Kimberlee,
I sympathize with you when you write, "...if you are a christian you are suppose to witness to others out of compassion. a christian is suppose to want to help others find God so they have eternal life as well."
During my childhood, my mother raised me to be Roman Catholic. I can still remember feeling so worried for my father who was a nonbeliever. I wanted to "save" him for his own sake. My mother gently reassured me that God would not begrudge him for not having faith. It wasn't his fault he couldn't see the truth, she explained. No loving God, she assured me, would deny such a fine, kind, moral person his deserved place in Heaven.
In grade 7, when rationality finally overtook my faith, I soon realized the implications of her insightful words. A god worth loving certainly would not condemn a person for not believing in Him. There is nothing "wrong" with honestly not believing in a god. Lack of belief is not a deliberate act of defiance that warrants punishment. Further, living a moral life is what isand ought to be important. So, unwittingly, my mother was saying that belief in a god is irrelevant. What matters is how we conduct ourselves on this planet. That realization leads to a more profound implication: If there is a moral "right" and "wrong", (a moral absolute, if you will) why would this standard not apply even to a god? It is not sufficient to reply that, since He invented the rules, He doesn't have to follow them. For example, should a god ask me to slay my son as a sacrifice to test my obedience or faith (as Abraham was asked)? The right response is to refuse this request because it is morally wrong and abhorent to murder one's son. What is my point?
As an atheist, who by definition has no belief in any god(s) or any other related supernatural beings like devils, angels, spirits, etc., I do, however, strongly value human rights, truth, knowledge, and this amazing life on Earth. Yes, as a Christian boy, I wanted my father to see Heaven, but now, as an Atheist, I want Christians to see "heaven"the real one. It's right under your nose and I'm afraid you're missing it.
You are wearing rose coloured blinders and I emplore you to take them off.