I know they're not equivalent. Getting an E.coli infection from improper food handling is much more serious than just being offended by a bigot and denied a cake.
The point I was getting at - and that I think you confirmed with your answer - is that even you don't think that religious freedom is absolute.
We both agree that religious freedom has limits; we just disagree on where to draw the line.
Draw the line here: where there is a possibility of harm to someone who has not consented to participate, that's where you draw the line.
That takes care of infant sacrifices, not washing one's hands, upwind messy burial ceremonies, and forcing people to bake cakes for your wedding just because you are gay and he's not.
See, that's the problem here: if that baker had refused to bake that cake because the prospective couple had a divorce in their background (Baker is Catholic) or refuses to do a non-Kosher cake for a 'gentile' couple, or simply because the bride (or groom or whatever) wants purple icing with puce roses, nobody would have a problem.
But because the couple is gay, THEIR rights seem to supercede all other rights. It is they who are doing the harm here.
............and I say again; should a gay couple want me to do a cake for them, I'd happily bake one, and join in the dancing at the reception. No problem at all.
But if they so much as HINT that I don't have the right to say 'no,' that's it.
We all have the absolute RIGHT to be bigots. The rest of us might not like that, and that's a good thing. The REST of us can provide the services needed.
But I want that bigot up front and without excuse; I want to know who he is.