Same goes for the Korean War. Same goes for the Afghanistan and Iraqi wars. Nor are you the first or only country to come to the aid of others.
We won it and others helped (using our equipment). In fact without the US arsenal of democracy Russia nor England would have been around to help at all. What won that war was industry and we produced more war goods than every other nation on either side combined. What our industry did in that war is simply unbelievable. In one year we produced more capitol aircraft carriers that all other nations combined for all four years. Russia couldn't move until we gave them tens of thousands of vehicles and England fought across Africa in our tanks. No US and everyone would be eating sauerkraut and rice. It was never a point I made than no one else was shooting in the same direction and it is irrelevant.

This is all subjective opinion (that only focuses on the US’s positive contributions while ignoring the negative), as I said before. Personally, I’d much rather live in Canada than the US. And I’d say that most people who feel the same way about their country as you do yours, would say the same of their country of origin. So whose opinion is the superior one?
The subject was not what nation you like the most but what nation has a record of excellence and benevolence that exceeds any other. First admit that you have no contention to my claims then you can move to Alberta (hey they do have Rush at least).
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
I just couldn't swallow any more of that babble above me. Just gave up on reading it only partway in as the "points" were too ridiculous. I mean honestly, the "comparisons" that were there read insane. Really...you can't compare two different kinds of birds without being willing to compare one to an elephant? Homosexuals having a family is comparable to trees raising children? Or horses? And this person has the unmitigated gall to talk to someone else of having absurd claims? "Oh, your arguments don't work, they are absurd, here let me basically say that homosexuals aren't of the same species as heterosexuals by comparing them to zoo animals, farm animals and plants. Now doesn't that make much more sense?" :confused::rolleyes:
 

MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
I just couldn't swallow any more of that babble above me. Just gave up on reading it only partway in as the "points" were too ridiculous. I mean honestly, the "comparisons" that were there read insane. Really...you can't compare two different kinds of birds without being willing to compare one to an elephant? Homosexuals having a family is comparable to trees raising children? Or horses? And this person has the unmitigated gall to talk to someone else of having absurd claims? "Oh, your arguments don't work, they are absurd, here let me basically say that homosexuals aren't of the same species as heterosexuals by comparing them to zoo animals, farm animals and plants. Now doesn't that make much more sense?" :confused::rolleyes:

Yep, and he will keep claiming how sick and tired he is of this subject but will continue on and on and on.
 

Koldo

Outstanding Member
Homosexuals having a family is comparable to trees raising children?

I had to laugh at that part. It was hilarious. It was so silly that it looked facetious.
The sad part is that he actually doesn't see the difference between an homosexual couple and two trees when it comes down to family units.
 

1robin

Christian/Baptist
Yes we have. And I don’t believe you actually answered the question last time either.
I have answered all three questions in all their hundreds of forms that pro-homosuality folks cough up. I however no longer see the button that will take me back to the question so I can't make absolutely sure.

If sexual attraction really is a choice, why would anyone consciously choose to be openly gay in a world where they know they will be treated with disdain and contempt by people who can’t accept others for who they are when they could easily just “choose” to be attracted to the opposite sex and be treated with respect and dignity?
Modern times are the most accepting of gays in history not that acceptance is necessary for choice. No one is unaware that drugs, driving drunk, over drinking, over eating, etc... are bad ideas yet millions do them everyday. I love how you attack traditional morality by appealing to accepting people as they are which you don't do. Jails are full of folks virtually no one wants to accept as they are. I want to accept the right to live and their own money those who do not practice aberrations but forfeit both to pay for them. What about their rights if your so accepting? No, gays not only demand to do what they desire despite history, but expect the rest of us to pay for it and shut up.

There exists no reason to suggest that whatever is true of heterosexuality does NOT go for homosexuality.
The heck there is not. However I know for a fact I have been over this dozens and dozens of times in thread after thread besides this being perfectly obvious to everyone.

This view has no basis in reality. And it certainly doesn’t explain the people who say they knew from a very young age that they were gay, long before they’d ever engaged in anything you’d call a “homosexual act.” Never mind the genetic and epigenetic components involved.
It is perfectly consistent with reality. Pre-teens drink, do drugs, and have sex, etc..... is that no longer a choice and now good simply because it occurs?

Well then that brings me back to my question: When did you choose to be heterosexual? I really have to wonder how you can believe that sexual attraction is a matter of choice. Could you just decide tomorrow that you’re going to be attracted to men from now on? How would that even work?
And back to my response that the answer has no relevance. Countless sexual acts that have occurred to me have been a choice. Actually every sexual act I have ever engaged in has been a choice and those I used to indulge I had to stop because they were wrong. BTW I am not against an orientation (choice or biology) I am against acting on it if unjustifiable. I am against adultery and promiscuity in either orientation and at least one is biological.

Experimentation is quite common in adolescence but to say you trained yourself to be attracted to a certain gender doesn’t make much sense to me.
I trained myself to restrict countless desires I had to do a thing. Most to late to prevent damage but all before I killed anyone at least.

What positions, and by whom?
The statement you responded to was not a point, it was a preamble or prefix for what followed. You would argue with anything.

As far as we can tell, homosexuality has been around as long as human beings have been around, not to mention its occurrence elsewhere in the animal kingdom. So maybe at this point in time it’s a bit of a misnomer to call it unnatural, given its continued prevalence throughout human history.
Ah, hah you do claim that nature is justification for homosexuality. I will use this to point out just how biased you guys are. Forget every other claim about homosexuality for this. Despite the fact that less than 1% of animal life has homosexual tendencies, despite the fact that these too may be spiritual evidence of a fallen creation, and despite no species practice life long homosexuality you are actually going to use it as justification. So a thing not done in 99% of cases is actually your justification. Now this kind of wishful thinking shows up in every argument and every defense made by those who defend homosexuality. That all by it's self is enough to see that preference and emotion is what I am contending with, not reason.

All that said none of what you said was a response to what I remember stating. Psychopathy has been around as long as man, virtually everything we consider to be unnatural has been.

What you’re talking about is commonly referred to as the “fraternal birth order effect.” It says that the more older brothers a man has, the greater the likelihood that he will have a homosexual orientation. One explanation for it is that when a woman is pregnant with a male fetus, her body is exposed to a male-specific antigen (H-Y antigen, I believe), that causes her immune system to produce antibodies to fight it because it’s foreign to her system. Those antibodies remain in the woman’s system after the pregnancy has ended and build up with each successive pregnancy of a male fetus and after enough has built up, those antibodies can cross the placental barrier and break down the chemicals in the fetus’ brain that would normally produce heterosexuality. The odds are said to increase something like 33% with each successive male child.
Yes I believe that is it.

If this is the case, are you saying the response from the mother’s immune system is unnatural or abnormal (since you equate the two words)? (You were the one who brought up psychopathy, which is a personality disorder.)
Actually it was the secular researchers who said it was abnormal. I am just parroting it to see how others would handle it. Unnatural is used constantly to mean abnormal. Maybe technically, crap technical failures in the lab yet again. Have to go.
 

Uberpod

Active Member
I've always believed that if something is not hurting someone else then we should not judge it. I condemn no one. I am undecided, as I've always have been, whether it is a sin or not (I've said this very thing on the RF before, the first time when I first joined). I don't put any thought into one way or another because of the fact it has nothing to do with me.

First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Socialist.

Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.

Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
I have answered all three questions in all their hundreds of forms that pro-homosuality folks cough up. I however no longer see the button that will take me back to the question so I can't make absolutely sure.

Modern times are the most accepting of gays in history not that acceptance is necessary for choice. No one is unaware that drugs, driving drunk, over drinking, over eating, etc... are bad ideas yet millions do them everyday. I love how you attack traditional morality by appealing to accepting people as they are which you don't do. Jails are full of folks virtually no one wants to accept as they are. I want to accept the right to live and their own money those who do not practice aberrations but forfeit both to pay for them. What about their rights if your so accepting? No, gays not only demand to do what they desire despite history, but expect the rest of us to pay for it and shut up.

The heck there is not. However I know for a fact I have been over this dozens and dozens of times in thread after thread besides this being perfectly obvious to everyone.

It is perfectly consistent with reality. Pre-teens drink, do drugs, and have sex, etc..... is that no longer a choice and now good simply because it occurs?

And back to my response that the answer has no relevance. Countless sexual acts that have occurred to me have been a choice. Actually every sexual act I have ever engaged in has been a choice and those I used to indulge I had to stop because they were wrong. BTW I am not against an orientation (choice or biology) I am against acting on it if unjustifiable. I am against adultery and promiscuity in either orientation and at least one is biological.

I trained myself to restrict countless desires I had to do a thing. Most to late to prevent damage but all before I killed anyone at least.

The statement you responded to was not a point, it was a preamble or prefix for what followed. You would argue with anything.

Ah, hah you do claim that nature is justification for homosexuality. I will use this to point out just how biased you guys are. Forget every other claim about homosexuality for this. Despite the fact that less than 1% of animal life has homosexual tendencies, despite the fact that these too may be spiritual evidence of a fallen creation, and despite no species practice life long homosexuality you are actually going to use it as justification. So a thing not done in 99% of cases is actually your justification. Now this kind of wishful thinking shows up in every argument and every defense made by those who defend homosexuality. That all by it's self is enough to see that preference and emotion is what I am contending with, not reason.

All that said none of what you said was a response to what I remember stating. Psychopathy has been around as long as man, virtually everything we consider to be unnatural has been.

Yes I believe that is it.

Actually it was the secular researchers who said it was abnormal. I am just parroting it to see how others would handle it. Unnatural is used constantly to mean abnormal. Maybe technically, crap technical failures in the lab yet again. Have to go.

1Robin,

I didn't read all the dialogue; so, forgive me if I'm asking the same question. I just have to know, do you believe that homosexuality is not the same as heterosexuality in regards to relationships (intimate, marital, or lustful), biological makeup (as in one is a choice and the other isn't), that its defined as a sin rather than orientation?

Is homosexuality an action to you or a orientation?

I mean, if homosexuality is an action, every person who is against it has a good point in disagreeing with homosexuals in our assertion that many (I wont say all) do not need to practice homosexual acts to be Who we are.

Also, each person regardless of how they are attracted to the person in All aspects of the word, spiritually, physically, emotional, and so forth, has a choice to sleep with whomever they want and still not be defined as straight or gay.

I also don't understand, without using religion, how homosexuality (orientation) is wrong? I have a friend that said, homosexuals have a calling for chastity, helping others, and charity. They are not made to have relationships.

So, that basically takes out part of humanity's calling for building a family. It's like the holocaust, just in words.

I just don't understand the disagreement. It's like watching someone tear at another person because of who they say they are (rather than what they do). Why can't we accept people for who they say they are?

Also, a lot of straight people who disagree with homosexuality cannot fully understand what it means to be homosexual because they are not. So no person can speak 100 percent for another. I don't see why a lot of people feel they can.

It bothers the mess out of me, really.
 
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gsa

Well-Known Member
I've always believed that if something is not hurting someone else then we should not judge it. I condemn no one. I am undecided, as I've always have been, whether it is a sin or not (I've said this very thing on the RF before, the first time when I first joined). I don't put any thought into one way or another because of the fact it has nothing to do with me.

I do not have any problem with this, although I don’t know why you are agnostic on the religious moral status of homosexuality. Is it limited to the question of homosexuality, for example, or does it extend to fornication, adultery or other possible sexual “sins” that involve consenting adults? It does seem strange to me that a Christian, liberal or conservative, would be completely agnostic on the question. Usually they have a position. So for example, assuming that you do not, how do you determine if the sacrament of marriage is available to homosexual couples, or if a member of a homosexual couple can be placed in a leadership position with the church?

As to it having nothing to do with you, it is true that it has nothing to do with you on a personal level (assuming that you do not have gay friends or family or what have you), but I would suggest that the same could equally be said, at least in my case, of women, blacks, Jews, Muslims or Christians for that matter. It would be a little odd to suggest that I give no thought at all to the morality of their status or actions simply because I am not a member of these groups. Nevertheless, it does not mean that I do not take positions on, for example, racism, sexism, etc. From your earlier posts I understand that you take a position against unjust discrimination against LGBT people, but I think you are running into problems because your posts are being read as suggesting indifference to social justice issues.
 

ChristineES

Tiggerism
Premium Member
First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Socialist.

Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.

Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.
Are in insinuating that I don't stand up for people if they are persecuted? I have said before that is not what I do. If that's what you think, then that's what you think. But gays are not the only ones persecuted, my daughter is bullied for being overweight, my sons are bullied for being autistic. Try again, dude.
 

ChristineES

Tiggerism
Premium Member
I do not have any problem with this, although I don’t know why you are agnostic on the religious moral status of homosexuality. Is it limited to the question of homosexuality, for example, or does it extend to fornication, adultery or other possible sexual “sins” that involve consenting adults? It does seem strange to me that a Christian, liberal or conservative, would be completely agnostic on the question. Usually they have a position. So for example, assuming that you do not, how do you determine if the sacrament of marriage is available to homosexual couples, or if a member of a homosexual couple can be placed in a leadership position with the church?

As to it having nothing to do with you, it is true that it has nothing to do with you on a personal level (assuming that you do not have gay friends or family or what have you), but I would suggest that the same could equally be said, at least in my case, of women, blacks, Jews, Muslims or Christians for that matter. It would be a little odd to suggest that I give no thought at all to the morality of their status or actions simply because I am not a member of these groups. Nevertheless, it does not mean that I do not take positions on, for example, racism, sexism, etc. From your earlier posts I understand that you take a position against unjust discrimination against LGBT people, but I think you are running into problems because your posts are being read as suggesting indifference to social justice issues.
You read too much as to what I am saying. Homosexuality itself is what I don't bother with, not with persecution. Persecution's always wrong, no matter who it's against. Heck, it's not even homosexuality that I am not concerned with, just sexual relations between various people of various sexual orientations.
 

ChristineES

Tiggerism
Premium Member
I thought we were speaking of homosexuality and sexual relations, not of persecution. Did I somehow misread the OP?
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
22 pages.

*sigh*


I like the 22 pages.

Al and Rob have had their go. They have vehemently supported their beliefs, in a free place open to everyone. They have also been refuted, ad nauseum.

Here in the USA, it took women about a century to get basic civil parity. Suffragettes were limited by the communication technology of the time, the print media. Slow and primitive as it was, it was better than what came before.

Here in the USA, it took black people decades to achieve the same civil parity. But the evening news helped get the job done. Broadcast media was better at promoting morality than anything that came before.

Here in the USA, gay rights are advancing a bit quicker than womens or blacks. That is because we have the internet, and weak arguments like the Rob and Al show are getting shown for what they are. Any rational person can read them for themselves right there in black and white. Al can equivocate on the word "natural". Rob can do his bad statistical analysis. The people who prefer to believe that homosexuality is an abomination will fail to see how weak the arguments Al and Rob present really are.

But not everybody. Especially not young people who are looking for the truth.

So gay rights will continue to advance and antigay religionists will continue to invent bad arguments. And a decade from now 1Robin will be an embarrassment to his progeny, just like the racists of the 60's are an embarrassment to their grandchildren, mostly.

Let them talk and make their own rope. Here's to another 22 pages!

Tom
 

Uberpod

Active Member
Are in insinuating that I don't stand up for people if they are persecuted? I have said before that is not what I do. If that's what you think, then that's what you think. But gays are not the only ones persecuted, my daughter is bullied for being overweight, my sons are bullied for being autistic. Try again, dude.
I was trying to suggest that you not put your head in the sand because something doesn't apply to you. One day that could come back to haunt you. And, it's about marginalization more than persecution.
 
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ChristineES

Tiggerism
Premium Member
I was trying to suggest that you not put your head in the sand because something doesn't apply to you. One day that could come back to haunt you. And, it's about marginalization more than prosecution.
I want to be clear. I meant that I don't concern myself with what others do in their own homes, not the people themselves. I love all people. I stand up against racism, homophobia, & sexism. I have gotten myself into trouble for speaking my mind, although I don't yell. I try to keep calm. All I meant is that I mind my own business.
I can understand, however, why you would think that I meant something else. Some things can't be clear unless.
:)
 
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